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writes:Hello, I have a serious issue. There is this girl i really love and she loves me back but there are a ton of issues. First off we live a state apart and neither of us can see the other because im 16 and she is younger than me( I wanna keep her as annonymous as possible). We have known each other for about 2 years now and we are planning to see each other this summer but there are several things that make me question that decision a good one. There are major diffrences between us for example She has had a real rough life and is currently smoking, has lost her virginity, and has done drugs and has attempted suicide on serveral occasions where as i have done none of that nor have i had my first kiss yet. One more issue is we are both bi-polar and we can handle ourselves well but its not easy. The last issue is that she loves her ex more than me. I only treat her with love and respect and i talk to her everyday but she still loves her ex more( who is kind of abusive) Im sorry this is long but i really need help. I love her mlre than anyone and would do anything for her. I just want to know if i should keep fighting for her or if it would be best to move on. Thank you.
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 Hiya Hun. I think it's best if you move on from this girl. By what I've just read, I don't think it would work out at all. You may think a lot of her, but if you continued with this travelling and all these differences, then would you really be happy? After all thats the most important thing. You seem like two totally different people and a relationship consits of two people having to fit together. Just remember there is a big world out there, someone will be looking for you, you just have to wait! Until then, enjoy your life!xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the response. Your right i should move on.... Wont be easy but i should. Thank you.
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