What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 16 January 2013: So why exactly are you still living at home? Financial reasons or cultural reasons or what?... (read in full...)
Does a curved penis cause trouble during sex?
Q. ok guys. question about curved penis. my penis is curved downwards and its curved pretty good. its not like an L shaped curve but rather just points downwards after 2 inch on the shaft on a 45 degree angle or maybe 60. im just wondering is this ...
A. 15 January 2013: Bill Clinton has a curved penis and the fact that Monica Lewinsky knew it was what blew the whistle...so to speak.... (read in full...)
He wants to be faithful to his girlfriend, but I want to tell him how I feel. Is this a good idea?
Q. I met this guy about a year ago and recently, in September, we began to hang out and we became "close" like intimate. I liked him and I still do. The problem is that he has a girlfriend now. For about two months, we fell off because of a conflict ...
A. 14 January 2013: Leave him alone, he knows where to find you if he's interested. You will just make yourself look desperate and maybe even pathetic if you try to have a heart to heart with this guy.... (read in full...)
Getting over a divorce: how do you just stop loving someone after 19 years of marriage?
Q. has anyone else had a problem getting over a divorce. it has been almost one year since our split, and 3 months since the divorce. how do you just stop loving someone after 19 years of marriage? everyday i get better, but i dont stop thinking about ...
A. 14 January 2013: I can actually feel your pain pulsating through your words. I think this is one of the most heart rendering posts I've read on this site in a very long time. All I can do is to offer my very best wishes that time works its miracle quickly for you. ... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 14 January 2013: This may be "life as usual" for you but trust me it isn't for the majority of people, thank goodness.... (read in full...)
My band director acts like a jealous boyfriend around me
Q. It all started at the beginning of last year, my sophomore year. I broke it off with a guy I had been dating for two years because I wanted to focus more on school. I started spending a lot of time after school helping my band director because I ...
A. 14 January 2013: Still sounds like a crush to me or you wouldn't give it a second thought.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband that I cheated on my ex with a co-worker? Or leave the past in the past?
Q. Been happily married for a few months after I'd been with my ex for a few years. Do you think I should tell my husband I cheated on my ex and had a six-month affair with a co-worker? Now I don't have any contacts with either my ex nor my former a...
A. 11 January 2013: Because of all the posts we get about retro jealousy I say leave it in the past and forget about it.... (read in full...)
Is this a case of cultural differences? Is my wife blowing this out of proportion? Is there a right and a wrong in all this?
Q. When my wife and I fight, nine times out of ten it has to do with my parents. I feel like it usually comes down to a cultural issue. Im from SC and my wife is from Oregon. We currently live in my hometown in SC. My entire family lives within an ...
A. 11 January 2013: South Carolina... (read in full...)
My band director acts like a jealous boyfriend around me
Q. It all started at the beginning of last year, my sophomore year. I broke it off with a guy I had been dating for two years because I wanted to focus more on school. I started spending a lot of time after school helping my band director because I ...
A. 11 January 2013: If you don't have a crush on him then what's with this?
"If he does have a crush on me, I wouldn't do anything about it. I know that would get him in trouble. But its still a burning question for me."
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What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 10 January 2013: "conservative" and are you pregnant?... (read in full...)
Why is this confident man so submissive towards his wife???
Q. Is it normal for a high-profile man who manages people with a high level of confidence to be completely subdued by his wife and her rude remarks and nagging without him ever complaining? I have noticed this about a couple I know and can't figure out ...
A. 10 January 2013: I'm curious too as to why you are asking this question, it kind of sounds like a mind your own beeswax situation.... (read in full...)
My band director acts like a jealous boyfriend around me
Q. It all started at the beginning of last year, my sophomore year. I broke it off with a guy I had been dating for two years because I wanted to focus more on school. I started spending a lot of time after school helping my band director because I ...
A. 10 January 2013: What you are going through is as common as a cold. School girl crushes have and will continue to be around as long as there are teachers and students. All you can do is relax and let it run its course. It will fade eventually.... (read in full...)
I was OK to sleep with. But he said he could'nt give me what I wanted. How do I cope with this, and the fact he now has a Gf?
Q. Hi everyone. Back in September, I moved into a shared house with three other people. Two of them I didn't know before, but there had always been chemistry between me and this other person. This other person and I have been close ever since we me...
A. 9 January 2013: I totally agree with the previous answers. You need to find a new place and get a fresh start. You and he will never be in the kind relationship you so desire. If you stay in that house you will have 2 more roomates living with you, pain and ... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 9 January 2013: troll post I hope I hope I hope ... (read in full...)
My wife told me she is attracted to her boss! I'm worried, what should I do?
Q. My wife of 14 years out of the blue while we are lying down cuddling turns to me and tells me she is attracted to someone at work. I was kind of stunned by this and didn't know what to say, then she tells me its her boss. She says she doesn't ...
A. 8 January 2013: She just has a crush. Crushes will fade if she keeps her priorities straight. Don't worry, instead be very loving and understanding. She obviously loves you very much. ... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling self conscious about my chest size?
Q. Hi all, I'm feeling a little self conscious about my chest size. I'm an A75/34AA, which is pretty flat. I always thought they'd grow a cup bigger but sadly that has been my bra size since I was 13. My boyfriend doesn't mind my chest size, but I ...
A. 8 January 2013: I recommend you wait until after you've had a kid or two. I was on the smaller side then after kids it was a totally different story. A nice surprise.... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 8 January 2013: Why do I get the feeling that she, you, and Mr. Goofball are not destined for happiness in the near future anyway?... (read in full...)
She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!
Q. I had a situation with a woman I really liked, and need you opinion on this. I 've met this girl in a building that I work at. She works for a different company, and I saw her several times at lunch before we started talking. We just talked for ...
A. 8 January 2013: SVC, when you say "all the men with RJ" you weren't referring to retro jello molds were you?... (read in full...)
She lost interest in me because I let her pay for her part of the meal on our first date!
Q. I had a situation with a woman I really liked, and need you opinion on this. I 've met this girl in a building that I work at. She works for a different company, and I saw her several times at lunch before we started talking. We just talked for ...
A. 8 January 2013: I think the flowers are a great idea. Whether it works or not, at least you would have given the relationship another shot and you'll have your answer. By the way, I'm from the school that says whoever asks for the date pays for the date.... (read in full...)
I slept with my friends boyfriend 2 days before their baby is due. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've had this friend for 3 years. Me and her met because I hooked up with her boyfriend unknowingly. He split with her before I found out, but still cheated on her with me. Then cheated on me with her. So me and her became friends, long story sh...
A. 7 January 2013: Well you promised him you wouldn't tell her and you obviously are over-loaded with honor and integrity, so mum's the word. Keep the screwing on the QT and behind her back.... (read in full...)
I want sex more than my girlfriend and she told me I can have a F buddy
Q. i'm in a relationship with a girl i love.my problem is i want sex too much.we do everything everywhere and have sex once everyday for at least two hours. sumtimes i have to masterbate a couple of times around this.she recently told me she wont say ...
A. 7 January 2013: I think your problem will be solving itself in the next few years just hang on.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has not treated me right since he discovered I had a one night stand before dating him. Do I end things?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years and we are getting married soon. At the beginning, he was really sweet, caring and understanding. The kind of guy that I have always wished for. However, one day, I told him that I had an one ...
A. 7 January 2013: I googled RJ and got Retro Jello Mold recipes.... (read in full...)
He left me when he found out I was pregnant so why is still hanging around and letting me know he's around?
Q. I'm married and I fell for a guy i worked with (whom I thought was super sweet) without even knowing what was happening. He made me feel like we could be friends and that I could trust him to be mature enough to talk to about somethings i was going ...
A. 7 January 2013: Does your husband know that the guy continues to bug you? How about getting a restraining order? You sound pretty paranoid to me.I would think you and your husband would be able to address the issue, after all there is a law against stalking in this ... (read in full...)
Worried I cant get pregnant when I'm older, help?
Q. Had unprotected sex on 4 different occasions since I lost my virginity, I was really worried I'd get pregnant but I've just got my period like normal... Now I'm really worried that one day when I want kids I won't be able to have them?? Is there so...
A. 7 January 2013: You just got lucky that's all. Relax and stay on the birth control.... (read in full...)
I want sex more than my girlfriend and she told me I can have a F buddy
Q. i'm in a relationship with a girl i love.my problem is i want sex too much.we do everything everywhere and have sex once everyday for at least two hours. sumtimes i have to masterbate a couple of times around this.she recently told me she wont say ...
A. 7 January 2013: Tisk tisk such drama...I assume you work out of your home...daily two hour sex huh?... (read in full...)
I know hes married, but is he attracted to me?
Q. Ok soo, i really like this married man. i think he may like me. He's always lingering around when he picks his child up(i work at a daycare) and he introduced himself to me. After our brief chat he says, "its nice to meet you, finally!" So i know ...
A. 7 January 2013: What you are looking for is TROUBLE. Pure and simple.... (read in full...)
How do I overcome my fear of kissing? Together seven months and I'm still fearful of kissing.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months, neither of us have had our first kiss with anyone. We really want to kiss each other and he tells me he will all the time but doesn't. I know he's waiting for me. I need an answer; How do I ove...
A. 4 January 2013: I agree with my pal, IAmHere, you are just not ready yet, your fears will disappear when you are ready. Relax and enjoy the relationship you have.... (read in full...)
Does he act this way because he likes me?
Q. I think my guy friend likes me but he would never admit it. I have known him sense 5th grade and we are in 8th now. We are friends and enemys at the same time sometimes he says were not friends but other times he says we are. The reason why i th...
A. 4 January 2013: My guess is that he's not ready for a girlfriend yet, just stay friends and see what happens a few years from now.... (read in full...)
Tell me what his body language and behaviour mean?
Q. Hello and good day. This guy I know for many years, hugs me sideways, and rest the side of his face on top of my head. I had my hand around his waist and his hands was around my shoulder. Then when I was about to walk off, he got a hold of my up...
A. 3 January 2013: So how long have you had this huge crush on the guy?... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum that I don't like my birthday presents or just keep them, throw them in the back of the wardrobe and never use them?
Q. i had a rough year last year. i lost my grandfather, i lost my horse, i became ill with anemia and just when i thought as a family we could wave goodbye to the bad times my dad was diagnosed with kidney cancer just before christmas although he is ...
A. 3 January 2013: If telling your mother that you would like to exchange the presents is going to offend her then just keep them. But hopefully, if she really wants you to be happy, she should be okay with you taking them back and getting something you will actually ... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend tried to kiss me but now claims it was my fault, and my friend believes him over me!
Q. Hello. I have a really close group of female friends and have been.since school age really. I moved over here when i was 13 as my mum and dad divorced and she remarried my stepfather, and he moved to ireland for work reason. Anyway i was really ...
A. 2 January 2013: She's in denial, best just leave her alone until she comes out of it. Hopefully she will eventually see her boyfriend for what he is and get fed up. Let her have the time she needs to deal with it. ... (read in full...)
Two months together but not "official" yet. Is he up to no good? I want to lose my virginity with him. Can you give me advice please?
Q. modnote: OP - People will ask so please advise in followup why you cannot obtain Birth Control in US?? Hi all, and Happy New Year! So I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now... we're pretty much a couple even though there isn't any o...
A. 1 January 2013: Whenever there is the question of whether or not to lose one's virginity then the answer is no don't do it. When the time is truly right you will no have any doubts.
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Am I reading the signs all wrong?
Q. He is making me mad. I think he likes me, i have been working with him for a few months. Alot of people think he is grumpy because he doesn't get involved, very task centred guy. But with me: He throws things at me, He protects me- be it from ...
A. 30 December 2012: The signs point to trouble, big trouble. He's married and almost twice your age. And if that wasn't enough, you work together. Let this go my dear, there is nothing but bad things down that road. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he found another girl that gives him happiness. Can I get him back?
Q. Have been dating my bf for 3yrs. Recently he started complaining about my attitude, saying am too insecure, demanding, and that he has found another girl that gives him happiness and there is nothing I can do. Truthfully, have been kind of rud...
A. 27 December 2012: I totally agree, you are beating a dead horse, let him go. Time to trade up my dear.... (read in full...)
I've been having an affair for 9 years. I know it's wrong, but how can I break away?
Q. Hi all. I love this guy totally but he's married, so am I. Been trying to stop seeing each other for years. We been together 9yrs now. Each time we fail and whenever we do, we desire each other more and get closer. We have great fun, time ...
A. 27 December 2012: 9 years? You guys must be very ingenious. If you do ever divorce the old ball and chains, you could get a job with the CIA or Interpol or whatever. Just curious, do you guys EVER think about your spouses?... (read in full...)
How long does it take to heal from your first serious relationship?
Q. So my ex and i have been broken up for about 1 1/2 months..and its gotten easier..but ever once and a while ill have flash backs of our relationship and feel sad...so I havnt completely healed. Turns out hes been asking around about how iv been to ...
A. 27 December 2012: There is no carved in stone answer to your question. Just look at the old guy, however I doubt that this will take you decades to get over. If you can try to get some distance from the ex, stay busy, join some school activities, sports, anything you ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my alcoholic father?
Q. I'm having a crisis of loyalty. I'm 20 years old and for the past 10 years i've been aware that my dad has had a drinking problem - my parents separated soon before this realisation. Throughout the years there have been many instances where ...
A. 27 December 2012: You need to move out. Your being there is actually contributing to his problem, emphasis on HIS problem. Time for you, follow your mother's example,to move out and let him sort himself out. Drunks have to hit bottom most of the time before they can ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept at her ex boyfriend's house on Christmas and didn't tell me. What am I supposed to think?
Q. I don't know why my girlfriend would sleep at her ex boyfriend place on Christmas and didn't tell me. She says that him and her are now friends and she's not text me that much either, probably either she's busy or having a wonderful time with him, ...
A. 27 December 2012: Let her have her space, lots and lots of space. I also recommend you don't refer to her as your "girlfriend" again, that is unless you want to ride around in her back pocket.... (read in full...)
How do people so young achieve so much in a short time?
Q. I know i'm going by television here, but i'm sure this is a reality for some people. But i've always wondered how is it that people in Los Angeles for example, live in these massive houses and always have these parties with so many people!! But the ...
A. 27 December 2012: Are you absolutely sure your friend was footing the bill? A lot of old people (and wealthy) like to live vicariously through young people and will pay for it.... (read in full...)
I used to like one girl now I've developed a crush on her friend
Q. I used to like a girl quite a lot, so I asked her best friend to tell me what the first girl thought about me. However, after a few months now I find myself falling for the second girl. I already told her that I don't like the first girl anymore,...
A. 27 December 2012: Ask her out for a coffee or a soft drink, or a movie, or whatever is the customary first date in your locale. Be brave, the first step is the hardest.... (read in full...)
He's married but keeps looking at me. I can't stop thinking about him!
Q. i really like this local guy who i see sometimes on my commute. theres been lots of eye contact between us and theres definate chemistry there. but he is married he stared at me one evening for about ten seconds i was in shock and didnt say ...
A. 27 December 2012: Please say you clicked the wrong age bracket. If not, you should know exactly what you should do. Back off chickie, he's taken.... (read in full...)
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