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writes:I am in a relatonship of 6 months and I am getting ready to make the big leap and move in with this special someone. Sounds great, right? Well ...he recently divulged that once a month he has an incredible urge to look at shemale porn and he just wanted to be completely honest and for me to be aware of it. We have an active super hot love life and we are connected on many levels but now I am scared to death because I feel this will cause a serious problem with our intimacy. I dominate and satisfy him in every way possible. He is a manly man and is really ashamed of this weird urge and does not want to lose me over it..that is for sure. I am Bi cuious and extemely open minded but I have been burned by porn addicts in the past and I have explained this to him. Tranny porn is the only thing he has ever looked at or has turned him on. This goes way back from his youth...he says he never had any gay experiences ...nor would he act out on this fantasy because it would leave him feeling weird and confused...He goes into detail how I turn him on physically.....but I know something is off...he is basically 3/4 attracted to women...and does not consider himself to be gay in any way. What is the big turn on? He says he can control it....but is he gay or just addicted to images or the idea of female domination??? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!
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reader, LittleMissy  +, writes (17 February 2011):
I wouldn't say watching every month was an addiction, he was honest with you which was a very good sign. If it reaches a point where the porn turna him on but you don't, then it's a problem.
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 I'm on those 'trannys' you're referring to. Having known and had relations with a number of men who considered themselves straight, I can only give you the reassurance that if the transexual in question is sufficiently feminine, you don't have more of a problem than, say, a guy who likes any other kind of porn. It isn't normally a certain indicator of a person being homosexual, per se.
If you do not have any other grounds to suspect his sexuality, this should not by itself bother you that much.
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reader, lovelost371 +, writes (17 February 2011):
I think if YOU turn him on then thats a good starting point. He may or may not be gay if he thinks he isn't that means he doesn't want to be and that helps. Its wrong and if both of you know that you may be able to save your relationship.You also mention that he says that he doesn't want to lose you over it. Ask him to stop if he really wants to keep you over it.
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