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writes:I don't know why my girlfriend would sleep at her ex boyfriend place on Christmas and didn't tell me. She says that him and her are now friends and she's not text me that much either, probably either she's busy or having a wonderful time with him, she said she needs space and she doesn't know if were like in a break...idk what to think?
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reader, Serpico +, writes (28 December 2012):
I think you need to retitle this thread -
"My EX-girlfriend slept at her ex boyfriends house......"
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 December 2012):
Just move on from her my friend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): She's as good as dumped you mate.
Needing space + spending the night with her ex = she's not coming back to you.
Do your best to move on from her, you're not going to gain anything from someone who doesn't want to be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): She's just waiting for you to dump her because she's a coward, so do her that favour and dump her.
Seriously everyone else is right, this is already over just a pity she had to act like a child and treat you this way.
OP make no mistake, how she's acted is something you cannot tolerate she needs to be gone with no comebacks.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 December 2012):
 a girlfriend that sleeps at her ex boyfriends house on Christmas and can't bother to be in touch with you is an EX girlfriend.
she's done with you and just too chicken to tell you.
she's counting on you continuing to be a wuss and let her do what she wants... when she fights with her former ex boyfriend she will bounce back to you the NEW ex boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): don't believe everything you hear, because you're not little kid anymore, and i'm sorry but she's not worthly
go find someone else bro
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (27 December 2012):
 I think she is your "ex" now too...
Who does that? Sleep at their Ex's house on Christmas? And then thinks it's all fine and dandy because they are "friends"?
Sorry, I would not be dating someone who thinks you should just SUCK that up and believe whatever story she tells you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): eyeswideoped summed it up just perfectly. You should consider her an ex already, and even if she tried to get back now, take 'your' space, because it is seriously needed. She is emotionally confused and you will end up just getting hurt. Just stay away, and when you feel ready move on already.
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reader, letmeloveu +, writes (27 December 2012):
Honestly, a girl sleeping at her ex boyfriend house is not a good sign. She either is with you but wants her ex back or she she just isn't that much into you. A girl that has the nerve to sleep at her ex boyfriend house and tell you they are just friends is full of shit. She can't be trusted and if they are just friends why did she not tell you she was going to sleep there before it happened. This relationship is over, well its over for now. Trust me you don't want a girl like that anyways.
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reader, [?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] +, writes (27 December 2012):
![[?]BitterSweetFinale;[?] agony aunt](/avatars/7bb1e9ea-6c2f-43b8-a4f7-0635b7eff08c.png) You deserve so much better, she's not even worth it honestly. Forget her and move on because I know I wouldn't want to be a rebound. You're better just remaining nothing more than just friends or better yet, just don't associate with her anymore. People who only want you there when no one else is available is a sad excuse for a "girlfriend", I wish you the best. You need a better person in your life. :)
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (27 December 2012):
 It's not a break, it's a Broken. Eyes is right it's already over.
FA
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2012): "I don't know why my girlfriend would sleep at her ex boyfriend place on Christmas and didn't tell me."
Most likely explanation is she had sex with him behind your back and she didn't want you to know.
"She says that him and her are now friends and she's not text me that much either, probably either she's busy or having a wonderful time with him,"
Most likely explanation is she's having sex with him behind your back and she doesn't want you to know.
"she said she needs space and she doesn't know if were like in a break...idk what to think?"
Most likely explanation is she wants to get back together with her ex so she's having sex with him behind your back while stringing you along as Plan B.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 December 2012):
 Let her have her space, lots and lots of space. I also recommend you don't refer to her as your "girlfriend" again, that is unless you want to ride around in her back pocket.
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