He cancelled our trip and gave all the money to his ex for new clothes for his child! Do I mean nothing to him?
Q. My boyfriend planned a special weekend away together for us as my birthday present. Then his ex wife called and told him she wanted extra money (besides maintenance already paid and a few extras) to buy clothes for their child. Now this child does ...
A. 9 June 2011: Sorry but it sure doesn't sound like you rank very high on his list of priorities. Maybe you should consider reassessing this relationship. Are you really happy in it? ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried by his threats to take custody of my baby?
Q. So my fellow dearcupid friends, I have a serious question. I am nearly 3 months pregnant, me and the man have not been together in a while. Soon after finding out I was pregnant I began working and putting money away for my baby when he or she ...
A. 9 June 2011: As a convicted sex offender he doesn't stand a snowball's chance in Hell to get custody away from you. You can get total custody and make him have supervised visitations.... (read in full...)
How can I ask my girlfriend to remove the unattractive hair on her forearm?
Q. How can I tell my girlfriend that I don't like the hair on her forearm. Is it too much to ask or inappropriate to request removing it?...
A. 8 June 2011: Got any hair on your back?... (read in full...)
What should I do? My marriage is falling apart.
Q. Married 45 yrs-I can`t do anything right for wife anymore..No sexual relations now for 2 years--I`m not interested !! We constantly argue over unimportant things. I've tried very hard to keep the marriage going but I`m losing any motivation to go on...
A. 8 June 2011: Have you guys had a doctor check you out? Sometimes medications can all sorts of weird side effects. Have you sat down together and discussed the reasons for the constant bickering? I mean man, 45 years together you must have something going for ... (read in full...)
How can I ask my girlfriend to remove the unattractive hair on her forearm?
Q. How can I tell my girlfriend that I don't like the hair on her forearm. Is it too much to ask or inappropriate to request removing it?...
A. 8 June 2011: Depends on your girlfriend, does she have great self-esteem? How long has she been your girlfriend? Would you do the same for her?... (read in full...)
Am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hi! I just recently graduated from High school last month. Before I graduated I made an agreement with my parents about college. I told them I didn't want to go to college right after high school. So we agreed on me not going till the Spring. I want ...
A. 8 June 2011: As long as you don't lose sight of you goals, then fine take a year off. However, if you get into working and having an income it can become more alluring than hitting the books and taking classes, so sometimes people just don't go back to school. ... (read in full...)
Should I add him on Facebook? I feel if I don't do it now I'll always wonder what could have been....
Q. "He stares at me and at times avoids me. He told me before that he used to have a huge crush on me but i found out he had a girlfriend and stopped talking to him. He dumped his gf but didn't approach me because i kindof avoided him, not really ...
A. 8 June 2011: Nothing ventured, nothing gained.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my FWB is ever going to turn into something more?
Q. I have known this wonderful guy for four years. He always was so nice and made me laugh, both were in relationships at the time. But for the last four n half months we have been making hot passionate sex with kissing and cuddling and spending the ...
A. 8 June 2011: How about you cut off the sex and see if he still comes around?... (read in full...)
How can I tell if my FWB is ever going to turn into something more?
Q. I have known this wonderful guy for four years. He always was so nice and made me laugh, both were in relationships at the time. But for the last four n half months we have been making hot passionate sex with kissing and cuddling and spending the ...
A. 8 June 2011: He definitely sounds like a "why buy the cow..." kind of guy. And you are being "utterly" unrealistic about it's having future other than plain sex.
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What is it really like to be a mistress?
Q. What is it really like to be a mistress? I have been propositioned by a married man I've known for 2 years. He is 24 years older than me and he really turns me on. Obviously I know this is wrong but it all just sounds amazing. Plus he's had a rocky ...
A. 7 June 2011: Yep, you will only be number two...hummm what else is called number two???? Very amazing indeed.... (read in full...)
I'm married but want to have sex with an older woman
Q. I am married and I love my wife. the problem is that I feel horny all the time plus I like older women? what should I do? I don't want to betray my wife? why do some guys (like me) are sexually attracted to older women? I wish I can have sex ...
A. 7 June 2011: Try to find someplace that sells salt peter and take cold showers.... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 6 June 2011: advice duh... (read in full...)
Why is the woman to blame for an affair?
Q. Can everyone tell me why it is that the woman often gets all the blame when she has an affair with a married man? People tend to look down on the woman and in the end her reputation is ruined and she is called all kinds of names etc. But the guy who ...
A. 6 June 2011: I think we (at DC) pretty much equally rake both parties over the coals. There is the occasional aunt/uncle who tries the "you can't help who you fall in love with" crap but usual both cheaters are nailed.... (read in full...)
I don't care if LDR fiance smokes pot...I just don't want to be lied to about it. How do I approach this?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship. My fiance and I have been engaged for almost 6 months. But he's been lying to me. Leaving him is out of the question; he's a great guy and I love him with all my heart. He doesn't want me to smoke weed, and he ...
A. 6 June 2011: If, after you tell him what you just told us, you are just going to let it go? Why don't you just let it go in the first place? I mean if you don't want leave the loser then what difference does smoking pot make? You aren't going to change him or ... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 6 June 2011: Hey OP, what was the advise you were looking for again?... (read in full...)
Got back with ex b/f but afraid to leave marriage so ex dumped me!
Q. a couple of months ago i got back in contact with an old bf that i haven't seen for 12 yrs. upon talking he told me that he never stopped loving me and that all his relationships since have failed because the one he always wanted to be with was me. ...
A. 6 June 2011: What's going on in YOUR head? Your poor husband. Hopefully kids aren't involved.... (read in full...)
He now hates me and wants nothing to do with me, even though I didnt do anything!
Q. Hi guys... here's the deal... I believe this guy was looking for a reason to blow me off... we made plans on Friday to hang out and then he switches up at the last moment...as a result I got mad and turned my phone off and went to sleep. When I ...
A. 6 June 2011: Are you really 30-35 years old? And how do you "stunt" someone?... (read in full...)
Can a girl get pregnant from this?
Q. Can a girl get pregnant just by inserting tip of the penis without a condom and cumming outside the vagina?...
A. 3 June 2011: Happens all the time.... (read in full...)
How can he feel he is my soulmate, but be living with someone else?
Q. I met this man back in October by chance-- I saw him sitting on a bench , reading a book and taking notes in the margin. I was immediately drawn to him because my husband was a writer and often scrawled in the margins of his books (my husband died ...
A. 3 June 2011: You should ask him that exact question.... (read in full...)
My daughter only needs one summer school class to get her diploma, but she wants to get her GED instead! Should I encourage her to take the class?
Q. I am the mother of four children. Three are well over 21 and are attending community college, and two have recently transferred into a four year college. The youngest of my kids is my daughter, a 17 year old who will be 18 in a few days. This mor...
A. 2 June 2011: You kind of dropped the ball on the baby of the family. Or maybe you are the baby of the family?... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 2 June 2011: Maybe those other parents ASKED the girls in their keeping whether anybody's parents would be upset at the 2 a.m. late pick up and all those sweet little teenagers responded with a resounding "Oh my parents said I could stay out this late". What are ... (read in full...)
I was falsely accused of a crime, and my girl hasn't treated me the same since it happened!
Q. We been togther for just over 4 years. For first two years we had sex almost everyday where ever we could, and when we both had the same days off work we spent the entire time in bed having sex. She held my hand everywhere we went, wasnt bothered ...
A. 1 June 2011: If you were cleared I sure don't know what her problem is but I know I wouldn't want to live my life like I were someone's dirty secret. Tell her that and then start looking for someone who wants to be with you, privately as well as publicly.... (read in full...)
Did my daughter have sex while she was visiting a friend? Or am I over-exaggerating things?
Q. I am a father to a 17 year old girl. A little over a month ago i gave her permission to stay at her friend's house during Easter recess. She DID go, because i called one day and spoke to her mom who then passed the phone. Fine. I was proud of her. ...
A. 1 June 2011: I raised three teenagers two of which were girls...you have my sincerest sympathy. You are a father, of course you are prone to over-exaggerating, tis the nature of the beast. You and your daughter will come out of these years relatively unscathed. ... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?
Q. My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...
A. 1 June 2011: I'm just curious, if your husband decided he wanted to come back, would you just let bygones be bygones and let the scumbag back?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is controlling and needy and it causes us to fight. What can I do?
Q. My girlfriend is very needy and controlling and it causes us to fight. I do not know what to do about it please help. We have been dating for 2 years, living together for 1 year and things are going great other than this. Wherever I go, my ...
A. 1 June 2011: You can't do anything. First off she has to understand that she HAS a problem and she has to want to correct it. Only she can work on a solution. Only she can build up her self-esteem you can't do it for her. Your only choice is whether you want to ... (read in full...)
My cousin is going to blackmail me unless I do sexual things with her, and she's only 13!
Q. help cupids! im in a really BAD situation. basically, my cousin is blackmailing me for not doing sexual things with her. let me explain. my cousin admitted to me she loves me (though previously, i think she just adored me and now i know its jus...
A. 1 June 2011: Exactly, you need to talk to your aunt/uncle. Your cousin has some serious behavior issues that her parents need to address. If you truly care for her you will see that she gets the help she so deperately needs.... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?
Q. My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...
A. 1 June 2011: This isn't a relationship that he started AFTER you guys split up, he LEFT you for her. I wouldn't call it a rebound relationship. But I sure as heck would call the best divorce lawyer in town and get every penny I could.... (read in full...)
Online he says he loves me but he won't meet me
Q. i meet a 26 year old guy on a dating site and we started talking on the phone alot his was perfect he made me feel so special..he is the first men in my life that made me feel good about myself.He would tell me me that he likes me and that he was ...
A. 31 May 2011: Scared or full of crap. Be careful my dear, very careful.... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?
Q. My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...
A. 31 May 2011: I shook my Magic 8 Ball and it said "yes and no". It's really accurate predicting the future. ... (read in full...)
If a man loves you, would he call you a bitch?
Q. Is it ok for a man to call a woman who he says he loves a bitch? Can there be excuses? Expections? What If he's angry? Is it ok? Does that even make him a man? If u say u love a woman is that even possible to say to her face? All answers are greatly ...
A. 31 May 2011: Were you being a bitch when he called you one?... (read in full...)
Married woman's marriage in trouble. Can I be there to pick up the pieces?
Q. Hey guys. First time here. Hoping you can help. I have feelings for a woman who is married. She is going through some hard times in her marriage right now and seems to be struggling about whether to stay with her husband. We have been having ...
A. 25 May 2011: Take care of your own business before you start butting into someone else's.... (read in full...)
Thank you for all the help!
Q. This is not a question just a big thank you to people who have helped me over here for the past few months. I came across this site through internet browsing, looking for the answers I needed with my relationship. I met a guy who i never thought wo...
A. 25 May 2011: You are very welcome and stick around, you'll be able to help the next young lady who is riding that very same roller coaster.... (read in full...)
I like my older sister's friend!
Q. hi, i am so terribly confused!i really like one of my older sisters friends, he is 24 and we used to be friends, he told my sister to tell me to stop texting him after he told me to keep it a secret because he was back with his ex, he really is a ...
A. 24 May 2011: That's my advice and I'm sticking to it. Leave him alone, he's not interested, heck, he even enlisted your sister's help getting you off his back. Smell the coffee?... (read in full...)
Card help for a gf who believes in 2012.
Q. hi can anyone help me please i need advice on a card for my gf, she believes in 2012, so im thinking this, but should i put (if your have me) or (if you have me that long) or something else, please help. thank you messages below for your viewin...
A. 24 May 2011: How about "Hey Babe we only have X (you do the math I'm too lazy)numbers of days to do the nasty, how's about it?"... (read in full...)
Husband being extra nice and hiding the cell..is he cheating?
Q. ive recently noticed my husband has been keeping his mobile out of my sight,by keeping it in his pocket,when before it was left anywhere around the house.at the weekend he did leave it in the bathroom,so i took a look but a password lock had been ...
A. 24 May 2011: Sorry to say but anytime a spouse's behavior has a sudden change with no explanation or a lame one like your husband's, something is definitely up. Let your phone's battery run down and ask to borrow his and make him give you the password. If he ... (read in full...)
What constitutes a pedophile?
Q. Is a person considered a pedophile if they just have sexual thoughts about children and teenagers much younger than them? Or do they actually have to sleep with a minor to be a pedophile?...
A. 24 May 2011: Oh and I forgot:
"You are what you eat."
Mom... (read in full...)
What constitutes a pedophile?
Q. Is a person considered a pedophile if they just have sexual thoughts about children and teenagers much younger than them? Or do they actually have to sleep with a minor to be a pedophile?...
A. 24 May 2011: "A man is literally what he thinks, his character being the complete sum of all his thoughts."
James Allen
“As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he.”
God
... (read in full...)
I like my older sister's friend!
Q. hi, i am so terribly confused!i really like one of my older sisters friends, he is 24 and we used to be friends, he told my sister to tell me to stop texting him after he told me to keep it a secret because he was back with his ex, he really is a ...
A. 24 May 2011: I think he thinks you are being an obnoxious teenager. Leave him alone or you risk making yourself look foolish.... (read in full...)
What would be my type for a girlfriend?
Q. What do you think what would be my type of girl for a girlfriend. My hobbies are playing video games, hanging out with friends, using my computer for different things, reading comics and I'm a happy person....
A. 24 May 2011: I would say any girl who likes playing video games, hanging out with friends, using her computer for different things, reading comics and is a happy person. Or maybe Melissa who lives down the street from me, she seems like a nice girl.... (read in full...)
Ran into my cheating ex, what does all of this mean?!
Q. Wow, what a long road it has been since I first found this website and posted my own question. I had my heart broken by the girl I really thought the world of. She had cheated on me.br brI have come to terms with what happened, and am OKAY now!...
A. 24 May 2011: What's up with the "br" stuff? Somebody explain it to this old lady.... (read in full...)
Is he serious about changing his ways or is he just talking?
Q. Hello Cupid! Me and this guy met seven months ago through a mutual friend and instantly clicked. We both graduated from the same college, have alot in common and are relatively known for what we do. I'm a journalist and he's a filmmaker/journa...
A. 24 May 2011: Absolutely the right approach in my opinion. Temporary LDR's suck and more so when there's no end in site. Avoid pain if you can has always been one of my mottos.... (read in full...)
Thank you for all the help!
Q. This is not a question just a big thank you to people who have helped me over here for the past few months. I came across this site through internet browsing, looking for the answers I needed with my relationship. I met a guy who i never thought wo...
A. 24 May 2011: Name names... (read in full...)
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