Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 25 September 2012: Are you sure he isn't just using hie parents as an excuse to break up? I mean it really doesn't make much sense. Now I can see that STAYING with you might be a way to teach his parents a lesson but breaking up? I think he just found an easy way out ... (read in full...)
I got along great with my boyfriend's sister, until I found out she has gotten an abortion and doesn't seem to care about it.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. In that time of course, I've got to know his family and the person I've always got on with the most is his sister. Most of my boyfriend's family are quite rough (swear a lot, drink etc) but his ...
A. 25 September 2012: I think the best thing all around is that your true colors are visible and the sister is shy one more rainy day friend.... (read in full...)
I miss my crush but he's going out with girl who doesn't like me!
Q. i have an crush on this boy but he has a girlfriend who is in my class and I've known her since we were like three and for some reason she dosent like me. Anyway i was friends with her boyfriend and had a crush on him(they were not going out then) ...
A. 24 September 2012: You do nothing. He has a girlfriend. He'll break up with her and date you when and if he's interested.... (read in full...)
Why did my married lover cut things off and say I wasn't part of his life?
Q. Am a married woman having an affair with a married man, we both decided not to upset our respective personal lives because of our affair. From the begining controlled everything in our relationship ( laid down the rules like no phone,text,contact ...
A. 24 September 2012: Make no mistake, you are no victim, your spouses are the victims.... (read in full...)
Why did my married lover cut things off and say I wasn't part of his life?
Q. Am a married woman having an affair with a married man, we both decided not to upset our respective personal lives because of our affair. From the begining controlled everything in our relationship ( laid down the rules like no phone,text,contact ...
A. 21 September 2012: I love this: " we both decided not to upset our respective personal lives because of our affair." How very thoughtful of you both, sheesh. If you think he might be worried that you'd rat him out to his wife, remember he can do the same to you. No I ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to get involved with the son of my lover who passed away?
Q. my fiance of 3and 1/2 years took his own life in january of this year. thru hate emails, i came to find out that there were like 12 of us that he had proposed to. but that didn't stop me from loving him and mourning for him. he has 3 children, all ...
A. 21 September 2012: Aw come on, the kid is 20 and you are pushing 50. Get a grip before you do something you will really regret.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mom has just died, would it be wrong of me to ask him to delete this girl from Facebook now?
Q. OK extension of a previous question or ongoing issue sorry so long, My BF broke up with me last Nov for 13 days started talking and befriending a new girl but they never made it on a date due to a death in her family, but he said he never really ...
A. 21 September 2012: And for crying out loud get some rest.... (read in full...)
We argued, she left, and blocked me in every way. How can I get her back?
Q. I'll try and keep this short. My girlfriend and I had a silly argument nearly 4 weeks ago, and because of a misunderstanding she stormed off and I haven't heard from her since. She's completely avoiding me to the point of deleting me as a Face...
A. 20 September 2012: Was this last argument the straw that broke the camel's back perhaps? Have you had other problems before this? I guess we/I really need more details.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's mom has just died, would it be wrong of me to ask him to delete this girl from Facebook now?
Q. OK extension of a previous question or ongoing issue sorry so long, My BF broke up with me last Nov for 13 days started talking and befriending a new girl but they never made it on a date due to a death in her family, but he said he never really ...
A. 20 September 2012: You come across as being very very insecure, kind of needy, and a tad controlling. These are all traits that most men find very unappealing. Also you sound very tired. I recommend you try to get some rest and let the condolences to your boyfriend ... (read in full...)
I treated her badly but now I want her back
Q. I cheated on a woman who was madly in love with me four years ago. Not only did I cheat on her, I disrespected her, lied to her, bit her, talked bad about her behind her back to co-workers and family members. I strung her along and I put her at risk ...
A. 18 September 2012: Whoa....second sentence...you BIT her?... (read in full...)
He cheated on me in the past but now he is trying to make up for it, even though he is engaged to someone else. I love him so what should I do?
Q. HI all iv posted on here before about an ex that seemed to trying to get back into my life, just wanted a little more advice. We split because within the first year of the relationship he cheated. We have a child together now. Hes showi...
A. 17 September 2012: Let him visit with his kid but that's where I would draw the line. I think he sounds like he's grooming you to be his bit on the side. I wouldn't what that heartache again.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend enjoys a sexual act that causes me a lot of pain, I ask him not to but he threatens and does it anyway.
Q. I have a boyfriend who is really into a certain sexual act. I wont divulge too much because of the ages of some on this site. That being said, due to his size, this act is extremely painful and I don't like it. The problem is, he does like it, re...
A. 17 September 2012: Keep a nickel between those knees until leaving him IS an option. Then do it. You are staying with a rapist otherwise.... (read in full...)
He seems overly affectionate with his mom... It's a bit weird.
Q. Hi everyone! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 yrs and lived together 2 and a half yrs! I love him very much! Im 22 hes 21 His parents live about 1/2 hour away and he sees them most weeks hes quite close to them, however recently ...
A. 17 September 2012: I don't think you should made a big deal over this especially to your boyfriend. He's just very attached to his parents, very common at his age. You know they always say one should see how their boyfriends treat their mothers if you want to know how ... (read in full...)
How can I handle this awkward situation? met on X-box. She's 22 with a baby. I'm 16
Q. Hell. Ok so here is my story, i met this great person on a game on xbox live, a few months ago. we talked for a little while and added each other on facebook and have talked on there. By the way im a 16 year old guy and she is 22 (not sure if this ...
A. 17 September 2012: I find it really wierd that a woman 22 with a child would even BEGIN to come on to a 16 year old, spooky if you ask me.... (read in full...)
I cant stay over with the guy I'm seeing because I'm scared of him seeing me without make up! Help!
Q. so i've been seeing this guy and I can't stay the night with him because i'm worried about the morning after. I'm not naturally pretty, he always goes on about how beautiful and gorgeous I am... which just makes me insecure about wearing no to ...
A. 17 September 2012: I think you are under-estimating yourself and over-estimating your boyfriend. Most guys don't give a rat's ass about make up when they have a living breathing woman in the sack. Relax and enjoy yourself, and if it makes you feel more confident wear ... (read in full...)
Was he drunk? Or sober?
Q. I was supposed to go on a date with my neighbor last night. I tell him to meet me at 12:30am, and he agrees. We picked this time cause we were gonna have a midnight picnic. He does not show up until 2. At like 1,I called and texted asking where he ...
A. 17 September 2012: Where the heck were your parents? A midnight picnic for a 16-17 year old? Really? ... (read in full...)
My coworker and I had an affair but now he doesn't seem interested anymore. What's the problem?
Q. Hello All on this forum. I have a problem i really need help with. I think i have been foolish. A month or so ago i had sexual intercourse with a man from my office of work place. Sure he chased me and flirted with me and text me more than my husba...
A. 14 September 2012: Boy howdy if YOU can't see the problem my pointing it out will surely be met with a blind eye. Sheesh... (read in full...)
I'm always missing my boyfriend to the point that I'm distracted and can't focus.
Q. This is probably a common problem, but I'm struggling with missing my boyfriend. We see each other quite often (once or twice a week) and have phone contact daily. We've been going out for nearly 5 months now, and I had hoped that this feelin...
A. 14 September 2012: I guess you'll just need to work on multi-tasking until your feelings calm down. Not sure what else you can do.... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he would leave his amazing wife for a much younger woman? Help me understand so I can talk to him!
Q. hello aunts, never thought i would be on here. ive seen alot of people writing about age gap. im trying to understand my best friends relationship, ive known him since we were 20 years old. when he got married i was his best man, and the woman he ...
A. 13 September 2012: Is your friend asking for your opinion on his new romance? ... (read in full...)
Doesn't want to hurt me. Kissed me. Now what?
Q. Long story short... Met a guy. Been hanging out as friends for 4 months. Really like him. He said he just wanted to be friends. Nothing happened. Stopped hanging out with him for like a month. Finally hung out with him again tonight. And he kissed ...
A. 13 September 2012: I totally agree with Honeypie. I also think you need to be very wary of this guy, especially if you want to avoid being hurt again. ... (read in full...)
How do I flirt with a girl I've just met?
Q. I was just at the hospital picking up my cousin. While I was roaming around the gift shop, an extremely beautiful girl came in to buy something. We instantly locked eyes for like three seconds. She gave a friendly smile that seemed to say "I like ...
A. 12 September 2012: okay NOW it's clear as mud........ (read in full...)
My boyfriend says he wouldn't go out of his way to protect me! Should I get rid of him?
Q. this is probably really stupid but i was talking to my bf and before we hit the city, was joking about getting mugged and asked if he'd protect me. he said he wasn't going to go out of his way if it'd put himself in danger. i was like, so you'd ...
A. 12 September 2012: You know, posing hypthetical situations can often lead to responses we'd rather not hear. Like,"If I were to die tomorrow, would you ever remarry?" or "If acid was thrown in my face and I was totally disfigured would you still love me?" I mean ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I freaked out my friend when I told her about my past!
Q. My issues is not about any guy, but relationship I have with a very good teacher of mine. My teacher has been inspiration in the search for goal because the job she had in her field is where I would like to be some day. We seemed to be pretty good ...
A. 12 September 2012: You don't happen to have a crush on her do you?... (read in full...)
How do I flirt with a girl I've just met?
Q. I was just at the hospital picking up my cousin. While I was roaming around the gift shop, an extremely beautiful girl came in to buy something. We instantly locked eyes for like three seconds. She gave a friendly smile that seemed to say "I like ...
A. 11 September 2012: You can try what sageoldguy said but I'd be prepared to duck if I were you.... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend. I want a bit more but not a relationship, I don't know how to tell him without scaring him off. What do I do?
Q. I just got out an 8 year relationship about 6 months ago and I cant separate my feelings from sex. Ive always considered myself to have a high sex drive, but majority of the time I was in relationships, so I didnt have to have casual sex but I have ...
A. 11 September 2012: My suggestion is for you to put yourself in the girlfriend's shoes and take a walk around the block. Do the shoes hurt your feet?... (read in full...)
Would it be illegal or considered disgusting for me to date a former teacher?
Q. I am 18 years old and I'm a college student now. I have a huge crush on my English teacher in secondary school. He's 20 years older than me. However, he's baby-faced and he's a real gentleman. When I was still in secondary school, we used to hav...
A. 10 September 2012: Is this a rhetorical question or has he actually asked you out?... (read in full...)
How do I make it clear to women that I am NOT interested in dating right now?
Q. I'm scarred by a bad breakup. Now, I have a NASTY impression of the dating world. I have 2 questions. First, how do I give the signal to girls in general, that I'm NOT in the mood to date, so that they can look for someone that'll actually be ...
A. 10 September 2012: Are you being bombarded by requests, cause I really don't think you have a major problem here. If and when some girl asks you out you can politely decline. Now if you are being swarmed then perhaps you might need to hire a bodyguard.... (read in full...)
This married man suddenly ignores me
Q. HEY i feel confused i started talking to this married man and we started meeting up and he used to call and text me. the other day we were to meet up and unfortunatley he had to wait for me as i was talking to my friend because she appeard and i co...
A. 10 September 2012: Consider yourself lucky and move on. This wouldn't have ended well anyway. Why risk certain heartache?... (read in full...)
I'm a no-nonsense person, could this be mistaken for pride?
Q. I am a very proud person. I have tried therapy and combating this problem all to no avail as it often affect my relationship with other people. I remember being nice and loving when I was younger till my parents separated I became a monster. I never ...
A. 7 September 2012: Do you mean arrogant rather than proud?... (read in full...)
Why do guys stare at me or laugh/smile when they see me?
Q. there are a group of guys in my school and i never talk to them. its like everytime i walk by they stare at me and whisper, i have same classes with couples of em, and i know everytime i walk into the classroom and no matter what im doing, they ...
A. 6 September 2012: Just playing with the dog...... (read in full...)
Why do guys stare at me or laugh/smile when they see me?
Q. there are a group of guys in my school and i never talk to them. its like everytime i walk by they stare at me and whisper, i have same classes with couples of em, and i know everytime i walk into the classroom and no matter what im doing, they ...
A. 6 September 2012: Okay who blew the margin? Fess up.... (read in full...)
My marriage lacks a sex life so I have a friend with boundaries. How do I be happy with my husband?
Q. I am a happily married woman (20+ years). Hubby is great, we get along, we have grown children, built a nice life, etc. We work great together, have some of the same hobbies, and almost always agree. He is sweet and nice and we are happy together. I ...
A. 4 September 2012: I'd love to give you some input but I really can't tell what exactly you are asking. What are you asking advice about? Re-word your question so we slower aunts/uncles can understand.... (read in full...)
I won't give him up but my family doesn't like my guy
Q. Hi all. First of all, I'm a European girl who is still 16 but knows what she really wants. For 3 weeks, I've been dating a guy which is black. I'm extremely in love with him. We love eachother so much. We're so made for eachother but my family WON'T ...
A. 31 August 2012: MY 16 year old daughter would not be dating a 23 year old man, period, and I'll bet that's why your parents won't accept him as a suitor. That age gap is gigantic at your age. And don't give me that horse hockey about how mature you are cause I ... (read in full...)
Too Close For My Comfort
Q. I need advice. My 24 year old stepdaughter moved in with us. She quit a perfectly good job and came home. She doesn't clean up, she doesn't pay rent, she generally acts like she is still a child instead of the grown woman she is. My problem and...
A. 31 August 2012: I'm sorry that it has come to this but I think you may be right about having to leave.... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship, money and losing interest
Q. I'm 19 in a relationship with a 17 year old for just over a month. I know its not long, but she has gotten really serious very fast so I feel like I've accidentally made a larger commitment than I had hoped. I've met her whole family (extended and ...
A. 31 August 2012: Break ups are never pleasant but unfortunately they sometimes are necessary. By as gentle as you can be but don't leave her with any false hopes.... (read in full...)
I won't give him up but my family doesn't like my guy
Q. Hi all. First of all, I'm a European girl who is still 16 but knows what she really wants. For 3 weeks, I've been dating a guy which is black. I'm extremely in love with him. We love eachother so much. We're so made for eachother but my family WON'T ...
A. 31 August 2012: How old is he?... (read in full...)
Too Close For My Comfort
Q. I need advice. My 24 year old stepdaughter moved in with us. She quit a perfectly good job and came home. She doesn't clean up, she doesn't pay rent, she generally acts like she is still a child instead of the grown woman she is. My problem and...
A. 30 August 2012: How is he with you? Is he as affectionate? Does he cuddle with you?... (read in full...)
Does he just like me as a friend or is he interested?
Q. so I have been talking to a man online for around six months now. We know each other through mutual friends and get along like a house on fire. We both have a tendancy to.flirt with each other and other people but talky every night to one another ...
A. 30 August 2012: How well do you know him? Do you plan to ever meet face to face? Are you sure he's divorced? Do you think you should have accepted an expensive gift from him? Isn't it kind of weird and creepy that a guy in his 50's is chatting up someone in their ... (read in full...)
B/f and I have been into swinging and I HATE it!
Q. About 4 - 5 years ago, me and my boyfriend of 6 years decided to finally try swinging after playing around with the idea for a while. I was scared out of my mind that I was actually going to go through with it, but chalked it up to newbie nerves. ...
A. 30 August 2012: I don't see this as "fixable". Time to pack your bags and don't look back. ... (read in full...)
Is this just a crush or is it something more?
Q. I will be 41 in two months and this guy I see from time to time makes me smile with my heart. We are not dating just we run in to each other every other blue moon.Man when I see him butterflies race across my stomach, I can't hear anything ,and my ...
A. 30 August 2012: Ask him out for a glass of ice water.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 30 August 2012: It appears you two are well-suited to each other so enjoy yourselves until Daddy Warbucks finds out.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married woman.
Q. Hello, Thanks in advance for your help in this matter. Her's my issue: I have known this woman for several years online. We planned on meeting in person a few times and it fell through each time. We live in different cities and the timing just wasn...
A. 29 August 2012: Yeah that pesky adultery can be so tiresome, all that time-consuming sneaking around. If you stop seeing her you could get some rest and you could look at yourself in the mirror.... (read in full...)
Too Close For My Comfort
Q. I need advice. My 24 year old stepdaughter moved in with us. She quit a perfectly good job and came home. She doesn't clean up, she doesn't pay rent, she generally acts like she is still a child instead of the grown woman she is. My problem and...
A. 29 August 2012: Personally I think it's pretty weird too but I can't for the life of me figure out what you can do about it. If they have always carried on this way then all I have to offer you is the sincere hope that she will move out soon or maybe that she will ... (read in full...)
Is this just a crush or is it something more?
Q. I will be 41 in two months and this guy I see from time to time makes me smile with my heart. We are not dating just we run in to each other every other blue moon.Man when I see him butterflies race across my stomach, I can't hear anything ,and my ...
A. 29 August 2012: So ask him out for coffee then.... (read in full...)
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