I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 18 July 2011: Nothing ventured nothing gained, and I wouldn't call a huge risk. You just need to shrug your shoulders and move on. It's not like you had a long relationship or anything. Course you wouldn't know that looking at this thread.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 6 July 2011: Piss or get off the pot. Sheesh.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 4 July 2011: or watching paint dry... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 4 July 2011:
Even tho' I'm enjoying having the day off...hurry come tomorrow...this is like waiting for the water to boil.... (read in full...)
He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!
Q. Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...
A. 1 July 2011: Heck no, just walk away.... (read in full...)
Is he a player? Does he love me? Or is it all just a joke?
Q. Okay, well i have Question .. There is this guy i met, and im not shure if he likes mee .. On his facebook it says he is in a relationship, and there is this girl that writes on his wall, ' i love you ' . and he said it back, and then when i ...
A. 30 June 2011: What should you do? I suggest you try to relax and get through your teenage years with as little collateral damage as possible. Consult frequently with your mother and father.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is becoming more and more distant, does she still love me? Does she not want to be with me because of my illness?
Q. Hello everyone Thank you for takeing the time to read this. A lot has happend these last few months, i got diognosed with skitophenia (sorry still cant spell it) lost my viginity with my girlfreind. Been hospitalised three times for epi...
A. 29 June 2011: I got nothin'...... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 29 June 2011: We (and you) have until next week to think about it.... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 29 June 2011: How's about you post back next week and let us know what happens?... (read in full...)
What's the deal with guys and big boobs?
Q. What is it about big boobs that guys like so much? I have small breasts, small waist and a big, round butt! My friends tell me I have a great body and that I should be proud, but there's something I don't get. I don't seem to receive that much ...
A. 29 June 2011: "I just don't see why a shallow guy can't want a girl with small boobs"...and you want a shallow guy because why ?... (read in full...)
Will I have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage?
Q. Does anyone know if I will have to pay maintenance for my fiance’s children from his previous marriage (my future stepchildren) if we divorce and I have to pay him maintenance for whatever reason? The children live with their mother. My fiancé p...
A. 29 June 2011: Well I have to give you credit, you certainly are a far-sighted individual. Most lawyers do a one time free consultation, check it out. Each state has different laws so you really do need to speak to a lawyer to be sure.... (read in full...)
He is cheating on his new girlfriend with me, I just want him to hurry up and dump her so we can be back together again!
Q. Boyfriend and I just broke up about 2 months ago due to some just plain unfortunate stuff. Were living together over a year, dating quite a long time. Had to move out and to my mum's far away. Ended up leaving on good terms, and with mutual wants to ...
A. 29 June 2011: Are you having sex with the guy?... (read in full...)
It seems she is looser, could she be cheating?
Q. i have this curious question about a vagina fart,I know that its caused by air being pushed from the penis,but is it mostly cause by a bigger penis,for example-I've been with the mother of my kids for 18yrs. And I don't know if because she gave ...
A. 28 June 2011: You can't deduce infidelity by the symptoms you gave. And aren't you a little old to be asking a question like this? I mean come on man... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 28 June 2011: Buddy you need to relax.... (read in full...)
Were married, I don't want her meeting up with him !
Q. Back in April I caught my wife texting a friend of hers in ways I did not think were appropriate. They were arranging to meet for dinner and drinks without me knowing, for instance. I sat her down and asked her what the deal was. She told me that...
A. 28 June 2011: Tell her to knock this nonsense off and start acting like a married woman. Sheesh. She should know better and should already know this is upsetting to you.... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my boyfriend? Or leave and face being on my own?
Q. Hiya!! I know you get a lot of these, but I would appreciate advice on my boyfriend. He is 26, lives and works in London and is the nicest bloke I have ever dated. He is caring, loving, would never raise a hand to me and has acccepted me wit...
A. 28 June 2011: Sounds like you are wasting your time on this relationship. I would definitely move on.... (read in full...)
I kicked him out when I found out he was married, but now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do!
Q. I was dating my ex for about a year and i was happily in love until i got a phone call, this lady asked me was i screwing her husband? i asked what was she talking about and i just could have died when she explained to me that she was doing an ...
A. 28 June 2011: Tell him if he really does want to be with you, he needs to file for divorce and show you the proof. Also tell him he will be owing you child support one way or another.... (read in full...)
How do I keep my past from ruining my future?
Q. So Ive dated every type of man out there.. the hopeless romantic, the badboy, the future urban outdoorsman, the vain, and the abusive. But if you were to ask me to conduct a relationship with a "geek", I wouldnt know where to begin. To make a l...
A. 27 June 2011: All the geeks I know hate it when you mess with their computers. But OP I also want to congratulate you on your escape from the abuser, well done.... (read in full...)
I turned his marriage proposal down 3 years ago but I'm ready now! What should I do?
Q. My bf ask me to marry him 3 yrs ago but I said I'm not ready yet and I still want to live my life being single. I feel that he hated me for doing that so he punishes me all the time for being rude to me and not being appreciative. Sometimes I ...
A. 27 June 2011: You most likely will have to ask him, he's been burned twice, but are you sure you really want to marry someone who "punishes" you?... (read in full...)
I kicked him out when I found out he was married, but now I'm pregnant and I don't know what to do!
Q. I was dating my ex for about a year and i was happily in love until i got a phone call, this lady asked me was i screwing her husband? i asked what was she talking about and i just could have died when she explained to me that she was doing an ...
A. 27 June 2011: Has he filed for divorce?... (read in full...)
I really liked my waitress and want to ask her out
Q. For my birthday yesterday we (mates and I) went to the 7 Diner, which is a place local to me 10 mins drive from here. The waitress was called Anna, and she was beautiful. She came over with a birthday cake later and sang Happy Birthday to me, and ...
A. 27 June 2011: You said earlier you don't want her to feel pressured so don't pressure her. Give it a week and then check in to say "hi how is you Dad doing?" sort of thing. Trust me you'll find out sooner or later whether she's interested.... (read in full...)
Are men responsible or women for the fact that women don't look inside themselves for true integrity anymore?
Q. I want some female feedback. I see a lot of women freaking out about their guys interest in porn. I like porn. And if i had a partner I'm sure she would hate it as I would if she liked porn. I tend to like soft porn and i don't get an erection. I ...
A. 27 June 2011: I too looked through all my memos, Tish and I couldn't find the one that said I could dump my integrity. So I guess I won't be able to be shallow and just see everything in black and white while at the same time lumping people into one size fits all ... (read in full...)
I want to marry him but not his kids!
Q. I love my boyfriend hugely and we are engaged to be married. He has two children from a previous relationship ,5 and 4. Though the children are relatively well behaved and love me I find it really difficult to accept. I never want children (though i ...
A. 27 June 2011: Amen RA! Poster, you must not make the mistake of marrying this guy. His kids are part and parcel with him. Tough luck for you but they were there first and have dibs on Daddy. If you can't share then you will be doing yourself (not to mention them) ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has changed his mind about keeping the baby, and now he and his family are ganging up on me forcing me to have an abortion!
Q. my boyfriend and his parents are 'forcing' me into an abortion but i dont want to go through with it. what should i do? im 17 years old and im 5 weeks pregnant. my boyfriend told his parents i may be pregnant before we even knew. when i found out...
A. 27 June 2011: Nobody can force you to have an abortion. But if they won't support you will have to start making plans quick fast and in a hurry. Once the baby is born, your boyfriend will be required to pay child support but that is based on his income so if he ... (read in full...)
BF unexpectedly dumped me. I need some support
Q. Hey, I'm really devastated right now and really hurt. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me. When it happened i felt as if i couldn't breathe. I mean, he just broke up with me out the blue. The day before the break up we were all fine. He sai...
A. 27 June 2011: Redecorate: paint your walls a new color, buy new sheets,towels,bedcovers, get new pictures for your new walls, change everything you can afford to change. A new environment will bring a new frame of reference. You'll get passed this I promise you.... (read in full...)
He lost his erection during sex - was it my fault?
Q. My man once lost erection when we were having sex.is there something wrong with me?...
A. 27 June 2011: Unless you said something like "Beige, I think I'll paint the ceiling beige" while you were having sex, I don't think you need to blame yourself.... (read in full...)
Why did he just stop contacting me?
Q. I've been dating this guy for 2months, its going well, last week we spent friday,sunday at my place and monday, tuesday at his. We had a plan goin out places on fri and saturday that same week. On fri he called and canceled our plan but said maybe ...
A. 22 June 2011: Aren't you a little old for these high school games?... (read in full...)
He gets his mom to do things for me because he thinks I'm too young to handle it! How can I make him stop this?
Q. Hi there I want to ask a question me and my man have been together for 1 year and he still asks his mom to do things for me, he thinks that I dont know how to do stuff like call to pay a bill. he thinks im too young to do that, I mean come on im 18 ...
A. 22 June 2011: Have his mom show you how to do the stuff then take over doing it.... (read in full...)
Do you believe in spanking your child?
Q. Do you believe in spanking your child? I've heard people say they believe in it and others believe that its wrong. Personally, i believe in it if they are out of control and have been warned repeatedly. Don't judge, it was how i was raised and my ...
A. 21 June 2011: We aren't doing a school assignment for you by any chance?... (read in full...)
Is the fact that I am seperated with 3 kids why he has not asked for my number?
Q. I have a met a guy that is six years younger than me and I am 28. We have met up and hung out at a bar enjoyed each others company for the night and left the next morning. He has never asked for my phone number and I know he is very attracted to ...
A. 21 June 2011: Yeah I'd say that's EXACTLY why he didn't ask for your number. It's not rocket science.... (read in full...)
He is bisexual and chose a heterosexual life with me but is missing out and even brought up the subjects of threesomes.
Q. We've been together for 11 years and have a beautiful daughter together we both adore and cherish. He's a Bisexual man who has chosen a heterosexual life with me. But I fear he is missing his bi lifestyle. recently he's brought up the subjects of ...
A. 21 June 2011: Don't buy that "I'm just a guy" thing. It's a load of crap. He's married and that means forsaking ALL others, whether they have a penis or not...matters not. If he can't control himself then he should not be married.... (read in full...)
I want our group of friends to know about my husband's affair with another one of our friends!
Q. Ugh. I posted a question April 19 regarding my husband's old secret that has destroyed a friendship and marraige both. In a nutshell, he cheated on me with a mutual friend, lied about it for years, and now thinks I should get over it and still be ...
A. 20 June 2011: Get a really good lawyer who will ensure you get every single penny you can out of the adulterer.... (read in full...)
Is kissing the girl you love is everything in a relationship?
Q. I love her so much.. But we have not kissed each other yet.. Now she is in abroad for study.. Before i couldn't ask her for kiss because i didn't want to hurt her feelings.. Just last night of the day she was leaving the place, i asked for k kiss, ...
A. 16 June 2011: This is such a sweet and refreshing posting! Trust me Buddy that kiss is coming and boy howdy it's going to be worth the wait! Best of luck.... (read in full...)
We love our teacher but he is so unpredictable!
Q. Okay, so, I'm a 16 year old girl. I've had many crushes before, most of them were my brother's friends but never really been into a relationship. I was many time asked out but I really wasn't interested. Anyway, when I was in 5th grade, a new teac...
A. 16 June 2011: You girls just need a new hobby, that's all. ... (read in full...)
BF upset younger sister is having a baby. Anything I can say to help?
Q. Well I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 38. Yes I know it's a big age difference but we've been together for over a year and a half and he is the love of my life. He has an older sister, a younger sister and an older brother. Obviously his older siblings ...
A. 16 June 2011: Tell him he is better off, if he had married and had children BUT the woman wasn't the right fit for him, he'd be divorced with child support payments. It was much wiser on his part to just wait until the right woman comes along for him. Whether ... (read in full...)
BF upset younger sister is having a baby. Anything I can say to help?
Q. Well I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 38. Yes I know it's a big age difference but we've been together for over a year and a half and he is the love of my life. He has an older sister, a younger sister and an older brother. Obviously his older siblings ...
A. 16 June 2011: Yeah why IS he upset?... (read in full...)
I left my wife for her and now she won't even respond to my calls!
Q. Recently I have been the one having the affair and it lasted 2 and a half years. The person in question is 15 years younger than me. She asked me so many times to leave my partner and child. I was unhappy at home but found it very difficult to leave ...
A. 15 June 2011: Like I always say, Karma's a high riding bitch and she just took you for a ride Buddy. What to do??? Get on with your life and try to be a great father and role model to/for your little one.... (read in full...)
Was he concerned for me or hitting on me?
Q. sooo this is my question .. the other day my boyfriend ,his brother and myself were all having a good time drinking... when my boyfriend starting acting like a jerk being really rude and dumb... i stood there ignoring him but started tearing up... ...
A. 15 June 2011: Lay off the sauce and see how he (sober as well) behaves toward you. Do you WANT him to be interested? ... (read in full...)
Multiple orgasms must be amazing - WHY don't women want to have sex all day?
Q. Ever since I was with my first "serious" girlfriend, I've envied womens' ability to have multiple orgasms. When she got going, she'd have one after another with only a few seconds (if that) in between for a couple minutes, I'd have my one "little" ...
A. 14 June 2011: How would the laundry get done?... (read in full...)
Somebody please talk me out of cheating.
Q. Somebody please talk me out of cheating. I am married with kids ( marriage has become a little boring , rutine and very predictable), but I'm craving that excitement of the affairs. I know for sure I WILL NOT get caught ever, and I am sure I WILL N...
A. 14 June 2011: People can be so very selfish and so very self-serving, which makes this post very sad...very, very sad.... (read in full...)
Keeping up appearances with my older fella.....
Q. I'd really like some advice about my fella - firstly, he is older than me; I am 23 and he is almost 30. This to me is not a problem until we do things like have 'dinner parties' or meet with his brothers etc - and whilst they can talk about all ...
A. 13 June 2011: You are studying for your Masters and all you can talk about is booze and being poor? What the heck is your field of study?... (read in full...)
My friend told my boyfriend I was cheating even though I'm not! Should I end the friendship?
Q. Ok so this girl who is suppose to be my best friend told my boyfriend that i was cheating on him by sending naked photos to some other guy. Truth is, i wasnt cheating on him and yeah she did go through my phone and saw a picture of me in my bra but ...
A. 10 June 2011: You can't pick your family but you sure as hell can pick your friends.... (read in full...)
Any advice for getting rid of stretch marks?
Q. Hi there! Well last August I had an accident, in which I fell off my horse at full gallop and landed on my back. I didn't break anything, but my lower back and hips, and upper thighs were all scraped and bruised, and all swelled up. Almost a year ...
A. 10 June 2011: Stretch marks are scar tissue. To get rid of scar tissue requires plastic surgery and even then it can't always remove the deeper scars. In time, stretch marks thin and fade. Keep applying the lotions to keep skin moisterized. The main thing about ... (read in full...)
B/f asked for a threesome but now he wants one every weekend!
Q. i have been in a relationship for 7 years and my boyfriend asked if we can have a threesome i said ok but now he just wants a threesome every weekend. he says it really turns him on seeing me with someone else but to be honest i am not into it and ...
A. 9 June 2011: Say no and stop giving in to his pestering. He'll stop once he knows you really mean it when you say no.... (read in full...)
Maybe I'm not cut out to be a mom?
Q. Maybe I'm not cut out to be a mom. He's cute, yes, but too much for me to handle, financially and sleeplessness. It is burdensome and bothersome for me. I'm getting so stress out and burnout from taking care of a baby. I don't have a reliable sitter ...
A. 9 June 2011: How old is your baby?... (read in full...)
He cancelled our trip and gave all the money to his ex for new clothes for his child! Do I mean nothing to him?
Q. My boyfriend planned a special weekend away together for us as my birthday present. Then his ex wife called and told him she wanted extra money (besides maintenance already paid and a few extras) to buy clothes for their child. Now this child does ...
A. 9 June 2011: Sorry but it sure doesn't sound like you rank very high on his list of priorities. Maybe you should consider reassessing this relationship. Are you really happy in it? ... (read in full...)
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