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*uietgirl1
writes:i really like this local guy who i see sometimes on my commute. theres been lots of eye contact between us and theres definate chemistry there. but he is married he stared at me one evening for about ten seconds i was in shock and didnt say anything to him and he didnt even talk to me then he started saying hi to me few times.he seems quiet enough. one morning i gave him my number but nothing happened. i even approached him and tried small talk and he obviously remembered that he was married cos he said it to me then, i backed off and let it go but i cant stop thinking about him its been like this for many months now, looking at each other and nothing happening i am willing to talk to him if he wants but what should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, quietgirl1 +, writes (27 December 2012):
quietgirl1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionive been taking steps to avoid him, like if i see him on train i move into different carriage. i think he might have tried to say hi to me one evening and i kept my head down and ignored him i get the earliest train in the mornings as i know i wont see him but sometimes he turns up on that but im trying to move on cos its been like this for to long now and its obvious what i need to do.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 Please say you clicked the wrong age bracket. If not, you should know exactly what you should do. Back off chickie, he's taken.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy  +, writes (27 December 2012):
 I think you should sit down and give yourself some time to consider whether you really want to start up something with an Unavailable man, or whether you are indulging in a fantasy. Nothing wrong with a fantasy or having a crush, but this guy is off limits and he knows it. It sounds like he enjoy the flirting but doesn't want it to progress, and quite rightly so.
If it helps, change your commute a bit. Set off ten minutes earlier so you don't keep seeing him. Get him out of your system.
I can't see any good coming out of this. Good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 December 2012):
 You need to let it go.
He manned up and told you he was married because he does not have any intentions of doing something to jeopardize his marriage. You have to respect that.
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