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writes:I have a question..my boyfriend and I got in a heated arguement and I threatened to kick him out. He got irate and pulled me out of my chair and threw me on the floor. I have threatened this before and he got upset before but then we made up and all was well. Had anyone felt it justified to have him do this to me? I really hurt his feelings but should this warrant this kind of behavior? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2011): I just got out of a very abusive relationship where he always promised to never do it again. Would tell me he was sorry and had me believing it was my fault because I needed to learn to shut my f*ing mouth. Sweetheart, what he did to you was not justified AT all! And it wasn't your fault. Leave! Trust me on that. It won't get better. It will get worse. He started as getting in my face and ended with choking me. Things don't get better. HE needs help. NOT you!
Start loving yourself because it doesn't sound like he will.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (8 August 2011):
 If he received no negative repercussions for throwing you on the floor, he'll do it again. Your call.
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (8 August 2011):
 get rid of him...call the police if you have to! if he "touches" you once hell most likely do it again
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (8 August 2011):
 Hi,
There's no excuse for violence of any form, specially physically...
You both were angry, probably said things that shouldn't have said...
You know him well, its your life, so do what's best for you... Just make sure that this won't happen again...
Good luck!
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