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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:The guy I like was telling me and another girl who likes him about a girl that he really likes and she likes him back and they have history together or something because they were together for 3 days lol but she is proper stunning and I am seriously unattractive even though people have said I'm not, how come I've never had a boyfriend when I'm 17?And when he was telling us about her I actually wanted to cry or die or something, because he had his chance with me and he didn’t want it, he’ll never want it, he’ll never want me. We kissed a few times, drunkenly, but that's it. He's never tried to become anything other than friends with me.But there is a really big chance that he is gay, everyone is insisting that he is, my friends, his friends etc etc. But if he is, then why would he feel that way about that girl?And to be honest, I have no interest in anyone else at the moment. I think I am actually in love with him, he is probably the nicest person I know or have ever met. He is not afraid to be himself or show his “sensitive” side, he doesn’t care what anyone thinks. At first I liked his attractiveness, then he rejected me (he stood me up when my friend forced me to go on a blind date with him that she organised). So I realised that he is not the super hot babe I thought he was. Then I became friends with him and now I am falling for his personality.But I don’t even have a nice personality. Or a nice anything.And his best friend told me that he had basically said I have huge massive lips, which I do, but I’m insecure about them and i’m not exactly angelina jolie, more like a trouty mouth. And he also told him that he thinks I am a slut.I wish I was brave enough, if I was I’d tell him how I felt, if I knew he wouldn’t laugh in my face or reject me or tell me he likes/is in love with that girl, or that he’s gay or something.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (17 August 2011):
 Whoa, whatever you do, do not tell him how you feel about him. Instead put him on the back burner and start working on you. Your self-esteem is in the toilet, sweetheart. I'm sure you are being way too hard on yourself. Google "self-esteem", there are all kinds of books and websites that deal with this subject.It doesn't appear that this guy will be in your future, and from what you said HE said, I think that's a very good thing. He sounds rude and crude. He called you a slut? However, once you feel better about yourself I think you will be attracting guys like flies to honey. Best of luck.
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