He's married but keeps looking at me. I can't stop thinking about him!
Q. i really like this local guy who i see sometimes on my commute. theres been lots of eye contact between us and theres definate chemistry there. but he is married he stared at me one evening for about ten seconds i was in shock and didnt say ...
A. 27 December 2012: Please say you clicked the wrong age bracket. If not, you should know exactly what you should do. Back off chickie, he's taken.... (read in full...)
Everyone I know is married, has babies or is in a settled relationship except me! Am I behind and missing out?
Q. Hi, I'm having a little age crisis I guess haha. I've just turned 20, and I don't have one friend that doesn't have a baby or isn't married. Everyone I knew from school is married, had a baby or has been with the same guy/girl for a couple of years. ...
A. 26 December 2012: I just watched "It,s a Wonderful Life", and this post begs the quote: Aw, youth is wasted on the young.... (read in full...)
I feel like he's using me for oral sex and doesn't value our friendship anymore, what should I do?
Q. Hey guys, hoping you will be able to shed a little light on this situation I'm in. There's this guy I've known for awhile, and before we became friends we fooled around (oral sex) over the summer. After this however, we became close friends. There ...
A. 20 December 2012: Knock off the blow jobs is the first thing you do. The second thing you do is to realize that friends come and go, (no pun intended, well okay maybe), especially at your age. The third thing you do is to understand that people get used only because ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's mother has died and now she is pushing me away, what should I do?
Q. My girlfriends mother has passed away on tuesday,so she had to go back to where she comes from,I could not go with her because her family doesn't really like me,so now I'm consolling her via texting and calling but she just keeps pushin me away and ...
A. 20 December 2012: Give her some space and time. Losing one's mother is one of the hardest ordeals in life. Be patient and understanding.... (read in full...)
Does your significant other tell you that he finds other women attractive?
Q. My significant other will comment about women on tv or about coworkers. The other day it was a sitcom and the supporting actor was dating a woman and the actor said she was hot. Then the woman appeared and my SO goes Wow! and then Wow! again. Then ...
A. 18 December 2012: Well you can try the tit-for-tat approach; you know commenting on how hot a guy is etc...but I find that guys are generally clueless to the subtle suggestions and that's why the cast iron frying pan was invented. ... (read in full...)
He got pissed off and told me to leave when I told him I didn't like oral sex...
Q. I have been talking to this guy for 4 months now and I think the relationship is based on sex. He drives trucks and is on the road a lot which leaves us to hang out 2 or 3 times a week. Whenever we hang out its just at his house we watch movies eat ...
A. 18 December 2012: Now what you do is find a man who actually wants to have REAL relationship with you, and I mean the whole nine yards. Don't settle for less.... (read in full...)
Anyone know this average?
Q. What is the average number of men a 26 yr old girl has slept with?...
A. 18 December 2012: I have a strange premonition that you will be posting another question at DC in the very near future...Heads up Yos it's going to be for you....... (read in full...)
He's happily married and I have a bf. So why is this older guy flirting with me at work?
Q. Hey, so this one is probably easy enough to answer, I think. There is this guy at work who seems to have taken a liking to me, he often touches my hands,my back and compliments what I wear and how I look. Now I understand there is flirting at w...
A. 18 December 2012: Yep he's trying to hit on you. Next time Dancing Dan trys it, ask him how his wife is doing these days, and then tell him a cute story about your boyfriend.... (read in full...)
Ex was peeing while talking to me?
Q. Ex bf of many years talking to on the phone often. he has now married. the other night i was talking to hime on the phone and he was taking a leak while he was talking to me. Is this a way some married guys get off?? or does he just feel comfortable ...
A. 18 December 2012: Well Chickie you have much bigger issues than what you've asked advice on here. You are approaching a very slippery slope, slow down and make the first legal U-turn. ... (read in full...)
I'm concerned that my friend's girlfriend is too controlling but I'm afraid to express it to her
Q. My female friend, I'll call her A, has been seeing her new girlfriend, B, for about 4 months now and they have just decided to move in together. When I met B she seemed lovely, but recently I have started to think she is quite controlling and I am ...
A. 17 December 2012: As a friend you should just be there for her, don't bad mouth anybody. See your friend when you can and be available when she decides she is getting smothered. Don't be the messenger who gets shot.... (read in full...)
My parents want to meet my bf! Not sure if this a good idea...any advice?
Q. Hi, I´ve been dating my bf for a quite long time. The thing is I know all his family already and I get along with them really good, because they are open minded people, funny and cheerful and I feel with them like I can talk to them about everythi...
A. 14 December 2012: I think you are worrying about this way too much. If your boyfriend cares about you as much as your post indicates then nothing your parents say will make a difference. Relax.... (read in full...)
Do I have feelings for my co-worker?
Q. Recently, I've been having intimate dreams about my co-worker. He's 29. I'm almost 22. In these dreams, we kiss or have sex. It's so confusing to me because in real life, I only see him as a friend. At least, I think I do. My other co-workers ...
A. 14 December 2012: Beware of romances with co-workers! If the relationship goes sour you are stuck working with the person day in and day out.... (read in full...)
My parents want to meet my bf! Not sure if this a good idea...any advice?
Q. Hi, I´ve been dating my bf for a quite long time. The thing is I know all his family already and I get along with them really good, because they are open minded people, funny and cheerful and I feel with them like I can talk to them about everythi...
A. 14 December 2012: Is it possible to keep the intial meeting on the brief side, like say a dinner but not a whole weekend?... (read in full...)
How can I get closure with husband weeping around about lost young lover?
Q. How to get closure when husband's young EA lover keeps him hanging on? I recently found out my husband, 58, of 30 years, had been having an emotional affair for the last 18 months with a young female friend, 28, who already has a live in boyfrien...
A. 11 December 2012: I'm in total agreement, kick the S.O.B. out, get the best lawyer his money can afford and file for divorce. There can be no closure until you remove him, as much as possible, from your life. Time's a wasting.... (read in full...)
My friend is 35 and has never been to a gynecologist. How can I convince her to go?
Q. I would like to ask for advice about my friend. I’m worried about her. She categorically refuses to go to a doctor that’s so important to any woman’s health – gynecologist. We’re also colleagues and our job is asking all employees to do some medical ...
A. 11 December 2012: You can't help her. You can only nag her which obviously isn't making any difference and may possibly be helping her to dig in her heels. Quit the nagging. She will mostly likely regret her decision down the road but she is a big girl and this is ... (read in full...)
Should I allow my boyfriend to do something sexually that I'm not comfortable with?
Q. My boyfriend of over a year keeps asking me to let him cum on my face... We've done literally everything else and I feel he should be happy with all the stuff we do. He just won't leave me alone about it. I think I would feel really disgusting and ...
A. 10 December 2012: And once again porn rears it's ugly head....... (read in full...)
I'm annoying myself with texting my ex and I don't know how to stop!
Q. I've really lost my temper with my ex today and I can't calm down. We split up because my friend found him on a dating site, when I asked him about it he went mad called me a fat ugly c**t and made out set him up. I'd had months of him calling me a ...
A. 10 December 2012: Duct tape your fingers together and get a grip. You are playing right into his hands. You know he's an asshole so just ignore him and leave him totally alone so he can prove to the rest of world he's an asshole. People will eventually consider the ... (read in full...)
What would my partner do if I suddenly stand up and be strong?
Q. hello, roughly for the last two years in my 3 year relationship i have realised that i have been a pushover. for example if he threatened to leave i would beg him back etc, i apologise for nearly everything, if hes angry or upset i cry afterwards...
A. 6 December 2012: I think you can answer your own question by doing just that, stand up for yourself. No matter what happens you are going to be better off by doing it.... (read in full...)
I need help getting back to normal life after a traumatic experience
Q. Ok a long time (few years) ago I made out and got intimate (no oral/vaginal sex) with what I thought was a women but it was a mtf transsexual with full surgery. That was a traumatic experience for me and I have been depressed about it ever since. I ...
A. 4 December 2012: If you truly had no clue at the time then there's no reason you shouldn't just try to put it behind you. No woman in her right mind would be repulsed by you because of it. It was just a mistake. But I suggest next time you check for an adam's apple ... (read in full...)
Can anyone explain to me how kissing is done well?
Q. ive kissed a man before but im not sure im doing it right. i hate sloppy kisses but i dont know what to really do with my lips and hands and how fast to go and just how to turn him on period. Can someone explain to me how its done?...
A. 29 November 2012: Watch some romantic movies, they should give you some ideas.... (read in full...)
Should I end our affair in person? Or is a goodbye text enough?
Q. I've decided that even tho I'm hopelessly in love with a guy I've been having an affair with, it's time to end it. He is married, and I know he's never gonna leave her, I'm just tired of holding my emotions inside, and waiting for him to be mine, ...
A. 29 November 2012: Do it any way you want just do it ASAP. There are no rules for the "proper" end to an affair. Tell him and never contact him again.... (read in full...)
My daughters are jealous of the time I spend with my boyfriend.
Q. Ok, here is one for ya. Been in a serious relationship with a wonderful man and things are great except for my two girls (ages 19 and 20) from a previous marriage. I thought it would be his 11 year old daughter that would be a problem, but no... My ...
A. 29 November 2012: Sorry I posted before your last two responses showed up, now it appears that things will settle down on their own IMHO. I have two adult daughters so I know where you are coming from.... (read in full...)
My daughters are jealous of the time I spend with my boyfriend.
Q. Ok, here is one for ya. Been in a serious relationship with a wonderful man and things are great except for my two girls (ages 19 and 20) from a previous marriage. I thought it would be his 11 year old daughter that would be a problem, but no... My ...
A. 29 November 2012: SVC has a valid point. When does he see his own child if he's with you everyday except Tuesdays? She sounds like the one being short-sheeted to me.... (read in full...)
We don't like her, so we bully her. I think she's going to report us, any advice?
Q. in my friendship group there are 20 of us and we're all really close. since about yr6 we've been friends with this other girl,bertha, in yr7 we had a fall out. i felt really bad so i apologised to her face she accepted it, but did not apologise ...
A. 28 November 2012: Young teenage girls with mob mentality....sends shivers down one's back doesn't it?!... (read in full...)
How does a much older man approach a young woman who hates men?
Q. I too have a propensity for endearment for a woman 21 years younger than me. I have watched her evolve from a 23 year old girl to a 31 year woman and have gone from a crush to something else much stonger. Only problem is that she hates men due to...
A. 27 November 2012: Stupid is as stupid does.... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me!
Q. I am concerned my boyfriend is cheating on me. I have had suspicions before as in our first year of University I heard him talking, drunkenly, to one of his other flat mates about how he would love to sleep with this other girl he lived with and ...
A. 27 November 2012: Sounds like he's cheating or is working on it. Time for a nice long chat.... (read in full...)
I think I'm falling in love with a teacher at my school.
Q. There is this teacher at my school. I don't take him but his class is next door to my first period class and my locker. He's young (28) and im 13 .. I see him in the hallways during lunch, in the mornings and i often stare at him. I think he's ...
A. 26 November 2012: The only cures for a crush are time and distance. A crush can't survive either and both will certainly do the trick. ... (read in full...)
Is this just a sweet gesture or is he romantically interested in me?
Q. I've known this guy for over 2 years now, we're very good friends. I did fall for him sometime ago (and I did tell him, we just had a very down to earth conversation about it), but we can't be together for whatever reason, anyway my feelings...
A. 26 November 2012: I truly hate wasting any of the precious time I have on this earth if I can avoid it. Since you guys can NEVER be together then I would just settle for friendship and not count on anything else from him. If you are interested in finding a partner ... (read in full...)
Is this just a sweet gesture or is he romantically interested in me?
Q. I've known this guy for over 2 years now, we're very good friends. I did fall for him sometime ago (and I did tell him, we just had a very down to earth conversation about it), but we can't be together for whatever reason, anyway my feelings...
A. 26 November 2012: Just why exactly can't you ever be together?... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 26 November 2012: Yea! I just love happy endings!... (read in full...)
I think he stole my bracelet
Q. Over a year ago, I found my favorite bracelet, a diamond cuff bracelet missing. It was hidden in the side pocket of my suitcase, which was in my bedroom. I keep my bedroom locked when I'm not there. My boyfriend moved in with me about a month ...
A. 18 November 2012: Was it insured?... (read in full...)
How does a much older man approach a young woman who hates men?
Q. I too have a propensity for endearment for a woman 21 years younger than me. I have watched her evolve from a 23 year old girl to a 31 year woman and have gone from a crush to something else much stonger. Only problem is that she hates men due to...
A. 17 November 2012: I'm curious, have you ever been in a long term relationship?... (read in full...)
If I don't ask her out will she be offended?
Q. Okay, this one is complicated. Keeping in mind that I am not looking for a girlfriend, riddle me this: the girl I like has found out from other sources that I like her, and I have not confirmed it. Apparently, she likes me and dosn't think I like ...
A. 16 November 2012: Cruel? Hardly. I think you are WAY over thinking this. Relax and just talk to her, that's how it's done Buddy.... (read in full...)
If I don't ask her out will she be offended?
Q. Okay, this one is complicated. Keeping in mind that I am not looking for a girlfriend, riddle me this: the girl I like has found out from other sources that I like her, and I have not confirmed it. Apparently, she likes me and dosn't think I like ...
A. 15 November 2012: Well I have to tell you that I wouldn't let my 13 year old daughters date at your age so MY daughters wouldn't have been offended. Why don't you just call her? At least she will know you are kind of interested in her.... (read in full...)
Sex Survey: how often do you want it?
Q. Questions for married women ages 40-50 in long term marriages. How often would you like sex? Once a week? Every day? How often does your husband initiate? Please state your age, years married and sex frequency you'd like. Also state your % est...
A. 15 November 2012: Dang it, I'm too old for your survey. However I do qualify for the 10% off senior discount at my favorite store every Wednesday....... (read in full...)
How does a much older man approach a young woman who hates men?
Q. I too have a propensity for endearment for a woman 21 years younger than me. I have watched her evolve from a 23 year old girl to a 31 year woman and have gone from a crush to something else much stonger. Only problem is that she hates men due to...
A. 15 November 2012: You are a little long in the tooth to be mooning around like a love sick teenager. There is nothing here that gives the slightest glimmer of hope for a relationship with this woman. I think you know that or at your age you should. Have you EVER been ... (read in full...)
If I don't ask her out will she be offended?
Q. Okay, this one is complicated. Keeping in mind that I am not looking for a girlfriend, riddle me this: the girl I like has found out from other sources that I like her, and I have not confirmed it. Apparently, she likes me and dosn't think I like ...
A. 15 November 2012: Well how about you just call her and have a nice chat. Take little baby steps and get to know her, you don't need to go on a date at this point.... (read in full...)
Help, I'm still in love with my ex
Q. hello =) ! well ,my ex boyfriend and i are friends now ,so he came to me asking for help , he wants to get back his ex gf and i'm cool with , but the problem is i'm still in love with him ,and he loves her even if she left him for another guy , so ...
A. 14 November 2012: Get busy with your own life and move on. Let him figure out on his own how to woo his ex, don't get involved with that mess. If you keep him in your inner circle you won't be able get over your unrequited love.... (read in full...)
My husband flipped out because I wore a male co-worker's jacket! Is he making it too big of a deal?
Q. Hi everyone. Pretty quick question: Is it okay to wear a male coworker's jacket if you are married? My husband found out that my coworker let's me wear his jacket at work and totally flipped out. I don't see the harm in it. Let me know what you th...
A. 14 November 2012: Yeah, why don't you have a jacket of your own at work?... (read in full...)
If I don't ask her out will she be offended?
Q. Okay, this one is complicated. Keeping in mind that I am not looking for a girlfriend, riddle me this: the girl I like has found out from other sources that I like her, and I have not confirmed it. Apparently, she likes me and dosn't think I like ...
A. 14 November 2012: Can you drive yet?... (read in full...)
Should I go out with this guy that is only asking to keep me happy, or date a guy and feel like I've betrayed the guy I'm seeing?
Q. I have a really sensitive issue - I've been seeing this guy that is completely commitment-phobic, he refuses to even consider dating me, but he's all over me, can't manage a single night without cuddling up in bed with me, it's not sex, it's ju...
A. 14 November 2012: Date the new guy, the other sounds like he has too many issues.... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 18 April 2012: I hope YOU aren't disappointed in HIM. Besides this is a "what do I have to lose" situation. Try to relax and enjoy the anticipation, sometimes that's the very best part.... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 18 April 2012: Please let us know how your meeting turns out.... (read in full...)
I'm overweight and meeting my LDR boyfriend for the first time, how do I prepare myself for rejection?
Q. I've been in an LDR for about 6 months and next month, he's coming to my country to meet me. I'm very fat and from the very beginning, I made sure he knew that. I mentioned it and even sent him full-length photographs so that he knew exactly how I ...
A. 16 April 2012: You need to take a deep breath. You've been totally upfront with him so you needn't worry about your weight since it obviously isn't stopping him from coming to meet you. You should relax like SVC says and try to enjoy the butterflies.... (read in full...)
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