I think I screwed up by getting drunk on our date! He has updated his online dating profile but is 'too busy' to contact me, is that is it for us now?
Q. I met a guy on match.com about two months ago. We talked for about three weeks and then finally met. We really hit it off and for the next month saw each other three to five times a week with texting in between. I think there were only one or two ...
A. 10 October 2011: Time to move on honey. This guy has.... (read in full...)
Should I write to my ex wife?
Q. I am divorced from my ex wife for half a year and I miss her very much. We were separated for a while before that, and the marriage was very problematic before that for years although I felt we were still strong enough to fix things. Im wonder...
A. 8 October 2011: Nope. Let her get on with her life and do need to do the same. It's over, the fat lady has taken her bow and left the building.... (read in full...)
If I was so repulsive then how can he not think that now?
Q. My spouse is 1/2 my age and had an affair with a woman closer to his age (actually his step daughter, my own child). I am 40 and durring his affair he told her, and his best friend and a few other people that touching me was disgusting. He ...
A. 7 October 2011: I totally agree with Mishmash and KC, you are entirely asking the wrong question. You should not be fretting over whether he finds you sexy or not. The guy screwed your daughter. He has publically sullied your daughter's and your good names. Why on ... (read in full...)
Love bites: sexy or disgusting?
Q. Love bites, "hickeys", do you like giving them? Do you like receiving them? Do you find them a turn on or romantic? Or do you think they're silly or a way of "marking your territory"? Do you think they're hot or just plain gross? ...
A. 7 October 2011: Finally, a hickey question! They are goofy.... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 6 October 2011: Happy Birthday. "I'm only 15 and I don't need any commitments at this time".... (read in full...)
How should I control my jealously and this shock that my girlfriend defeated me in a game of soccer?
Q. Six months back, I started teaching Soccer to my girlfriend. We have been together two years. Two days ago, we had one-to-one match and I got shocked to death that she beat me by 6 goals to 3, out smarting me in every aspect of the game. It got ...
A. 6 October 2011: "won" not "one" mia culpa... (read in full...)
My BF of two months gave me a promise ring. But how do I handle this? Another guy wants me to go with him instead.
Q. I don't know if I'm making the right choice or not!!!! Okay so my BF of two months gave me a promise ring at my Homecoming dance. I accepted it thinking it was so sweet and he was my Mr. Right. Well now I don't known if I'm making the right choice...
A. 6 October 2011: You have many postings on DC concerning all your many boyfriend dramas. I suggest you just repeat over and over again "I'm only 14 and I don't need any commitments at this time".... (read in full...)
What to do? The Cook and I made out in the back room of the restaurant. Do we continue? He's married.
Q. I work at a restaurant as a server. I get along with everyone I work with fairly well, but the cooks exceptionally. All the cooks are men (but I've always been more partial to having male friends than females) Somehow I managed to attract the atte...
A. 6 October 2011: Listen to the part of you that is telling you that this is so wrong. Because it is.... (read in full...)
How should I control my jealously and this shock that my girlfriend defeated me in a game of soccer?
Q. Six months back, I started teaching Soccer to my girlfriend. We have been together two years. Two days ago, we had one-to-one match and I got shocked to death that she beat me by 6 goals to 3, out smarting me in every aspect of the game. It got ...
A. 6 October 2011: My husband taught me how to play Chess. The first time I beat him he had a similar reaction. But since he was a grownup he got over it. I suggest you do the same. And by the way, since then he's one a few but then so have I. I told him he should be ... (read in full...)
Should I give my husband another chance and risk losing the life I really want, or should I finally file for divorce?
Q. This is sort of complicated...but not at the same time. Just a decision I have to make and would like some input. My husband and I separated almost two years ago. We had a very bad emotionally abusive relationship. He never worked, expected me to do ...
A. 5 October 2011: I have to weigh in on the divorce side. I know that sometimes a leopard can change his spots but it doesn't happen often enough to take this risk. Get your divorce and you new life.... (read in full...)
Help! Advice? Am I driving my daughter away? Am I being too controlling?
Q. My daughter will be 21 on her next birthday. She is a high achiever but also could be a handful at times. From the ages from 16 to 18 she was out a lot, yes she was doing her A levels, part time job and cared for her horse. She also did go out with...
A. 5 October 2011: I totally agree with the aunts. I have three grown children and I know how hard it is to smile and wave as they go out into the world, but it is a rite of passage for both them AND you. Cut those apron strings Mom. You have now passed on to the next ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, and I want to kiss my teacher!
Q. I have a huge crush on my form teacher and no one knows but every day when I come in to form I get more and more desperate to kiss him. I dont know how to do it though, or to do it at all. Also i really want to tell my friend but i am also worried ...
A. 3 October 2011: I'm 59 and I want to kiss Johnny Depp, what should I do?... (read in full...)
I met him on a trip, but after we got home he became distant. What happened?
Q. I met a guy while working in Alaska this summer. He'd been there for about 6 months and I was scheduled to be there for two. It was a really great opportunity for me to get out of my home town and away from all these people that I didn't like and ...
A. 3 October 2011: You do nothing. If he's interested, he'll seek you out. But sometimes a summer romance nevers gets much further than Labor day. I'd also be totally thrilled to be hanging in Paris for a couple of months! Try to get out there and enjoy yourself. ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 weeks pregnant but still have signs of blood when I use the bathrrom
Q. im 13 weeks pregnent and when i go to toilet ( number 2) i always have blood when i wipe myself or in the toilet sumtimes its lots other times its not but never strong enought to go onto my underwear Whats wrong with me ??????...
A. 29 September 2011: Talk to your doctor.... (read in full...)
We flirt all the time, then he goes silent on facebook. Does it mean anything?
Q. So I work with this guy and we flirt all the time and are friends on facebook. So I sent him message saying it would be nice to know him better but he never responded, however he is rarely on facebook what does it mean any suggestions?...
A. 29 September 2011: I sit in front of a computer all day. The last thing I feel like doing in my spare time is to check, update etc... my Facebook account. Talk to him.... (read in full...)
Will more women be interested if I lose some weight?
Q. I am a guy who was always on the smaller, scrawnier side. I could eat Ding Dongs and drink soda all day and I weighed 165 at 5'10" at age 17. Long story short, I am now 6 feet tall and 210. I think an ideal weight for me is about 190. I th...
A. 29 September 2011: There's only one way to find out for sure.... (read in full...)
Do all guys use girls?
Q. Why do all the guys i know say they like but just want to use me for sex? Then the guys i do like will like my friends or just stay long enough to get wat they want then wen they do they stop talking to me until they want something else? Are all ...
A. 29 September 2011: They are treating you like garbage but more importantly YOU are treating you like garbage. Wise up chickie, this is your only life, take care of yourself.... (read in full...)
Is it a good idea to get pregnant, aged 16?
Q. im 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months we've been sexually active for 2 months straight and well he has told me he wants to have a baby. i dont really want to have a baby right now because im going through some legal problems ...
A. 28 September 2011: Why not wait until one or BOTH you have CAREERS not just jobs? I just heard on the news a couple of days ago that the cost of raisning a child to age 18 is estimated to be $226,920. Hard to do if you have no education and only one job earner. ... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 28 September 2011: Rely on Karma but you then must turn away from it and let that high-riding bitch do her stuff. It's been 3 years Mae, time to let go. If you really can't then you need a professional, it certainly will be money well spent.... (read in full...)
Ladies, which do you prefer - the cook or the dancer?
Q. Just out of curiosity to all the women out there, which do you prefer - a man who knows his way around the kitchen or a man who knows his way around the dance floor? And why? (I'm just taking a poll of sorts after an interesting discussion among...
A. 28 September 2011: Well if I can't have one that cleans the bathroom I guess I'll have to go with the cook.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel bad after a threesome?
Q. Hey guys, quick question, is it normal that a person feels disgusted with themselves after a three way? Lately it's like I feel like I'm close to tears and I can't stop thinking about it. ...
A. 27 September 2011: Thanks for the research Tish, puts a new slant on things.... (read in full...)
How much trouble would we be in if we have sex at a movie theatre and get caught?
Q. I am 19 and I have been with my bf Brett for 2 yrs. Our 2 yr anniversary is on wednesday and I wanted to do something special so I asked him what he would like to do. I was kinda shocked when he sadi he had 2 things he had always wanted to do the ...
A. 27 September 2011: Do neither they are both really, really bad ideas. Listen to the aunts.... (read in full...)
Should I wait for him or just end the relationship now?
Q. 0kay so im 17 and my bf is 18. we've been together for 4 months, but in the last week before our 4 month, we began to fool around a bit. one night when i was home alone i asked him to come over. which he did and he ended sleeping over. that night we ...
A. 26 September 2011: Yeah smoke signals and snail mail are about all you are left with. As long as you live under your parent's roof and are eating their food, drinking their water, etc...you live by their rules. If your boyfriend is worth a grain of salt he'll wait ... (read in full...)
Advice on moving forward with girlfriend,
Q. Hey all, So I met this girl over the summer and have been seeing her for about two months now. She is amazing. She has made me happier than i have ever imagined. I almost didn't go back to school because of her. I just have a few question...
A. 26 September 2011: What an absolutely delightful post! It is reassuring to know there are young fellows such as yourself out there. We get so many ugly posts about guys acting badly, it's nice to hear from one who has his priorities straight. Ignore your friends and ... (read in full...)
Can this be a relationship? He is straight and I am gay. He's a co-worker.
Q. i would like to ask help or advice regarding my relationship to my co-worker. i am so very confused about our relationship because between the two of us there is a mutual understanding between our friendship. probably he knows that i care for him ...
A. 26 September 2011: Friendship is a relationship.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to feel bad after a threesome?
Q. Hey guys, quick question, is it normal that a person feels disgusted with themselves after a three way? Lately it's like I feel like I'm close to tears and I can't stop thinking about it. ...
A. 26 September 2011: All you can do is to learn from it and not repeat it. I know I would feel the same as you if I had a threesome. The real issue is how you got suckered into having one in the first place. Take a good hard look at that.... (read in full...)
I gave my stepfather a BJ. Did he take advantage of me or was it my fault? I don't want to hurt my mum
Q. I'm really confused about my relationship with my step father. He's 27 and I'm 16. My Mom Married him 3 years ago, even though she's 12 years older then him, and everyone was against it. But anyway, a few weeks ago when i came home from school, ...
A. 26 September 2011: I'm willing to bet the farm that this poster isn't checking her responses any more, since it's been FOUR years now.... (read in full...)
I broke up b/f of 5 years and he hasn't contacted me since then!
Q. I broke up with my bf of five years because of the lack of sex. I broke up with him on Sunday, and then I left his home, but he still hasn't contacted me. He has not asked for me back, he has not called or text or anything. Did I not mean anything ...
A. 23 September 2011: Consider yourself lucky, there are lots of people posting on here about not being able to get shed of their ex(s). ... (read in full...)
18 year old with crush on 14 year old?
Q. hi guys i am 18 and i have a developing crush on a 14 year old girl and i just wanted to get peoples views on this is it weird to you or doesn't it matter to you? ...
A. 23 September 2011: Repeat after me, "jailbait".... (read in full...)
How many men still find their wife attractive as she ages?
Q. I hear a lot about men desiring younger women, and of wives being heart broken over their husbands leaving them for a younger woman. So i'm curious, how many men still find their wife attractive as she ages? and after kids? do you still desire her...
A. 22 September 2011: I asked my husband of 36 years and he said I'm like a fine wine aged to perfection. Now if he can wipe that deer-in-the-headlights look off his face I'll be happy.... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 22 September 2011: It's not cheating it's called "playing the field". As long as you don't lie about it, it's all good. Plus at your age it's much safer because there is no sex involved.... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? Ducky, Arby or Dorky??
Q. Help me pleased I don't know what to do! Okay so I have a few diferent guys asking me out and I got no Idea who to pick. 1 guy is my ex BF (call him Ducky) Him and I were dating for like a week then I had to break up with him cuz of drama in my l...
A. 22 September 2011: Whose says you have to choose? Date all three. You don't have to be in a committed relationship especially at your age.... (read in full...)
Does these seem like normal husband behavior? Or is he embarrassed by me?
Q. I am curious about this. I know my husband loves me but I feel that he is embarrassed by me. Here is my reason: he doesn't seem to want me to speak or hang out with any of his friends (both male and female,) and behaves as if when I do spea...
A. 21 September 2011: You sure your husband loves you? I'd sit him down and ask him about ALL of this. It doesn't sound like he loves or respects you very much. I'd get this out in the open immediately. If he doesn't recognize this very bad behavior AND take steps to ... (read in full...)
Help me to figure him out
Q. I know women are supposed to be the confusing ones, the ones that dont know what they want, and are hard to read. But this man, i just cant figure out. what exactly does he want from me? ok lets call him Chuck* I started talking to chuck, ab...
A. 21 September 2011: Ditto, ditto, and ditto.... (read in full...)
He contacted me. Now he's ignoring me. Is he having second thoughts because he's married? Or jealous that another guy is interested in me?
Q. An old high school flame contacted me on facebook after 10 years. We were in love and we had to break up due to his move to another high school. He met a woman nothing but a year after we broke up and he is married to her now with a child. I am...
A. 21 September 2011: If you are smart you'll just let it go. Curiosity killed the cat.... (read in full...)
The old "love of my life" wants to catch up and talk, do I tell my BF?
Q. The old "love of my life" wants to catch up and talk, do I tell my BF? I know I'd want to know if my BF was meeting his ex. But I'm thinking guys don't care that much. What's the proper way to deal with this?...
A. 21 September 2011: Ask your boyfriend to go along with you when you meet up with the old flame.... (read in full...)
My mother can't afford the wedding, my b/f's family can but won't help!
Q. Me and my fiance are planning our wedding. I've always wanted to get married in a cathedral, and have a ball-gown style dress, and of course marry the man of my dreams. Unfortunately...my mom who would be fronting the bill, can't afford how much the ...
A. 20 September 2011: I guess you'll just have to scale down on your wedding plans. I also think a big expensive wedding is a waste of money anyway. A small but tasteful wedding can be so lovely.And since you can't/won't be helping with the cost, then I would add that ... (read in full...)
Should I have a baby with this married man?
Q. I have a serious question that I know will ruffle A LOT of feathers but I'm sorry, I really need advice, I've been seeing a married man for a while and were very close, best friends more than lovers. Recently I have been getting urges to have a ...
A. 20 September 2011: "Honey it's 3 a.m. and the baby's crying but I've got the flu, can you take care of him" oh that's right you are with your wife.
"Honey look, the baby just took his first step!" oh that's right you are with your wife.
"Let's just sit here an... (read in full...)
The "stranger" bartender...
Q. Dear Cupid, I saw this guy in a pub. He is working there as a bartender. When I ordered a drink I realised I liked him. I was gazing him with such admire. But then I just gave up, I thought myself that I won't see him again in my life, probably. ...
A. 20 September 2011: You don't need any tricks, just go up to him and start a conversation.... (read in full...)
The "stranger" bartender...
Q. Dear Cupid, I saw this guy in a pub. He is working there as a bartender. When I ordered a drink I realised I liked him. I was gazing him with such admire. But then I just gave up, I thought myself that I won't see him again in my life, probably. ...
A. 19 September 2011: You "like" him, you are "fond" of him, if you go abroad you'll be leaving your "soul" behind and YOU HAVEN'T EVEN SPOKEN TO HIM?? Buddy you need to pace yourself big time. ... (read in full...)
Do guys often say as a joke: "I am going to marry this girl"?
Q. So I got a close friend who has been telling me about a childhood friend of hers (also Cuban like her) who has been living in the USA more than 10 years now. He recently came out of a messy relationship and is going to come visit her in Spain so...
A. 19 September 2011: He hasn't even met you in person yet, of course he was joking.... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 16 October 2008: Mae, I think you could do a lot of good if you respond to the cheating female postings on this site. They almost always want responses from women who have been in their shoes.... (read in full...)
My paramour told my husband that he used me for sex. I am now trying to rebuild my marriage but how can I get over the pain of this affair?
Q. My affair ended 7 weeks ago when my husband caught me out. I have been married for 25 years,my marraige had been going through a very bad patch for about 3 years and i decided to attend an evening class where this guy was the teacher. At first we...
A. 18 September 2008: You played with fire and you got burnt. Just thank your lucky stars that your husband didn't decide to throw you to the wolves. A lot of men would have. Now you need to focus on that wonderful husband, and only him.... (read in full...)
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