How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 9 April 2013: "sigh"... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 9 April 2013: "sigh"... (read in full...)
He wants a relationship, but not with someone with children
Q. So I pretty much know what I should do, but I wanted a second opinion... There's this guy I started to hang out with outside of work (we're co-workers sort of). He has a temporary job working in the district I permanently work in. We started hangi...
A. 8 April 2013: Take him at his word, he's too immature to deal with your having a small child. Go with your gut and say good bye in June.... (read in full...)
My teenage son wears my women's underwear, what should I do?
Q. My son (16) steals my unders and we talked but I have not talked or to my husband about him putting things in his hind end while he does this. That bothers me so should I worry? It's been a lot of house hold items I unfortunately have picked up to ...
A. 8 April 2013: Good sherlocking there IAHTh!
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How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 7 April 2013: He's going ahead with the divorce for himself, not to be with you. He already said he doesn't really want a relationship. He just trying to string you along to keep you in his back pocket. He'll pull you when he wants then stuff you back in when he ... (read in full...)
How can I get this man to bend? He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship
Q. I had a beautiful relationship with a man for ten months. We are both 38. We went through through alot together. He had been seperated from his wife for three years. They had no kids involved. The thing is his ex wife didnt really want him back, ...
A. 7 April 2013: What you "HAD" was a whole lot of nothing. Take off those rose-colored lens and take a deep breath, does it smell like coffee? You can and must do better. Happy hunting, it can actually be lots of fun.... (read in full...)
What is the best and worst pickup line you've ever heard?
Q. Pickup lines have been used on both men and women. Some are good, some are very, very bad, but we can all agree that they’re pretty funny. Share with us any good or bad ones you've heard. Feel free to list more than one!...
A. 7 April 2013: My best was also my worst. I met my husband to be in August of 1974. He came up to me at a club and said "You remind me of someone I saw in a Star Trek episode." No lie. We were married by the end of the next year and are still.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is constantly pissed off with me over the smallest things, I'm starting to wonder if it is worth staying with her anymore?
Q. Hello everyone, I want help/opinions on my over 3 yrs relationship. you see my girlfriend is a great person but she is not a great girlfriend. Its hard to stay happy with her. Shes really delicate in t sense that any little think just flicks the ...
A. 5 April 2013: Sounds like a high-maintence drama queen, time to trade up my friend.... (read in full...)
Has anyone got any quotes/sayings that they live by or feel inspired from?
Q. I know this is a relationship website, but I am getting a quote painted on my wall above the mirror, I want it to be something that when I wake up and look at everyday, I feel inspired by it! Something about either, life, success, our future, ...
A. 31 March 2013: Anything and everything Erma Bombeck ever said. She is my hero.... (read in full...)
How do I tell my sex-buddy I don't want to sleep with him anymore?
Q. How do i tell my sex-buddy i dont want to sleep with him anymore? I live in a different city for university and when i come back we always meet up for drinks/cinema or we'l wobble back to each others houses after nights out. We've been sleeping to...
A. 27 March 2013: Show him what you just posted to us.... (read in full...)
Cant seem to get the right guy to ask me out?
Q. I'm 21 and considered very attractive and nice but I can't seem to get the kind of boyfriend I would like. If I am out at a club, a party or whatever, the only kind of guys that hit on me are the really outgoing, overly confident ones or the really ...
A. 27 March 2013: I think all you need is patience. It will happen when you least expect it.... (read in full...)
Mother, Baby, BF and financial Woes
Q. Been seeing a guy from work for past 3 months, everything's going lovely, he is 54 and I'm 22! Yeah big age gap I know, I have a one year old but he's completely fine with that my issue is my mum, I currently live with her as she looks after my baby ...
A. 27 March 2013: If you really can't afford to move out then I guess your only option is to try and calmly reason with her. She needs to realize that you are an adult now and if she wants to benefit from the extra income you provide then she has to back off a bit. ... (read in full...)
Do I ditch my friend that wants to eat in the toilet
Q. Hi so I have this friend at school lets call her R on the first day me and her were besties with S and N. N ditched her. R was upset. So, me, R, G, S, Sh and sometimes Ao hung out at lunch. Then R started acting bitchy and started bossing us about. ...
A. 27 March 2013: I'll have to come back to your post, my head hurts really really bad at this moment....... (read in full...)
Wrong for 15 year old to date 19 year old?
Q. I am a fifteen year old girl, and I am currently interersted in a 19 year old man. We have known eachother for about a year now and have become extremely close in this period of time. Is it wrong for a younger girl and an older guy to date? ...
A. 26 March 2013: The only people you should be asking are Mom and Dad. I suggest you do just that.... (read in full...)
I think he might have been the one. He's dating someone else now. Should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Help!! Should I tell him how I feel? 9 months ago I finished dating a guy I had been seeing for 14 months. I hadn't slept with him because I have always wanted to wait for the 'right one' also I was going away travelling for two months so didn't...
A. 26 March 2013: If he was still interested he'd still be chasing you. Since he he has obviously moved on and is in another relationship I think you should read the writing on the wall. ... (read in full...)
Is it right to trust your gut instinct about dating someone?
Q. Ok so some people are gonna think I'm mad for this post.. But is it right to trust your gut instinct? Basically about 3 months ago this man I was seeing just stopped speaking to me, no reason, no nothing, just didn't turn up one might when we were ...
A. 26 March 2013: Not insane but definitely futile. Don't waste any more time or energy beating a dead horse. Force yourself to move on, don't look at his stupid Facebook page and try to get busy with your own life. Key word is busy.... (read in full...)
She text me and told her not to text her again, but should I text her back?
Q. Hello i,m a 52 yr old man, haven,t had much experience with women, find it difficult to read the sign,s/ signals, i have been on 2 dates with a 51 yr old woman, but 6 days ago she txt me and said, that she finds me childish, and have i got mental ...
A. 25 March 2013: No means no Buddy. This relationship was just not meant to be, let it go. Keep looking and happy hunting, I'm sure you will find her.... (read in full...)
She's starting a new job soon so I want her to pay towards the rent and bills, how do I bring this up with her?
Q. So been with gf for 5 years most of long distances. Back in Aug we moved in together I own the house and she was going to pay rent for $250 Month. With her not makes much money I said hold on to it and when u get better job you'll be able to help. ...
A. 22 March 2013: While my marriage is set up like SVC's I definitely recommend that unmarrieds NEVER combine incomes or share major purchases or bank accounts. Having her pay her share of the bills is only fair. She would have to pay that anywhere she lived. Sit her ... (read in full...)
My personal trainer embarassed me in front of everyone in the gym, why did he do this?
Q. Why did he behave like that? I'm so angry and ambrassed? I was working out with my personal trainer and I'm kinda shy so I couldnt look at him straight so i was looking around the gym. and alot of changes has taken place there so I was j...
A. 22 March 2013: Sounds like a crush to me.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to want anal sex with my wife?
Q. Is it normal to want anal sex with my wife, she's got a lovely arse and she's the only person I want it with, we have been together for 20 + years and have a fantastic sex life, I'm just wondering if my penis would be too big for her, it's 6 ins but ...
A. 22 March 2013: As the official Keeper of the DC Manual, and from extensive research, sort of, I can recommend a product if you and your wife do indeed decide to dive into the realm of poo poo sex. Two Words: Butt Plugs. When inserted correctly and worn frequently ... (read in full...)
I love a married woman who wont leave her life to be with me
Q. I am in love with a married woman. I love her so much and she also. She is married about 9 year and have daughter of 8 year. But now i want to quit from this situation because i have got so much pain in this relation. She love me but not want to be w...
A. 12 March 2013: I think you know exactly what you need to do. Are you just needing a push? How about ticking off all of the precious time you've already wasted on this dead end? That should give you a push in the right direction.... (read in full...)
Is our relationship in trouble? After he returned from a trip away he was a changed man. Now he's distant and hardly talks to me.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost a year now. We shared a great relationship until he went for this trip with his girl friends. After coming back he has started acting really weird. He doesn't have anything to talk...
A. 10 March 2013: Sounds like he is creating a distance from you, mostly a break up is looming. I would advise you to have a chat with the lad, maybe it is for the best for both of you.... (read in full...)
Is our relationship in trouble? After he returned from a trip away he was a changed man. Now he's distant and hardly talks to me.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost a year now. We shared a great relationship until he went for this trip with his girl friends. After coming back he has started acting really weird. He doesn't have anything to talk...
A. 8 March 2013: Tell us more about this trip with his girl friends, and why didn't you go? ... (read in full...)
I've made my mind up to change my name, but I feel awful because I'm hurting my mom's feelings
Q. I'm getting a name change in a couple of months. Problem is, my mom is against the idea. But I know, I'm positive, 110% sure that this will be a good thing for me. My past has been filled with so many troubles (abuse, bullying, depression, horrors, ...
A. 8 March 2013: "O, be some other name!
What's in a name? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet;"
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How to test my gf for being a sociopath
Q. Ok so I can't really tell if my girlfriend is a sociopath or not, I know all the symptoms and read ALOT about the subject but I can't tell if in emotionally in denial or maybe she just had a bunch of bad boyfriends in her passed and has always been ...
A. 5 March 2013: I read that sociopaths are quite often mean to small animals.... (read in full...)
How to accept my gay boyfriend's son
Q. My "100% gay" boyfriend used to be in a relationship with a woman and had a son with her. How can i accept this child? It's testing me apart that now WE can never have that first child experience. What do i do? And please don't say "get over...
A. 5 March 2013: What can we say? The child exists, your boyfriend is his father, you two will never have a "first child". Sorry but you do need to get over it or get out.... (read in full...)
How do I impress a man who is 10 years older than I am?
Q. Dear cupid, I need some advice. I'm 21 years old, law student, and mature for my age, I've always been. Like a few years ago, a young litigator move into house next to mine and since then, I've got a huge crush on him. He works with my fathe...
A. 5 March 2013: The age difference and the fact that he works for your father doesn't bode well for you I'm afraid. Has he shown any kind of interest in you?... (read in full...)
Should I interfer in the way my boyfriend and his ex wife handle their daughter? She's a spoiled brat!
Q. My boyfriend has a 17 year old daughter from his ex wife,he has introduced me to her and now that I know her I feel she's quite the brat!she has a very expensive taste just like her father!at the age of 17 she has been gifted a mercedes,an iphone ...
A. 5 March 2013: It was only a max of 8 and maybe less years since you were her age, I doubt if anyone would consider your opinion as an educated one even though you may be right. You'll keep it to yourself if you are smart. The parents are just that the parents. ... (read in full...)
My father won't approve of my white boyfriend
Q. Dearcupid, I am a black 15 year old girl and I have a 16 year old boyfriend who is white. My mom and dad said that I am not allowed to date until age 16 but my b-day is only a few months away so that's not a problem. The real problem is the f...
A. 5 March 2013: Sorry but your Dad holds all the cards at this stage of your young life. You can try to reason with him (and he may listen to you), but if he objects to you dating this young man that's about it. His roof his rules. However, I will warn you that ... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend breaks NC after 2 weeks?
Q. My bf and I broke up and I've been NC for 2 weeks. He's 34 and I'm 30. I broke it off with him after 2.5 years together because I felt like he wasn't giving me enough attention and because he had to go away for work in another state and after being ...
A. 5 March 2013: Why would you care about what his reasons are? Do you want to get back together? Did you break up with him to teach him a lesson or something?... (read in full...)
Is there a way to know if you're ready for marriage?
Q. I was best friends with my boyfriend for 4 years before we started dating. We've been together for a little over a year now and I'm due with our first child in about a month. My boyfriend wants us to get married but I'm worried about being ready. I...
A. 5 March 2013: You're ready to have a child with him but you aren't sure if you are ready to marry him? Sounds backassward to me.... (read in full...)
She says she can tell lies about other guys as she is not my wife!
Q. i have been dating since 2 years. my girlfriend wants us to be engaged and then married. i have found her to be on dating sites many times and text messenging guys on different phone numbers. she always told lies about it, but now said that it is ...
A. 5 March 2013: Cheaters love to blame their actions on others, never want to accept their own responsibility and your girlfriend has this down pat. I agree with Cerberus, if you were to marry her she would just come up with another excuse to continue cheating on ... (read in full...)
It is ok for a single childless woman to date a man with kids?
Q. Hi. My question is: is there ever anything good about a single childless woman who doesn't plan to have kids having a relationship with a divorced guy with kids? Or is it always just bad? I've read a lot about the negatives, does anyone know if ...
A. 1 March 2013: How old are the kids? How is the custody set up? Was it a particularly nasty divorce or more amicable? ... (read in full...)
Met a hot guy who unfortunately has a girlfriend!
Q. About 4 weeks ago I met a guy on the train. We kept glancing at each other the whole train ride and I thought to myself “I will never get a chance to speak to this guy” lol! Anyways we had to transfer on another train due to a problem so as I was ...
A. 1 March 2013: You wrote, "I can hardly to see him again - but I'm worried that at that point the story will repeat itself and we will have a fabulous time... but he will still be with his girlfriend." That is exactly what you may be facing, lots of great fun but ... (read in full...)
I don't want to cause drama but I have to stand up for myself
Q. I will be getting married next year to my fiancee. His older sister has this very dominant personality and he comes from a conservative family but yet his parents are very open minded. So, the problem is that his sister was telling me that I cannot ...
A. 28 February 2013: Just curious, who is paying for the dress/wedding?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment? Should I give it to him?
Q. My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment. We visit each other's places often and sometimes he sleeps over or I sleep over at his place. We have been dating for 3 months. I do not want to live with him or have him live with me. He asked if ...
A. 28 February 2013: Nope don't do it. If he gets upset about your refusal you'll clearly have your crimson flag. Be safe.... (read in full...)
He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?
Q. last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being ove...
A. 27 February 2013: It's his loss, pick yourself up and dust yourself off. You'll be just fine, Sweetheart. We've all been there.... (read in full...)
What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.
Q. I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...
A. 26 February 2013: You are allowing them to take advantage of you. You are accepting the guilt they are laying on you. As long as you allow them to do this, they are gonna do it. Next time they try to stuff something down your throat, something you definitely do not ... (read in full...)
He broke up with me. I "lost" it . Should I apologize to him for how I acted and try to accept the breakup?
Q. last night my boyfriend broke up with me after 2 years together. i took it pretty bad. he said he was no longer happy and doesnt think we are a good match anymore. i cried and begged him to try to work things out but he's firm about it being ove...
A. 25 February 2013: You absolutely do not owe him an apology. The best way to show him how much you respect his feelings is to have zero contact with him. None. If you do try to apologize I think he will most likely think you are pathetically trying to reach out. Don't ... (read in full...)
What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.
Q. I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...
A. 25 February 2013: I'm the youngest in my family and have two older sisters. And boy howdy were they ever bossy when we lived under the same roof. Once everyone moved out and got on with their own lives, things went swimmingly. All you need to do is create a little ... (read in full...)
My drama with dating an actor
Q. Dear Cupid, My story is long but I'm really suffering.. I will start at the very beginning. In high school I had a crush on a boy Named Dakota. And I never got crushes. I had one boyfriend before this, But we broke up because I had fallen o...
A. 22 February 2013: Rock Hudson kissed most of of his leading ladies...now THAT was acting. It's the nature of the business you better just deal with it sweetheart.... (read in full...)
To Contact Or Not To Contact. Dumped And It Was All My Fault.
Q. Hello! Thinking about breaking no contact by leaving chocolates at her door on vday. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago because I pestered her for a non committed relationship to test if she really loves me because before we started dating, she said ...
A. 21 February 2013: Tish I think if she had said "you blew it, jerk" to this guy he'd think she was offering him oral sex.... (read in full...)
I Proposed to My Pregnant Girlfriend, She Accepted!
Q. hi Aunts ahd Uncles... im the man who orginally posted about my pregnant girlfriend. the title was she posts everything on facebook. you all wanted me to come back and prove you wrong. well guess what? my baby BOY is due in june, i proposed to her ...
A. 21 February 2013: Day ain't over yet...... (read in full...)
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