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writes:ok guys. question about curved penis. my penis is curved downwards and its curved pretty good. its not like an L shaped curve but rather just points downwards after 2 inch on the shaft on a 45 degree angle or maybe 60. im just wondering is this gonna cause me some trouble with sex in the future? i have researched the internet and apparently a downward curve is better with penetration from behind (ex. doggy style) positions while upwards with the face to face sex position. im just wondering since i have a rather extreme curvature (downwards), is this gonna be a problem for having sex with a woman in face to face positions because i'd really like to do that, it seems to me that from behind position is kind of not romantic as face to face ones.also, i'm not sure if its true. im wondering how these curvatures develop? they say that if you put your penis tucked in your underwear instead of having it up, against the pubic area, it will grow with a curve downwards. but i also read that those are just myths. also if you masturbate with your right hand your penis would be pointed to the left a little bit, and vice versa. i do tuck my penis down and masturbate with my right hand and it seems true. but someone please clarify, this could all just be because of genetic causes. i'd like to know so i would start putting my penis up in my underwear to straighten it up a little bit.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 January 2013):
 Curved can rub in all the right places.
besides there are so many positions to try
her on top facing you
her on top facing away
you on top
you behind
dovetail
scissors
doggy
and then there's always oral.
don't worry about it...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (15 January 2013):
 Bill Clinton has a curved penis and the fact that Monica Lewinsky knew it was what blew the whistle...so to speak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2013): Why it curves is out of your control, mine curves too and it's not due to anything other than genetics OP. Most men have a curve whether it's slight or pronounced. Not even surgery can straighten it without doing some severe damage, besides there is nothing wrong with having a curve as along as you use it right.
Mine curves upwards, so it's exceptionally good at hitting some really nice spots in missionary but doggy style etc. took a bit of experimentation and a bit of gymnastics to get the right position.
I wouldn't worry about it at all, you just have to learn how to use it and the only way you'll learn is by having sex and experimenting. Don't worry about something that isn't a problem. We all have different size and shape penises, the only thing that matters to women is you know how to use it and you use it well, and that only really matters after some time. Most are very patient and more than willing to learn as you go along. You'd be surprized by the amount of guys that really just don't give a damn by how good they are or getting better at it, or even care whether the woman is pleasured.
Besides OP, your penis is not your only sexual tool. Again most guys think their penis is the centre of the sexual universe, it's not. Tongue and fingers are far better at delicate movements, applying certain pressure etc. In my experience for most women about 70% of the pleasure they receive sexually is done with the hand and tongue, by far the majority of them can't even climax from intercourse. So it's just as important if not even more important that you learn good oral and manual technique. It's also important that you learn how the woman you're with likes to be touched and where.
Knowing that your woman melts just by kissing her neck or nibbling on her ear is just as important as anything you do with your penis, knowing exactly how to stimulate her clitoris with your tongue even more so, knowing how to tease to build tension or that she'd rather you were rough with her nipples than lightly brush them. Don't make the mistake most guys seem to and think the penis is the centre of your sexual universe, it's not. I have a friend with a micro penis who is married with two kids, his wife once drunkenly confessed that he is amazing at oral and with his hands, can have her cumming so hard she feels she's going to black out within 5 minutes of spend 30 minutes slowly building her up to a long drawn out orgasm, or give her multiples in one session. She doesn't miss the feeling of being penetrated because they use dildos from time to time too, and he doesn't feel less of a man because he always had a micro and is better at giving orgasm to his wife than most men will ever be.
Don't worry about it, you'll learn how to use it well and as long as you give tonnes of good oral then you'll be fine.
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