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writes:Ok soo, i really like this married man. i think he may like me. He's always lingering around when he picks his child up(i work at a daycare) and he introduced himself to me. After our brief chat he says, "its nice to meet you, finally!" So i know hes noticed me before. One time i was walking to my car and he nearly broke his neck to look at me. I know hes married, but is attracted to me? He seems happy in his marriage. What do i look for to know that hes kinda sorta into me?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 January 2013):
 Sounds to me like he's happily married being kind to the young woman that cares for the child he created with his wife.
you like his look so you have built up in your brain the idea that just because he looks at you (he's married NOT DEAD) and made nice pleasantries with you, that he wants to bang your brains out or worse leave his wife for you.
Get over it. you have a crush.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 January 2013):
 What you are looking for is TROUBLE. Pure and simple.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2013): Dont look for anything! What's the matter with you? How would you feel if some girl was inquiring in this manner about your man? Don't mess with married people, period. It doesn't make any difference what you think this guy is doing or what he actually is doing...believe me, if he is crossing boundaries with you, he is certainly doing it with others as well. People find others attractive, but people with standards, morals and class don't act on it.
Go find an available man and don't encourage this guy in any way shape or form. You are there to care for his child as well as the other children and that's it. Don't go looking for trouble and have some respect for yourself and for his WIFE.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (7 January 2013):
 Maybe, and here is a novel thought, maybe he said it was nice to finally meet you because he likes to know the people in whose care he places his child. Maybe he took a second look when you walk past because he wasn't sure if it was you or not, just maybe, and here is another novel idea, maybe he seems happy in his marriage because he is happy in his marriage.
Eyes off the customers girl! You are there to care for children, not to be fantasising about the children's fathers!
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