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writes:me and my bf are very close we do everything togther and realy we dnt go out much without eachothr our relantionship is good but latly he told me hes bored and wants to go out to the bar i knw he wants sum alone time but i just dnt see it fair that he goes out while im stuck at home being pregnant and he goes out plus all i have is hem seens i moved like 40 miles from my frds and family. all hes frds and family are clothes by us and i have no one but hem to hang out with so im i beiing selffish by not wanting hem to go out and leave me home alone?? Reply to this Question
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 why not compromise and have him have some friends over? He can hang with them and you at the same time then
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reader, JDinCali +, writes (17 February 2011):
 I remember those times! Men mean so much to their pregnant women. Just don't forget, you may be two people together on the same road of life, but you're still two individuals.
Try not to be so bummed out and coped up inside. Do something you've been wanting to do for a while! Seems like you two need to change up your routines a bit and remember who you are.
Alone time is a good thing and for a new mother its everything! Pamper yourself. Enjoy what you love to do now before it all changes and you're living for a lil' person who's going to become your world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): i dont think your being selfish. When a female is pregnant she needs all the comfort and attention she can get so its normal to feel that way, at the same time men dont understand this so i dont think he is trying to hurt you intentionally. I went threw the same thing.All u need to do is chill and take care of yourself for your baby. try not to stress and worry about him later because u honestly cant controle him
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