Why didn't my b/f introduce me to his friend?
Q. My boyfriend and I went to the beach and we were having a nice time until we were walking out of the water and he saw an old friend. He walked over to his friend and embraced him and I was walking over thinking he'd introduce me. He then grabbed his ...
A. 24 June 2013: Definitely ask him. How long have you been dating? Have you met ANY of his friends or family?... (read in full...)
He confessed he was married then deleted his email account! How do I get over the shock and heartbreak?
Q. How do I forget this guy?! He emailed me yesterday confessing that he was married and hadn't been fair with me the past 6 mos. He then deleted his email acct so I can't reply to him. I have his cell number but don't want to appear desperate so ...
A. 21 June 2013: Just be glad you found out before you relocated. Use your anger over his despicable behavior to help with your pain. Luckily you only wasted six months on the asshole.... (read in full...)
Why would an ex delete you completely from their life?
Q. Why would an ex delete you completely from his / her life? Especially when you did nothing wrong to them and you did not hurt them in any way....
A. 21 June 2013: Because it's like reopening a wound over and over again. It cannot heal properly if you do it.... (read in full...)
was wondering when is the right time in a relationship to talk about the "serious future things"?
Q. OK, I was wondering when is the right time in a relationship to talk about the "serious future things" I mean like: "Move In, Marrying, have kids, etc" ... Like I don't want to freak him out or anything. Soon it's going to be 9 month of being ...
A. 21 June 2013: You are barely legal and he isn't even there yet. Relax relax relax why not just enjoy yourselves for a couple of years, trust me there is no rush.... (read in full...)
How can I show my gf that she is beautiful and that her scars are not as bad as she thinks they are?
Q. My girlfriend is beautiful to me and anyone who has ever met her but she refuses to take off her clothes during sex or without the room being dark. I know she has a pretty bad scar on her torso just under her ribcage because of a burns accident ...
A. 20 June 2013: Don't pressure her to do anything she is uncomfortable doing. Be loving and supportive and perhaps she will in time begin to relax around you but she will have to do on her own and in her own time frame. I hope she will continue the counseling ... (read in full...)
He's the only one I'll ever love. How can I find a way for us to be together?
Q. My heart is broken. I'm so afraid that I've lost hope of winding up with the person I know in my heart is for me. I love one of my closest friends, and I know in my heart that I'll NEVER love anyone else like I love him. I'm afraid that he's...
A. 18 June 2013: This is what separations are for: to decide if a marriage should be saved or not. He appears to have decided yes. Make last night the last conversation you initiate. You will have to give yourself some time to grieve but, since you were not together ... (read in full...)
Do you think I should even try to have a friends with benefits relationship with him or is that just setting myself up to get heartbroken again?
Q. Hi all, 3 years ago I started dating a Marine. We grew up near each other and were friends for several years before we started dating. We did the long distance thing for about a year when he started asking me to relocate (across country) to marr...
A. 18 June 2013: Do not go there, Girlfriend. FWB relationships are bullshit. There are no "what ifs" involved, just certainties.... (read in full...)
Love at first sight & Man of my dreams...Literally..
Q. Okay so I really need a Christians point of view because its the only way I can really get an accurate answer. Okay, so ever since I was a young girl, I dreamed of this boy who wasn't to tall, well built, beautiful skin complexion, a go...
A. 13 June 2013: I'm not a believer in love at first sight. I think if this is the guy for you, you should just relax and take it slowly and let things develop over time. Besides that's half the fun of a new relationship sit back and enjoy.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my ex that it was he who drove me away?
Q. My ex boyfriend split up with me six weeks ago he said he wanted a break. My and my ex used to argue a lot over him going out really. He has also cheated on me a few months ago so I feel like I can't really trust him. After my ex split with me ...
A. 13 June 2013: When you were together you argued a lot and he cheated on you. NOW he has told you that he will NEVER get back with you. Honey I really don't understand why you are in a quandary over this, it's as plain as the nose on your face.... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself from sending messages to a man who isn't interested in me?
Q. I met a guy who's 2 years younger than me in a dating site. At first, he was very much interested in chatting with me, in meeting me, and was even telling me that i was more important than his work, so he wanted to chat with me more in the middle of ...
A. 13 June 2013: If you have a rubber band place it around a wrist and snap it hard whenever you get the urge to contact the guy. I lost ten pounds doing that once.... (read in full...)
Our marriage is hanging by a thread. My husband changed his facebook password and won't give it to me!
Q. I need help trying to not let it bother me that my husband changed his fb pass on me and wont give it to me cause i cant trust him. Our marriage is hanging by a thread and im trying really hard to fix this prob. It doesnt help that most people I ...
A. 13 June 2013: So he isn't your husband, right? You are just boyfriend/girlfriend . Whole bag of cats Honey... (read in full...)
Our marriage is hanging by a thread. My husband changed his facebook password and won't give it to me!
Q. I need help trying to not let it bother me that my husband changed his fb pass on me and wont give it to me cause i cant trust him. Our marriage is hanging by a thread and im trying really hard to fix this prob. It doesnt help that most people I ...
A. 12 June 2013: Has he ever given you any reason, other than this, to not trust him?... (read in full...)
I love him but I think he's going back to the woman who cheated on him. How can I prove to him she cheated?
Q. This is really weighing on my heart. I'm confused about whether my friend is going to get back with his ex wife or if he wants to. My big question is, I heard that she has another boyfriend and she cheated when they were married. I feel like it'...
A. 12 June 2013: If she is such a horrible person he'll figure it out on his own. If she cheated on him, he'll figure it out on his own. If he realizes you can offer him more, he'll figure it out on his own. In other words butt out of his business and let him figure ... (read in full...)
How do I stop from being obsessed with wanting to have a baby?
Q. I have been married to my lovely hubby for a year. We met in our 40's and it is our first marriage for us both. As soon as we married, we started trying for a family which we both dearly want. As I am 42 now - I have been seeing the doctor and f...
A. 12 June 2013: I recommend you buy a two seat sports car, that has worked for two couples I know.... (read in full...)
I just want an answer from him -- are we done?
Q. I was seeing a man who is 26. I am 37 with two kids who is recently seperated. We have hooked up a few times. text daily. The past week he seems cold and the texts are zero. He also was at my house and stayed over three times 2 weeks ago, but ...
A. 12 June 2013: Sorry but you have just been played. Time t do exactly what SVC said , block, block, block.... (read in full...)
Fooled around with a MARRIED MAN last night!!!! I feel really used!!
Q. Hi everyone. OMG!!!! I just fooled around with a MARRIED MAN last night!!! I am such a mess. I really need some help from all of you!!!!! We work together and he suggested we meet outside the workplace for coffee. We talked for a couple o...
A. 12 June 2013: Ahhhhh the high-riding bitch approaches!... (read in full...)
Fooled around with a MARRIED MAN last night!!!! I feel really used!!
Q. Hi everyone. OMG!!!! I just fooled around with a MARRIED MAN last night!!! I am such a mess. I really need some help from all of you!!!!! We work together and he suggested we meet outside the workplace for coffee. We talked for a couple o...
A. 12 June 2013: And closer, and closer, and........ (read in full...)
I'm not ready for an exclusive deal and want to date other men. How do I make this clear?
Q. I recently met a man online. We hit it off and dated several times. I had just recently lost my husband to death and was vulnerable and lonely. I have told him over and over that I was not ready to love any man right now. He has declared his love ...
A. 12 June 2013: Don't try to sugar coat it with this guy, he won't get it. You've told him the truth now just back up your words.... (read in full...)
My wife spent over 37 hours talking/texting/sending nude photos and says I'm selfish because I can't move past it!
Q. My wife and I have been married for 10 years. 6 months ago I caught my wife talk to a guy she meet on a online poker game. She told me they're just friends on a game but when I checked the phone bill and it was more than talking. In a month they ...
A. 12 June 2013: You tell her that in fact you HAVE moved past this, you have moved out, then make sure it happens..... (read in full...)
He says he REALLY like me but does he LOVE me? this ones for the uncles please
Q. Hello aunts and uncles really need some advice. here goes.....I have been seeing my boyfriend for a month now BUT he was my second boyfriend over 20 years ago, so we know each other extremely well. Back then he was too nice for me, I wanted a ...
A. 12 June 2013: Well there you go, much ado about nothing! Enjoy yourself.... (read in full...)
Fooled around with a MARRIED MAN last night!!!! I feel really used!!
Q. Hi everyone. OMG!!!! I just fooled around with a MARRIED MAN last night!!! I am such a mess. I really need some help from all of you!!!!! We work together and he suggested we meet outside the workplace for coffee. We talked for a couple o...
A. 12 June 2013: AND once again I hear those furious hoof beats from a distance, but yet they seem to be getting closer, and closer and closer......... (read in full...)
I cheated on my g/f with 8 women and finally broke it off wanting better for her. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Firstly, I know i'm a scumbag. I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and I do love her. I don't know why but over the last 3 months I have been cheating on her with about 8 different girls. I love her but I just couldn't stop myself. I k...
A. 12 June 2013: Yep you did the right thing, hopefully you can recoup any money that was involved with the holiday plans. It's over time to move on.... (read in full...)
If you are female and single would you wear a wedding ring on your ring finger??
Q. If you are female and single would you wear a wedding ring on your ring finger?? I have dated girls previously who have and they have been single, I have on the odd occasion but how many other women out there would have? I'm asking as I like...
A. 11 June 2013: My husband hates wearing jewelry of any kind, including rings. Any hussy thinking he's single will find out quick, fast, and in a hurry. Always ask.... (read in full...)
G/f can achieve orgasm only by herself not through sex. I'm starting to love her less and less
Q. Thanks in advance for any replies. Basically my girlfriend rarely achieves orgasm when we are together. We've tried the obvious things from me going down on her for a long time, to putting a pillow under her hips for when I am on top. When she...
A. 11 June 2013: Hey YouWish, "hysterical paroxysm" is going in the DC Manual right after the butt plugs and before the spit roast. ... (read in full...)
Could this man's answer mean that there is more than friendship on the horizon?
Q. Met this man about 3 months ago and while we haven't gone out on an official date I see him and speak to him everyday. Myself, my son and this guy were in the store one day and a lady asked him if my son was his son. He answered her question ...
A. 11 June 2013: I don't think it means anything really, especially since you've seen him every day for 3 months and he hasn't asked you out yet.... (read in full...)
Are we getting too close in our FWB relationship?
Q. Hi all just needin some advice.ive been in a friends with benefits relationship for 7 months now,we have such fun together. Been ten pin bowling and to the pictures together, things that friends should do.i like this. This is ok for me. Recently ive ...
A. 11 June 2013: I hope the relationship you are referring to is the one with your dog.... (read in full...)
He's getting married so why is he contacting me??
Q. I made a huge mistake. The biggest mistake of my life actually and i'm not really sure how to move on from it all. I ended up getting involved with somebody who had a girlfriend, now fiancée apparently. We were both single when it started and it was ...
A. 10 June 2013: Keep up with the no contact. He'll get the message sooner or later.... (read in full...)
Please help me to get this very important person to be a permanent part of my life!
Q. Hello, I am looking for some advice. I have liked this guy for the past six years. We kind of grew up together, as a child I idolized him and he was the big brother I never had. But as I got older I started to develop real feelings for him. Fast ...
A. 10 June 2013: Next time you see him ask him out for some coffee. I wouldn't mention your marriage plans however, mainly because they are whacked.... (read in full...)
How much weight loss would be achieveable in 4 weeks time?
Q. Ok I know this is not a diet and exercise board, but I also know a few of the aunts/uncles have mentioned losing weight in previous posts so I thought I might get some good advice here. So last week I started an exercise/fitness regime to try to...
A. 9 June 2013: Cerberus broke the margin Cerberus broke the margin... (read in full...)
I don't want to steal my teacher away from his wife but I do want a kiss from him!
Q. Hello everyone. I am in very difficult situation. When I was in 9 grade I felt something for my science teacher,the problem is that he is more older than me, he is over 50, I was 15 y.o. At first I didn't understand what is happening with me, I ...
A. 8 June 2013: School girls and their crushes my my. Everyone whose had one in their youth raise your hand....... (read in full...)
He's fathered a New baby, with his new younger wife. So why did he have to show me a photo of the baby?
Q. hi aunts and uncles, its me the older woman dumped for the 24 year old girl who got pregnat by the ex.... im over him, still care about him but have finally come to terms. i went to meet up with him for the alimony payment the other day and what ...
A. 7 June 2013: Why do you have to physically pick up the check? Why not have him mail it to you?... (read in full...)
I love flirting with this guy at work? Is it wrong? I am happily married and my husband works at the same place as me.
Q. I am a happily married female. I work in the same department as my husband. However I see him a couple of times throughout the day. He has his own group of friends and I have my group of friends. However I am starting to become very attracte...
A. 7 June 2013: All you can do is behave yourself and let the crush run it's course. ... (read in full...)
We cheated on our partners, got together then I find a letter he wrote to his ex asking her back but she wouldn't take him. I feel hurt!
Q. Me and my boyfriend were both in relationships when we got together. Believe me I know it's wrong and I regret that we both cheated so id appreciate if replies could focus on the issue in this post. When we got discovered I broke up with my ex bo...
A. 7 June 2013: Duh...you know exactly what you need to do. Here's your push...PUSH
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Was he expecting more out of me?
Q. I was heading back to talk to my teacher since I needed something from her. I was waiting and this lady had her son with her. So I started playing with him. I really love to play with children. So I was just asking him questions and playing around ...
A. 6 June 2013: Hey Tuts have you been hanging around since last November 5th waiting for an answer?... (read in full...)
He's controlling. He says no more sex until I get a job. Is it wrong for him to give me ultimatums for not having a job?
Q. Ive been dating a older man for almost 3 years now. im 21 and he's 44. Get ready i could tell stories all day of all the s^^t iv'e been thru with and because him. I love him very much still but not as in love with him as i was before. im s...
A. 6 June 2013: Quit smoking and quit using your Sugar Daddy. There problem solved.... (read in full...)
My gf doesn't want me to please her because she thinks I expect the same back
Q. Hi there. I have a girlfriend and I love. I sometimes do nice and cute stuff to make her happy. And I usually expect to be rewarded for doing so by her as well. As it appears, she doesn't share my point of view. I offered her to make a romantic...
A. 5 June 2013: Yeah please give more detail, cause there's a heap of difference between pleasing her with a box of chocolates then expecting her to please you with anal sex. So some examples if you will.... (read in full...)
Is it a bad thing to want to make my boyfriend jealous?
Q. Hey everyone, I'm dating this guy for a month now, and I know I shouldn't be playing games but I like to make him jealouss with other men,like I make sure he knows of the men that flirt with me,or the men that have asked me out and I said no cuz I...
A. 5 June 2013: Of course it's a bad thing to do, it's even a bad thing to do when you are in 7th grade.... (read in full...)
My room mate is too noisy having fun! What should I do?
Q. I recently got a new room-mate. He's great so far, cleans up after himself, cleans the floor, easy to talk to. Then his girlfriend.. or as he said it "this friend who he used to date" comes over to stay a few days. And they're going at it like ...
A. 5 June 2013: Tell him you are going to start selling tickets....... (read in full...)
Crush on a coworker and I'm wondering what his text meant!
Q. There is a man that I'm interested in and he is working with me I asked him today in a text if he needed me and his reply was ( more than you know ) what was he meaning?...
A. 5 June 2013: Ask him if he would like to go out for a drink or coffee after work one day.... (read in full...)
Crush on a coworker and I'm wondering what his text meant!
Q. There is a man that I'm interested in and he is working with me I asked him today in a text if he needed me and his reply was ( more than you know ) what was he meaning?...
A. 5 June 2013: Were you asking if he needed you in a work related way or in an emotional sense?... (read in full...)
I just want to tell him how I feel, I've had a crush on him since I was 12!
Q. I'm 18 and I just graduated high school. I have been "in love" with one of my bosses(47) since I was 12, and I was just thinking about telling him I've had a crush on him since I've met him. He's married with children, and older than my parents, but ...
A. 5 June 2013: Why do you feel you need to tell him if you have no ulterior motives?... (read in full...)
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