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She never gets upset after we fight... does that mean she doesn't care?

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Question - (16 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2011)
A male United States age 41-50, *o_way_out writes:

Hi, I know a girl who I am close to. I have thought about her as a romantic interest but one thing makes me wonder about her feelings about me: whenever we fight I become very nervous, very upset and it lasts the whole day as I replay the whole thing in my mind. She, on the other hand, is barely affected at all. I see her joking around on Facebook or updating her twitter. Sometimes I even called her back and asked her if she was angry at me. "No, why should I be angry?" she asked.

Does this mean she doesn't care? If you are close to someone would you not get upset after you fight with them?

Thanks for your insights.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (16 February 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntWhat do you guys fight about?

You may take things more to heart than she does. Perhaps she has a carefree attitude and just brushes off the arguments. It doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't care.

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A female reader, sammi star United Kingdom +, writes (16 February 2011):

sammi star agony auntIt may be that she's probably just not as emotional as you. Or maybe she just hides it better? Having a row with someone doesn't mean that you should sit around miserable all day and not update your twitter! Try not to read so much into it, maybe she uses these things to take her mind off it?

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