I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 18 July 2011: Nothing ventured nothing gained, and I wouldn't call a huge risk. You just need to shrug your shoulders and move on. It's not like you had a long relationship or anything. Course you wouldn't know that looking at this thread.... (read in full...)
Could there be a reason why everyone around me is blonde?
Q. I know this may seem like the stupidest question every asked. and im really in no need of any dyer advice here but can some one tell me why every one and i mean every one out side of my family that i know is blond? i have brown hair for one thing ...
A. 11 July 2011: If a siren goes off...hide.... (read in full...)
Could there be a reason why everyone around me is blonde?
Q. I know this may seem like the stupidest question every asked. and im really in no need of any dyer advice here but can some one tell me why every one and i mean every one out side of my family that i know is blond? i have brown hair for one thing ...
A. 11 July 2011: Do you have a time machine? Maybe they are Eloi.... (read in full...)
I'm 24, she's 14 but she loves me and I don't want to hurt her
Q. Hi i was looking for advice and found this site, I wrote my whole question out and it got deleted some how. So I have to write again, Basically this girl who is a close family friend came onto me while i was at a Summer BBQ at her house, asked...
A. 11 July 2011: I can see that you two connect, whether it's because she's more on your level or you are on hers, either way it's a moot point. You think girls your age are bitter and irritating, wait till you meet the guys on Cell Block B.... (read in full...)
Do I need to keep my opinions to myself or embrace my outspoken nature?
Q. lately people around me tend to think i am being a pain in the but or a jerk. i can not really figure out why this would be? i am one of the those people or at least i have become one of late who speaks there mind who doesn't take shit from any ...
A. 11 July 2011: You are making yourself walk a very fine line between good manners and being forthright. They aren't mutually exclusive but in your case they appear to be just that. Being aware and sensitive of other's feelings is not being dishonest to yourself. ... (read in full...)
How can l show him am attracted to him without telling him?
Q. l am a lady aged 26. I am attracted to a guy l work with. How can l show him am attracted to him without telling him?...
A. 9 July 2011: Ask him out for coffee or a drink.... (read in full...)
Want to make a new start to find a partner but how to decide where?
Q. After a LOT of thought over a LONG time, I have decided that I need to move away. I have been single for a long time and while happy with myself I do want to find somewhere to share my life with. Unfortunately because I do not want children, this ...
A. 7 July 2011: Pick any large city you like. More fish in the pond.... (read in full...)
Ex of 3 years ago wrote me and apologized. Now what?
Q. I was so happy when the guy that broke up with me almost 3 years ago, finally kept in touch with me again. My heart was so pounding and I can't believe my eyes when I read his long email to me yesterday. He said that he was sorry for his attitude, ...
A. 7 July 2011: I agree SVC, it sounds like one of the steps in a recovery program. And I also think a simple thank you is all that's called for here. You don't want to go over the same real estate that you have covered these last three years, do you?... (read in full...)
Is my crush heading for a crash?
Q. has anyone fallen in love with their driving instuctor and its actually worked out? ...
A. 7 July 2011: Nice title, which one of you Mods came up with it? I bet I know. OP, my driving instructor was at least 50 with a huge pot belly so I can't help, sorry.... (read in full...)
I don't want to lead him on. But does it sound like my teacher has feelings for me?
Q. Ok so there is a teacher at my school and I don't call people amazing unless they are, but he really is amazing. I do not have a crush on him or anything, I guess I see him as a friend. But people at school keep saying he has feelings for me and to ...
A. 7 July 2011: Don't worry about leading him on, he's a big boy. He most likely just considers you to be one of his favorite students, like he wrote in your autograph book. And you say you don't have a crush on him, not buying it. But nonetheless all this will ... (read in full...)
He asked me to marry him....do you really think he could've changed?
Q. So my boyfriend and I( 15 and 17) have been on and off for about 6 months. I never thought me and him could be together when i first saw him because he's all like handsome with blue eyes, and a super athletic body; he plays football and runs ...
A. 6 July 2011: You have got to be kidding me...holy moley. Some people have to have a 2x4 upside the head to clear their brains...... (read in full...)
Sex with a high class prostitute
Q. Is that less reprehensible? It is interesting to see how people judge prostitutes very harshly and yet someone who has lots of casual sex, one night stands and has a very high number is not considered trashy, just living their life. I guess wh...
A. 6 July 2011: I suggest you speak with your local district attorney, he may have some information that could clear up this matter for you. ... (read in full...)
Pregnant by abusive BF who drinks every night and tried to get me to strip for his friends... but I love him and want to help him change
Q. me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 months now after 6 months of being together. The 6 months where incredible best 6 months of my life and he really and truly did treat me like a princess but ever since we started living together...
A. 6 July 2011: Is "Chronic Phase" an oxymoron? I just love oxymorons...... (read in full...)
I know he is looking at other women when we are together, so why does he bother lying about it???
Q. My boyfriend oogles other women, and even when it's totally obvious and I ask him right in the moment, he will deny it, get angry with me and call me a jealous, insecure women. Why will he not just own up to it?...
A. 6 July 2011: Men look at women so much that I think half the time they aren't actually aware they are doing it. Just tell him it makes you uncomfortable when you are out and about with him and maybe he'll just tone it down a bit. Of course you do realize he'll ... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 6 July 2011: Piss or get off the pot. Sheesh.... (read in full...)
My virgin husband is making me get an std test before he will marry me...
Q. My fiance is making me get an STD test before he marries me. He is a virgin and I'm not. I have been with 2 guys before him. He told me he just wants to be sure I am clean before he marries me because he does not want to catch an std. He is ...
A. 6 July 2011: Years ago, people in some US states had to get a blood test in order to get a marriage license. This sounds like routine maintenance to me. Get it done, both of you.... (read in full...)
He told me that sometimes he hates that I wasn't a virgin!
Q. I have a problem, i had lost my virginity a few years ago which was the biggest mistake of my life well i hadnt let my self date since then nine months ago i met my current bf i had told him everything that i had been through since he was still a ...
A. 6 July 2011: Whatever, the bottom line is that he doesn't truly respect you and no relationship is a good one when the participants do not respect each other. I'd move on if I were you, this will never get any better.... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my friend is actually my brother?
Q. Ok this is gunna sound like a strange question but how can I find out if my friend could be my brother? I,ve been talking to a guy (23) from england online for over 4 years and I feel kinda close 2 him. But a couple weeks ago when it was fathers day ...
A. 6 July 2011: He doesn't know his dad's name? His mother doesn't know his dad's name?... (read in full...)
Which Mr. Right is right?
Q. I have been dating guy A for a year and he is perfect in almost every way. I started dating him though after a breakup with a boyfriend of almost 5 years. There was no time in between for me to be single. Guy A is madly in love with me. We have ...
A. 6 July 2011: You simply are not ready to settle down. You do know you don't HAVE to have an exclusive relationship at this point. That is entirely reason people need to have the freedom to date around. This America...enjoy your freedom. Do not settle until you ... (read in full...)
Having an issue with my boyfriend's close friend
Q. I dated a guy, for about 3 weeks, who later broke my heart and made me very miserable for a year or so by coming around, not giving me time to get closure, moving behind my back by asking my best friend at work out (she told me later and she was not ...
A. 6 July 2011: THREE WEEKS?... (read in full...)
His parents are driving him away from me, literally!
Q. Today I have a emtpy feeling and I'm bored. I want to go get my hair done. I want change. Because im going through a change with my bf messing up and it's suddeningly over. So it's day 1 he hasn't tried to call yet today. Im looking to change since ...
A. 6 July 2011: Go get your hair done, and get a pair of kick-ass shoes, you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
Not ready to be a mom but also won't consider abortion! My boyfriend is an alcoholic and my family is extremely religious. Help!
Q. ok so if you have been keeping up with my other questions you will know the whole story but if not i will make it a 'long story cut short' ok so i am in a lets just say 'rocky' relationship and i have now wound up pregnant. i have just turned 19 s...
A. 6 July 2011: adoption... (read in full...)
Pregnant by abusive BF who drinks every night and tried to get me to strip for his friends... but I love him and want to help him change
Q. me and my boyfriend have been living together for 2 months now after 6 months of being together. The 6 months where incredible best 6 months of my life and he really and truly did treat me like a princess but ever since we started living together...
A. 5 July 2011: Rent one of those big sumo wrestling suits, the inflatable kind and put it on. Then tell your boyfriend you have a bun in the oven. This way when he beats the crap out of you you'll still be in good shape to enjoy the next day when he will be supper ... (read in full...)
What do I do? I am head over heels in love with him. But he dumped me as I cannot have more children
Q. what do i do when i am head over heels with someone and after two months of getting somewhere with me he dumps me because i cannot have any more children? Would this be a deal breaker for some men? How do I handle this?...
A. 5 July 2011: How do you handle this? You thank your lucky stars you didn't waste more than a couple of months on the guy, that's what you do. This was never going to end well.... (read in full...)
Why is my husband getting into new things in the bedroom? Is he getting bored with our sex life?
Q. I am a 31 year old woman. I am the one who wrote about a week ago about her husband wanting a striptease (from me) for his birthday. This has not happened yet as his birthday is next weekend. We were having sex on Saturday about which I still ge...
A. 5 July 2011: Sit back and enjoy the ride, Sister!... (read in full...)
Why do my nipples burn with great pain?
Q. Right, so long story short, I have been trying to conceive with no luck for just over a year. Periods have always been messed up. I'm not using any contraception. I have missed 7 periods in a row in the past and my doctor thought in the early months ...
A. 4 July 2011: Pain is the body's main alarm system. You need to see a doctor. Don't rest until you get some answers, from MEDICAL minds, not minds sitting around on the internet swilling beer on a hot 4th of July, okay maybe that's just me, but you get my drift.... (read in full...)
Why is Divorce Ok? I am put off if I find a person is divorced.
Q. Im asking the question: Why isnt it shameful to be divorced? Why would anyone admit it? to me it makes the person look selfish and non commital really.. I have to admit it puts me off a person quite a lot. What does everyone else think? ...
A. 4 July 2011: You need to take those blinders off and move into the technicolor world me boyo. Nothing everything is black or white.... (read in full...)
If you are not beautiful? Beauty is so useless. Why do people give such a damn about it?
Q. I hate my body and can't accept it! let's just say that my body looks nothing like the 36-24-36 ideal of the media. And sure people say that it's the inside that matters but people are so hypocritical! Especially men! Because they say they want a ...
A. 4 July 2011: Yeah, blind men need girlfriends too. ... (read in full...)
Why can some people not compliment others?
Q. Why are some people unable to compliment others? I have a co-worker who is also female and she never offers me a compliment no matter how good I look on a particular day. However I compliment her a lot. What may be the reason for this?...
A. 4 July 2011: Maybe she thinks your compliments are insincere? Who knows, but my question is why is her approval so important to you? If you know you're looking good then that's all that matters. Sure, an occational compliment is nice but it should hardly be an ... (read in full...)
My married lover now wants a threesome!
Q. I have been in a "relationship" with a married man for 7 years. We see each other every now and again and really enjoy each other physically, emotionally and psychologically. He was always honest with regards to his status and that was fine with me. ...
A. 4 July 2011: Yep, he's about to trade up. I hope you kept your day job.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 4 July 2011: or watching paint dry... (read in full...)
I am very depressed over the way my calves look! Can ANYTHING be done with them?
Q. Even though this isn't a relationship question, please, please help me. This is bothering me so much that I am literally almost in tears as I write this. I hate my legs, so much that I have become depressed. I am cursed with the most freakishly ...
A. 4 July 2011: I hope you never move next door to me, my husband would be hanging over the fence every chance he got. ... (read in full...)
Does it bother you if you are aware that your husband is seeing another woman for sex, but he will stay in your marriage and take all other responsibilities?
Q. If you are the wife... By reading so many questions /dramas caused by husbands' cheating (on wivies' side and the other women's side), it seems that most husbands cheat for 'sex'. If the sexual ife is not as good as it used to be (e.g., you...
A. 4 July 2011: Hell yes it would bother me. It would also bother me if he liked some other woman's meatloaf better than mine. Recipes for both need to be adjusted from time to time. Marriage is marriage whether you are 25 or 75.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 4 July 2011:
Even tho' I'm enjoying having the day off...hurry come tomorrow...this is like waiting for the water to boil.... (read in full...)
She has torn my family apart but will not speak to her family about our relationship!
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-left-my-wife-for-her-and-now.html this is my previous post.... now to update a little... i have received 3 phone calls this week from ELF and she has finally told me her reasons for ending it: She d...
A. 3 July 2011: Very good, now is the time to focus on your little girl, your new job, and yourself. Leave the mistakes in the past and look to your future. Strive to make yourself into the man both you, and more importantly your daughter, can be proud of.
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She has torn my family apart but will not speak to her family about our relationship!
Q. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-left-my-wife-for-her-and-now.html this is my previous post.... now to update a little... i have received 3 phone calls this week from ELF and she has finally told me her reasons for ending it: She d...
A. 1 July 2011: Yeah she has good reason to be dragging her feet about telling her parents about all this. I mean how to you put a good spin on it? "Hi Mom and Dad, Just thought I'd let you know that I have been screwing around with an older married guy with a kid ... (read in full...)
He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!
Q. Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...
A. 1 July 2011: Heck no, just walk away.... (read in full...)
Does anyone else sneeze when they get horny?
Q. Does anyone else sneeze when they get horny? I have had this happen to me for many years. Whenever I get really horny, or think of something very erotic, I often start a sneezing fit. It's like the blood or adrenaline rushes to my head and ...
A. 30 June 2011: I'll bet you have to be very careful around your girlfriend if you guys are out and about and you happen to have a cold! By the way don't visit NC during pollen season, you could get yourself in some major hot water.... (read in full...)
My wife implicitly condones an affair. Instead of elated, I am mortified!
Q. I have been with my wife for 20 years. In that time our sex life has been meager. Lately, if we have sex once per year we are doing good. My wife and I have started (for the fourth time - this happens every years or so) to talk about the proble...
A. 30 June 2011: Are you saying the entire time you have known your wife, your sex life has been so lousy?... (read in full...)
If he likes me, why is he flirting with other girls??
Q. So my best friend recently told me that her older brother likes me. I have always liked him so i started flirting w/ him a little; nothing too obvious though. She told me he wanted to make a move. But for the past couple of days now it seems like he ...
A. 30 June 2011: He'll let you know if he's interested. Just don't waste any time sitting around and waiting for him to call. For crying out loud, go have some fun while you are footlosse and fancy free.... (read in full...)
Friend's brother is ignoring me because I like him and there is an age difference between us. What do I do?
Q. I have a really close friend , She is perhaps one of my best friends. But every time I'm with her i think of her brother.He's the problem. She has no problem at all with me liking him well except she calls it gross and you know the family thing. We ...
A. 30 June 2011: He's not interested, get over it. If you don't move on you are going to make yourself look ridiculous.... (read in full...)
Is he a player? Does he love me? Or is it all just a joke?
Q. Okay, well i have Question .. There is this guy i met, and im not shure if he likes mee .. On his facebook it says he is in a relationship, and there is this girl that writes on his wall, ' i love you ' . and he said it back, and then when i ...
A. 30 June 2011: What should you do? I suggest you try to relax and get through your teenage years with as little collateral damage as possible. Consult frequently with your mother and father.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 29 June 2011: We (and you) have until next week to think about it.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 29 June 2011: How's about you post back next week and let us know what happens?... (read in full...)
He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!
Q. Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...
A. 29 June 2011: Are you having sex with the guy?... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 28 June 2011: Buddy you need to relax.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 27 June 2011: You said earlier you don't want her to feel pressured so don't pressure her. Give it a week and then check in to say "hi how is you Dad doing?" sort of thing. Trust me you'll find out sooner or later whether she's interested.... (read in full...)
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