I Proposed to My Pregnant Girlfriend, She Accepted!
Q. hi Aunts ahd Uncles... im the man who orginally posted about my pregnant girlfriend. the title was she posts everything on facebook. you all wanted me to come back and prove you wrong. well guess what? my baby BOY is due in june, i proposed to her ...
A. 21 February 2013: Day ain't over yet...... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to finally snap and publicly humiliate and insult someone who had been talking trash about me for over a year?
Q. Hi. I am looking for advice on whether I did the right thing or not. My boyfriend has this girl friend, who I have only met a handful of times, who has a lot of animosity toward me. I had always been really nice to her the times I ran into her. When ...
A. 18 February 2013: I just love this quote from Dolores Claiborne:
"Sometimes you have to be a high-riding bitch to survive. Sometimes being a bitch is all a woman has to hold onto."... (read in full...)
I have proof that my boyfriend cheated but how do I get him to admit it?
Q. i had a suspision that my boyfriend was cheating so i set up a recorder one nite and sure enough i got my evidence but he stil denies it. How to i get him to tell the truth?...
A. 18 February 2013: You say you got evidence but still you want him to confess...hummm I get the feeling your evidence was not conclusive enough to convince you and that's why you need him to admit he cheated. Am I close?... (read in full...)
How do you go about being a stepmother?
Q. Hello everyone, for the past year I have been in a discreet relationship with a divorced father. We are serious about each other and have decided that it is time to be open about our relationship. I have never met his children, but based on how ...
A. 18 February 2013: Well then my best advice would be to just take it slowly and see how things go. Your role in their lives will slowly develop and evolve. They have a mother so you won't have to assume that role, and quite honestly you should be very grateful for ... (read in full...)
I don't want kids!
Q. I'm a 23 year old male with a 23 year old girlfriend. We have been together since we were 17ish, had 1 or 2 breaks, but now were serious and committed. I live with her mum dad and sis, and have done for a couple of years now. We are happy and ha...
A. 18 February 2013: One of the myriad of reasons why my husband ended his first marriage was because she refused to have children...once she was married that is. Before the marriage it was "maybe someday". Once she got that ring on her finger she was adamant about it. ... (read in full...)
How do you go about being a stepmother?
Q. Hello everyone, for the past year I have been in a discreet relationship with a divorced father. We are serious about each other and have decided that it is time to be open about our relationship. I have never met his children, but based on how ...
A. 18 February 2013: Was the divorce an amicable one? That will help determine the children's mind set on accepting Daddy's new girlfriend.... (read in full...)
He's an older married man and the chemistry between the two of us is elecric. How can I get over this strong attraction?
Q. Hello all I am separated. He is married. We work together. There is this crazy, undeniable electricity between us. Just hit us both out of the blue. We have known each other for a year in the workplace. It is at the point where when we look at each...
A. 18 February 2013: You were 15 (or younger) when you got married? And no, as far as I know that old ball and chain that I sleep with every night has never strayed since I met him in the early 70's. However I HAVE seen family and friends go through the agony of a ... (read in full...)
How do you go about being a stepmother?
Q. Hello everyone, for the past year I have been in a discreet relationship with a divorced father. We are serious about each other and have decided that it is time to be open about our relationship. I have never met his children, but based on how ...
A. 18 February 2013: Yep the little tree is right, too many questions need to be asked and answered before you will get any really useful advise. Please elaborate on your situation.... (read in full...)
I'm 75% happy with my g/f. Should I marry her in 4 weeks?
Q. HI,Im due to get Married in a few months.When im out with my girlfriend it sounds shallow but i feel im supposed to be with a girl that im more attracted too.I have had stronger feelings for girls in the past but i feel i do love my girl as any time ...
A. 18 February 2013: The reason you feel like you are with the wrong person is because you are with the wrong person. Take care of the situation.... (read in full...)
Have I spoiled my last child to the point where he doesn't want to grow up?
Q. Dear Cupid ,I have raised my children from babies to adults my daughter has graduated and has a job and moved on with her life. Now my son is the last one with me at home he will be 18 in nine months I told him his gravy train will end on his eigh...
A. 18 February 2013: Ha ha...as a mother of 3 kids, now in their 30's, all I can say is "Good luck with that!"... (read in full...)
My wife confessed that she cheated and our 4 year old daughter isn't mine. How do we proceed from here?
Q. I'm 32, and my wife's 31; been together for 9 years now. We have a 5-year-old son and 4-year-old daughter. Last night she told me she had something to confess; I asked her what it was, and she admitted to me: "Our 4-year-old daughter isn't m...
A. 18 February 2013: For healthcare reasons your daughter will eventually need to know who her biological father is. Maybe not in the next few years but sometime down the the road she will need to be told. You will need to be prepared for that but hopefully she will be ... (read in full...)
Best friends nightmare son affecting our friendship! Help!
Q. My best friend whom I love to bits has a four year old son that is a NIGHTMARE... I am pretty sure he is ADHD.. and I have commented about this before and she rejected that so fast! But he is such a nightmare to be around. When they come to my ...
A. 14 February 2013: Sorry but the very last thing you should do with a hyperactive kid is to give him ice cream or any other kind of sugary food. But I do agree that you should try to see your friend when the kid isn't going to be around or at least try to see her at ... (read in full...)
Why is my teacher acting differently towards me?
Q. I'm 15 years old and from what some people say an attractive one at that. I liked this teacher. I really liked him, but I haven't felt anything for months. He's around 26. He was nice to me, a lot nicer to me than to the other students. I guess cu...
A. 10 February 2013: Honey, you are simply "suffering" from a teacher crush. It will eventually fade but in the mean time, just ride it out. It is something most young girls go through, kind of a rite of passage, google it. You will come out on the other side right as ... (read in full...)
He's an older married man and the chemistry between the two of us is elecric. How can I get over this strong attraction?
Q. Hello all I am separated. He is married. We work together. There is this crazy, undeniable electricity between us. Just hit us both out of the blue. We have known each other for a year in the workplace. It is at the point where when we look at each...
A. 7 February 2013: Keep a spray bottle of ice water at your desk. When you feel the urge spray directly in your face. Put a heavy duty rubber band around your wrist and snap it really hard when the urge begins to surface. See if you can get a picture of his wife and ... (read in full...)
My roomate is trying to sabotage my relationships!
Q. i've got a real problem with my roommate. we've been living together for quite some time now; about 4 years. and she's really caused me a lot of issues in my social and dating life. she's practically a recluse. we work together, that's how i kno...
A. 6 February 2013: Yeah really, Just get a new place and/or new roomate. Problem solved.... (read in full...)
I'm 16. Is it wrong for me to have unprotected sex, already had a miscarriage and want to get pregnant?
Q. ok so heres the deal...me and my bf have been dating for almost a year now...we stated having sex 5 months after we began dating...but we NEVER used condom...we are 2 highschool students and he is to graduate this year...i have suffered a miscarrage ...
A. 4 February 2013: "we thought seeung as he is a senior then the baby will be born during the summer"...huh? How would you have a baby by this summer? ... (read in full...)
Does anyone else feel cursed?
Q. I wonder if anybody has the same experience I do? It is very hard to find any info on this subject, and Im hoping someone might knows the right resources for me, So I have this strong feeling, that I have been ''cursed'' or something like that. So...
A. 4 February 2013: Who would want to put a curse on you, any ideas?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend drinks and tells me he's sleeping with other people, what should I do?
Q. Hello i have been with my partner now for 2 1/2 years and has been a very terbulant relationship, he drinks heavily and when he aint arounf me he promises he wont drink and when i phone him and he is drunk on the phone or even before he gets to that ...
A. 1 February 2013: There is nothing else to do but leave him to his bottle. You have a child to think about. It is what it is.... (read in full...)
How can I help my husband have better communication skills?
Q. I post this question if anione know of any service s that help with communication skills. My husband is a very nice man, and most of the time we get alone. The way he communicates with people around him and his customers needs improvement. He is a ...
A. 31 January 2013: My husband sometimes does this too. If you ask him "What time is it?" He'll tell you how to make a clock. After 38 years of marriage I can spot a disertation coming on and I just go to that happy place in my mind.... (read in full...)
Should I apologize for saying that his friendship with this other woman makes me uncomfortable?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, please advise: My guy has a married girl friend who is flying in to his city for a week, without her husband, just to hang out with my guy because she “misses him”. I don’t live with my guy yet, though we’ve been together fo...
A. 31 January 2013: Is he taking time off work to be with her? Is she staying at his place? Have you been told you weren't welcome to be part of her visit?... (read in full...)
I'm in love with a pastor who gives mixed signals
Q. I am inlove with a pastor and he is not married yet,the problem is he gives mixed signals....this has been going on for quiet some time now,over months.what cn i do?please help...
A. 31 January 2013: What's up with the date on this post?... (read in full...)
Married four years and she does not want to work. I'm ready to walk. What would you advise?
Q. Hi I have a question we been Married four years. Before that she was working. Now she feels she doesn't have to work. I talk to her about getting a job. She won’t do it, and I'm tired of doing it all. He is no help. Instead she wants me to do a lot...
A. 29 January 2013: Hello Greg? Come in Greg....... (read in full...)
My lover said he'd contact me when things returned to normal. Its been 4 months! I can't contact him
Q. my lover told me not to text that he would when things get back to normal so i respected his wishes but it has been 4 months and I still haven't heard from him i am the kind of person that has to understand the reason behind things. i would ...
A. 28 January 2013: Come on, tell us, your "lover" is a married man isn't he??... (read in full...)
My lover said he'd contact me when things returned to normal. Its been 4 months! I can't contact him
Q. my lover told me not to text that he would when things get back to normal so i respected his wishes but it has been 4 months and I still haven't heard from him i am the kind of person that has to understand the reason behind things. i would ...
A. 28 January 2013: I guess you'll just have to sit around and wait until he can sneak away from his wife for a few seconds. That is as long as you are willing to settle for just those few stolen seconds. Your choice.... (read in full...)
He was excited about the pregnancy at first but now he has asked me to move out! What should I do?
Q. Hi i am in a very hard situation at the minute, i was with a man i liked for years and he liked me. i think i may now be pregnant and i have told him this, he was really pleased at first as he has wanted a child. i have a 3 year old daughter who he ...
A. 28 January 2013: First thing is to determine if you are truly pregnant. Then you need to find a place to live since your boyfriend made it quite clear he wants you out. Then, if you are indeed pregnant, you need to make sure you will be getting child support for ... (read in full...)
Do you think I have missed my chance with this guy or is it worth being somewhere by "accident"on the chance I will bump into him? Or is that desperate?
Q. I had to wait in a queue for half hour or so yesterday and got randomly chatting to this guy who was also waiting. during the conversation he told me 2 or 3 times he was single,divorced, asked if I was.We kept chatting till it was my turn to be se...
A. 28 January 2013: Not desperate just enterprising...Go for it girlfriend.... (read in full...)
My 19 year old daughter wants to marry a 51 year old man. He's 3 years older than her father!
Q. My 19-year-old daughter told me she's dating a 51-year-old man, and wants to marry him and have his children, and he agrees.... She told us he wanted to meet us, and we did, 2 months after they first started dating. [it had been secret until no...
A. 28 January 2013: All you can do in this situation is be supportive of your daughter and hope and pray she truly understands what she is undertaking...and speaking of undertaking....... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to know if he can go to a party where his ex will be. What do I say?
Q. My bf met up with his ex behind my back 2 years ago. He lied about it but the truth eventually came out. Not only that he'd saved semi naked (recent) photos on his computer from her facebook. We had a massive argument and had a break but I ...
A. 25 January 2013: Ask to go with him.... (read in full...)
Who could care and have feelings for 3 year affair?
Q. Is it easy for a man to have a 3yr sex fling with a woman and care nothing for her? My husband has been sleeping with this hoe for 3yrs.I know its only sex. She now has feelings for him but he cares nothing for her. She can't get that through her ...
A. 25 January 2013: A three year "fling"? No such animal.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend controlling or normal?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for just 4 months now but we have been seeing eachother since last July. He is honestly, the most caring, loving, gentle man I have ever come across ( and I am not saying that because he is my boyfriend ). I have just ...
A. 25 January 2013: My only comment is, Yikes, you actually have a question whether this guy is too controlling??!!!!... (read in full...)
My father is a hoarder and has poor hygiene refusing to bathe or wash his hands!
Q. Let me start out by saying I know this is a relationahip forum but this is one of the better sites that gives advice so please answer this question about a family member. This question is more for my mother to ask but the entire family is being ...
A. 24 January 2013: Well all you can do is dedicate your every thought and effort to getting a job so you can get the heck out of there. I'm sure everybody including your mom will be the better for it. Your unhappiness and disapproval is obviously very stressful for ... (read in full...)
I've regained all my feelings for him again. How do I tell him this?
Q. So , When I Was 15 I Was In A Relationship With This Guy Who Was Also The Same Age As Me . After Three Months Of Being Together , We Broke Up . But After Several Months Of Not Talking He Decided To Text Me . So We Been Texting For About A Year...
A. 24 January 2013: Do you have to MANUALLY capitalize the first letter of each word or is that a font with which I'm not familiar?... (read in full...)
My father is a hoarder and has poor hygiene refusing to bathe or wash his hands!
Q. Let me start out by saying I know this is a relationahip forum but this is one of the better sites that gives advice so please answer this question about a family member. This question is more for my mother to ask but the entire family is being ...
A. 24 January 2013: Why are you still living at home? I would have moved out by your age. This is your mother's problem, be supportive when she complains but it's her situation. Nobody can make your father change his behavior but your father and he doesn't seem to ... (read in full...)
I can't commit to someone else because I'm in love with a married man
Q. I have been in contact with a married man with two older children since 2009 . We chatted for about 6 months before i let him in my life. We got serious and within 3 weeks his wife found out . He called if off. I was gutted , he would avoid me at ...
A. 24 January 2013: Oh yeah, you're going to grow old with him alright. You'll be an old woman sitting, by herself, by the phone waiting for it to ring. He'll be an old man sitting on the couch with his wife looking at the pictures of the grandkids with a nice cosy ... (read in full...)
Is this fair? I do so much for him and he does so little for me. What should I do?
Q. Well my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and lets just say I'm getting tired of being taken advantage of. He doesn't have a car so yes I drive him around and I pay for dates and I helped him get a job and yes he still asks me ...
A. 23 January 2013: When you look in the mirror do you see the word "TAMROOD" tattooed on your forehead?... (read in full...)
Partner's mother belittles me. What can I do?
Q. Hi everyone , I'm in a long distance relationship, we see each other every 2 weeks or more . The problem is his mother, she belittles me quiet a lot, she talks to me as a child and i am finding it really annoying now . I told him how I felt in a ...
A. 22 January 2013: There's a heap of difference between a guy who happens to be taking care of his momma and a momma's boy. You need to find out which he is and then you'll know whether you will ever be able to win this battle. Talk to him face to face about all of ... (read in full...)
My lecturer has been flirting, what do I do?
Q. Hello. Im 17 and I go to a college and recently one of my lecturers has been acting weird towards me. I mean weird as in flirting with me. Firstly he is 28. He is in nearly every one of my lessons and because college is so relaxed we sit around a ...
A. 22 January 2013: Whether he's a mentor, assistant professor or a full professor, it doesn't matter, he is NOT allowed to date or have a relationship (other than strictly teacher/student) with any student at your college. And since he has a girlfriend already I doubt ... (read in full...)
Why do some women find aggressive behaviour in men a turn on? I don't get the female mind!
Q. Hey all I have a question on the confusing female mind! I was chatting with a couple of women recently and they both confused the hell out of me. One had slept with some chavy guy who she regretted sleeping with but said she did it because the h...
A. 22 January 2013: Yeah, you need to increase the size of your poll sample. You inadvertently found two wackos.... (read in full...)
After 40 years of being married to an alcoholic, I am leaving him. People tell me not to, why not?
Q. I have been married for 40 years to an alcoholic, He quit for 12 years and started drinking again, and he has gotten worse. I should have left him years ago,but I like so many others stayed for my two kids. THis was a bad decision, because for ...
A. 19 January 2013: Sounds like a plan to me. Go for it. You don't mention your age but I think you deserve some peace of mind at this stage of your life. I'm 60 and I like knowing exactly what to expect when I get home from work each day. Living with a drunk is just ... (read in full...)
Moment of silence for Dear Abby
Q. I think we should have a moment of silence for the passing of our fellow agoney aunt Dear Abby....
A. 18 January 2013: Don't feel too bad Butterfly, she was in her 90's and had Alzheimer's, a blessing for her really.... (read in full...)
What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 16 January 2013: So why exactly are you still living at home? Financial reasons or cultural reasons or what?... (read in full...)
What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 10 January 2013: "conservative" and are you pregnant?... (read in full...)
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