He wants me to change my title from Mrs to Ms. Should I, and how do I do it?
Q. My husband is very keen and really wants me to change my title from Mrs. to Ms. He says it is much more sexy. What do others think about this, as I am fairly OK with it, but not totally sure. How would I go about effecting this change? ...
A. 6 October 2012: It must be a British thing because here in the US, married ladies go by both interchangeably. Most of my mail is addressed Ms. not Mrs. I apply the the Dr. Gara philosophy to it.... (read in full...)
He wants me to change my title from Mrs to Ms. Should I, and how do I do it?
Q. My husband is very keen and really wants me to change my title from Mrs. to Ms. He says it is much more sexy. What do others think about this, as I am fairly OK with it, but not totally sure. How would I go about effecting this change? ...
A. 1 October 2012: Much Ado About Nothing if you ask me.... (read in full...)
Too Close For My Comfort
Q. I need advice. My 24 year old stepdaughter moved in with us. She quit a perfectly good job and came home. She doesn't clean up, she doesn't pay rent, she generally acts like she is still a child instead of the grown woman she is. My problem and...
A. 31 August 2012: I'm sorry that it has come to this but I think you may be right about having to leave.... (read in full...)
Too Close For My Comfort
Q. I need advice. My 24 year old stepdaughter moved in with us. She quit a perfectly good job and came home. She doesn't clean up, she doesn't pay rent, she generally acts like she is still a child instead of the grown woman she is. My problem and...
A. 30 August 2012: How is he with you? Is he as affectionate? Does he cuddle with you?... (read in full...)
Is this just a crush or is it something more?
Q. I will be 41 in two months and this guy I see from time to time makes me smile with my heart. We are not dating just we run in to each other every other blue moon.Man when I see him butterflies race across my stomach, I can't hear anything ,and my ...
A. 30 August 2012: Ask him out for a glass of ice water.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 30 August 2012: It appears you two are well-suited to each other so enjoy yourselves until Daddy Warbucks finds out.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 29 August 2012: Yeah that pesky adultery can be so tiresome, all that time-consuming sneaking around. If you stop seeing her you could get some rest and you could look at yourself in the mirror.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have a really good relationship with your mother-in-law?
Q. Hello everyone. So... my husband is often abroad for work. I lost my mom to cancer a couple of years ago. Since day 1 I've bonded with my mother in law whom I consider like a mother and a best friend. So, while my husband is abroad I often (say, on...
A. 29 August 2012: Maybe your friend is a tad jealous of your friendship with the MIL? My mother-in-law died in 1984 and I miss her to this day.... (read in full...)
Too Close For My Comfort
Q. I need advice. My 24 year old stepdaughter moved in with us. She quit a perfectly good job and came home. She doesn't clean up, she doesn't pay rent, she generally acts like she is still a child instead of the grown woman she is. My problem and...
A. 29 August 2012: Personally I think it's pretty weird too but I can't for the life of me figure out what you can do about it. If they have always carried on this way then all I have to offer you is the sincere hope that she will move out soon or maybe that she will ... (read in full...)
I need advice on how to kiss
Q. I've been going out with this girl for a while and I am ready to kiss her. But the thing is I don't know what to do with my lips. I already have the perfect idea for it but I don't know how to do it. How do I do it? Please help me it's going to be ...
A. 29 August 2012: Watch the movie Rain Man, the part where Charlie's girlfriend teaches Raymond how to kiss. Very instructive.... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking of him
Q. I have a problem with this guy I've known for a while he's lovely and I'm attracted to him, also he says he's the same with me! Problem is he has a girlfriend and we have chatted a few times they live together too, thing is he always makes way for ...
A. 29 August 2012: What are you asking? Permission to cheat? Want us to talk you out of it?... (read in full...)
I still love her, but now she's with someone else
Q. Where do I begin? I've recently split up with my girlfriend of 7 years as I'm in love with someone else. Everything is a mess, our lives are all so interwoven and it's been the process of many years. There has always been something betwee...
A. 29 August 2012: She chose her friendship with your ex-girlfriend over a relationship with you? How do you figure she loves you? I think you have no choice but to cut bait and move on. Leave all the drama in the past and start over.... (read in full...)
I'm thinking I'm in love with my coach
Q. I think I'm in love with my coach. every time I see him, I just get so.. excited.. my heart skips a beat. He is so attractive, and really nice. Everyone knows him, and everyone likes him too.. just not the way I do. And I can't tell anyone I feel t...
A. 29 August 2012: Hey Doc you need to give a coffee alert for those of us prone to snort all over our keyboards... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's future stepmom complains all the time. And seems to dress inappropriately for her age. Is she after my boyfriend?
Q. I need advice! So, my boyfriend's stepmom just came here recently from another country about two days ago and she's already complaining about america (She will also be getting citizenship through this marriage, so I still don't know why she comp...
A. 29 August 2012: I'm a grandma and I wear heels and etc. Just saying. I think you need to relax and make sure you don't add to problem. Things may settle down on their own, after all it's your boyfriend's family not yours.... (read in full...)
How do I prevent myself from being used in class?
Q. From elementary to high school, I was always a "nerd" so girls I thought were friends with me because they thought I was cool/nice/etc, actually used me by copying my homework/cheating off me....This is why I didn't make too many friends, because I ...
A. 29 August 2012: I work in a major university in North Carolina and here "displays of knowledge" are considered to very attractive indeed. Maybe you should switch colleges. The only real nerds in college are the the ones paying big bucks for an education they are ... (read in full...)
Is this just a crush or is it something more?
Q. I will be 41 in two months and this guy I see from time to time makes me smile with my heart. We are not dating just we run in to each other every other blue moon.Man when I see him butterflies race across my stomach, I can't hear anything ,and my ...
A. 29 August 2012: So ask him out for coffee then.... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? I cheated on my Gf last night and never felt guilty about it. Is it something within me?
Q. I really don't know what's wrong with me and i hate what i am doing. I am 27 and i have always been a ladies man, to say. I don't know what my problem is. I have always enjoyed going out and meeting girls in bars and having fun. I am a good ...
A. 29 August 2012: Exactly right DoubleM, just not ready to settle down, nothing wrong about that. Enjoy yourself but be honest with the women you date and don't mislead them into thinking you are committed to the relationship. You can have fun but don't be an ass ... (read in full...)
Did his one sentence reply mean leave me alone?
Q. Hello basically i'm 21 now finished uni. Before, i was certain that my lecturer was trying it on with me more so towards the end. He has always been like my shining white knight, helped me a lot. I emailed him few days ago first time we have spo...
A. 28 August 2012: You, little bird, have left the nest. He now has more little birds to nurture and teach so they can do the same when their time comes. Maybe you were reading just a little too much into his interest in you.... (read in full...)
He wants me to change my title from Mrs to Ms. Should I, and how do I do it?
Q. My husband is very keen and really wants me to change my title from Mrs. to Ms. He says it is much more sexy. What do others think about this, as I am fairly OK with it, but not totally sure. How would I go about effecting this change? ...
A. 28 August 2012: Must really clog up the court system over there!... (read in full...)
He wants me to change my title from Mrs to Ms. Should I, and how do I do it?
Q. My husband is very keen and really wants me to change my title from Mrs. to Ms. He says it is much more sexy. What do others think about this, as I am fairly OK with it, but not totally sure. How would I go about effecting this change? ...
A. 28 August 2012: In Great Britain you have to LEGALLY change the prefix to your name from Mrs. to Ms.?... (read in full...)
My Friend Is Obsessed with Copying everything I do!
Q. i feel like my best friend is envious of me. she copies everything i do. for example i decided to redo my room i painted it and got some new decorations for my room. she goes and paints her room and puts the exact same decoration. everything i have ...
A. 28 August 2012: Find a new friend to hang with, friends come and go, it's family you are stuck with.... (read in full...)
He wants me to change my title from Mrs to Ms. Should I, and how do I do it?
Q. My husband is very keen and really wants me to change my title from Mrs. to Ms. He says it is much more sexy. What do others think about this, as I am fairly OK with it, but not totally sure. How would I go about effecting this change? ...
A. 27 August 2012: Well for god's sake don't him move to North Carolina! Every female is called "Miss" down here! From 2 months to 90 years, you are Miss this and Miss that. He'd die from all the sexiness.... (read in full...)
He's engaged, his fiancé is pregnant, but WE have feelings for each other. What should I do?
Q. I have a friend who is engaged to be married but is very unhappy in his relationship. We have recently discovered that we have strong feelings for eachother. The issue is his fiancee is 5 months pregnant (unplanned). We would never act on those ...
A. 27 August 2012: You think you might wait around and see what HE decides???
Are you nuts? You have been given the gift of seeing the guy for cheating sleezebag that he is (not to mention your own part in this) lots of women don't find out until they have inve... (read in full...)
Are his feelings starting to come back?
Q. I hung out with my ex yesterday. We went to the paint store. We had lots of physical contact, although it was not kissing and stuff. We flirted in a playful way, like I'd take his hat and he'd try to get it back and he'd put it in his pocket and I'd ...
A. 27 August 2012: Why do you care? You have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. He is past history. Does your boyfriend know you guys are hanging out?... (read in full...)
How can we break the habit of having sex so much?
Q. Okay, so I've been with this guy for a 1.5 years, and we lost our virginities to each other about 4 months into our relationship. We're both Christians, and have often said we need to stop having sex - it can be up to 3 times in one day, and eve...
A. 27 August 2012: Stay out in public.... (read in full...)
Is he being a typical rat?
Q. Hi I have known this guy for quite a few years I fancied him when I was 18 but he was more into my mate, fast forward 9 years I bumped into him in a club he was like you look great do you want a drink etc, gave him my numb he tried to get me to take ...
A. 27 August 2012: Do not have sex with him and see if he stays in contact. It's the only way you'll know if he's just looking to get laid.... (read in full...)
Would you accept the money or would I be taking advantage of my position as a soon-to-be-wife?
Q. Hey everyone :) My mother passed away a few months ago leaving me a tiny apartment. The law in my country is such that I need to pay a heck of a lot of money in taxes in order to get hold of that apartment and a very high yearly tax in order to...
A. 27 August 2012: In my marriage there has never been any MY money only OUR money. This is something that has to be discussed fully before the wedding. #1 cause for marriage disputes. If both of you agree that combining finances are the way you want to go, then I ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about the size of my penis
Q. hi, so im worried about my penis size... im 19 still a virgin, i have recieved oral sex before and im just worried about the size of my penis, its roughly (ive never had it measured by a doctor) 3 inches depending on how warm/cold i am, i might get ...
A. 24 August 2012: If I had a penis I would talk to my doctor about that twanging.... (read in full...)
He's so much taller than me, will this work?
Q. This guy i've met we get along really well as if we've known each other a lot longer than the past couple weeks, we like the same things so we have a fair amount in common. He's really sweet and fun to be around, and good thing is he's funny in such ...
A. 24 August 2012: Personally I think this is a non-issue. If he makes you smile all the time, why would you want to give that up? My Dad was 6'3" and my Mom was 5"4" and they were married to each until my Mom died at age 68. This is not a problem.... (read in full...)
I love my husband but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to makes me feel unimportant and undervalued, and is putting me into a state of depression.
Q. I love my husband, but his habits of selfishness and laziness are starting to really eat at me. While I feel he loves me, I don't feel he cares about me. He doesn't seem at all concerned with what I might need or want, and everything seems devoted ...
A. 23 August 2012: You don't want to insult or make him feel bad, Hummm? Well then Honey, you are going to be living your life this same way next year and the year after that. If that isn't acceptable then you will have to sit him down and tell him exactly what you ... (read in full...)
When a man treats his woman well: When did it become okay to commit or marry but then show no interest in a sex life with your man?
Q. I am talking about women in serious relationships who act like their man has no right to expect a decent sex life from them. Before you jump on me with the claws out, please listen to what I am saying and what I am not. I am not saying anyth...
A. 23 August 2012: Is this happening to you? If yes, was the sex great before you married? Was this the old bait and switch situation?... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 22 August 2012: That's why you should go on to college, to explore the different fields of study. Most people don't know what they want to do for a living at your age. That's what college can do for you. You will never find that kind of fulfillment by staying home ... (read in full...)
Is it normal that I have these feelings for a man 26 years older than me?
Q. There is a 46 year old man working where I work (he's in charge of maintainance) and I am a 20 year old "secretary"... I am pretty attracted to this man and I feel abnormal, strange and guilty. He's quite handsome but I'm very shy so I never ...
A. 22 August 2012: He's not married, right?... (read in full...)
My wife was intimate with someone else while we were separated. How do I get past this?
Q. So My wife and I of just over a year have been separated(distance) since April. During that time we talked on the phone, texts, skype. It seemed like everything was going ok, we were both heartbroken and sad to be away from each other, but we were ...
A. 22 August 2012: This past April? You mean she couldn't stay faithful for roughly 3 months?????... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my aunt?
Q. Hey I'm 19 years old and I live with my aunt and she strict and mean. I am in college the only one in fact but she disapproves , I'm paying for school my self so it's no money out get pockets. And the problem is she never lets me do anything like u ...
A. 22 August 2012: Wow this is a real Cinderella story. I can only say you need to find that job so you can move out. She doesn't sound like someone you can negotiate with so leaving is your only option. Once you find that job do you have some friends you can share ... (read in full...)
Should I continue this and hope for the best?
Q. Our brief history is this, we met as lovers, intense poetic, passionate lovers. Eventually we both left our marriages, became supportive friends and lovers discussing love, loss, family, dreams, goals. We keep in constant communication, telephone ...
A. 21 August 2012: What's a "dote"?... (read in full...)
Does he need time or just being nice?
Q. He broke up with me in a nice way. I still feel a little confused though. He said he isn't ready for a commitment so thats why he ended things so okay with that but @ the end of the break up email he wrote and I quote- "Hope someone gives you ...
A. 21 August 2012: If he broke up with you by email I don't think he's all that nice anyway.... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 21 August 2012: At college they will be able to guide you towards a major and career for which you have both an apptitude and an interest. There are assessments to help determine that. You wouldn't be burdening your family as the end result of your college degree ... (read in full...)
Have I made the right decision? To not go to college? My Boyfriend is going to college, and now I'm doubting myself, and missing him.
Q. Long story short,my boyfriend is going off to college. I trust him not to cheat, so my real issue is two other things... One, I'm lonely. He's living pretty far away, and he's told me we won't be able to see each other much because he needs...
A. 20 August 2012: You've heard that 40's are the new 30's? Well college is the new high school. It will severely limit your options if you do not go to college. You may get a fairly good job but have to sit back and watch college grads get promoted over you. It's ... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: Google these yourself: Austism, Aspergers or ADHD...and study hard, why make SVC do all the work?... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 17 August 2012: I agree with Tish's idea, I think he is UNABLE to answer these questions rather than unwilling.... (read in full...)
My parents are constantly criticizing me!!
Q. Dear Cupid, My parents are constantly criticizing me. My dad has been physically abusive in the past but now that has ceased and hes verbally abusive to me constantly. We don't always see eye to eye on style and my parents basically hate t...
A. 16 August 2012: Totally agree with FA, It's time to move to your own place dear. Your relationship with your parents will miraculously improve and so will your self-esteem.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: I said "yes" to my husband 37 friggin' years ago. Flawed logic indeed and last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Heck fire, I'm can't even type.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Heck fire, I'm can't even get the last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Well Trisha, whatdaya say? He just wants to make it real for you. Ask him for some upfront money, you know for travel expenses, maybe a trousseau, etc... just make sure it's a cashier's check......... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Tish, I know where to find you....... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: ...sigh... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 16 August 2012: Ahem, last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 15 August 2012: Ok, NOW I have the last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 15 August 2012: I want to have the last word.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 13 August 2012: Tell us a little about yourself, big guy. Have you dated a lot and are just tired of it or have you never dated and are afraid of it? And don't shout.... (read in full...)
Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?
Q. This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you ...
A. 13 August 2012: I can think of something else that's bound to "wither away", into a stubby little nub most likely........ (read in full...)
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