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writes:So I've been together with a girl for like 14 months and things are going pretty good but kinda suck on the "sexual" side... She's beautiful and kind and I really do care about her but not much happens in our "alone time" other than lots of kissing and rubbing. So question one, is it wrong that I am wanting more from my girlfriend after how long we've dated?Dilema number two is that I'm going to Mexico for spring break. Which is great exept I've never been to somewhere like mexico and I feel like it's going to be hard for me if there's a ton of bikini clad girls around for 10 days and I want to hook up, but I can't because I'm commited.Seems like a stupid question I suppose, I'm not exactly hard done by I guess, but any responses that are actually helpful would be very much apreciated as I do feel like I'm in a tough spot.Dilemma number three [mod combined from OPs separate post] is:I fingered my girlfriend and ever since these last couple days shes been freaking out, worried that she might be pregnant. I guess it kinda makes sense if i had something on my finger or something but I've never heard of a girl getting pregnant from that. Anybody else know anything?
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reader, N91  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 I'd say if you're tempted to cheat on your GF then maybe you should either tell her how you're feeling, or just try your best to ignore the urge, if you can't and you do cheat then it's up to your own judgement whether you tell her or not.
As for getting her pregnant through fingering, that's a joke right? Unless you came all over your fingers first, then she's not getting pregnant.
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reader, rain-drop-kisses  +, writes (16 February 2011):
Your age says 16 to 17 and as a 17 year old girl I'd say that she is nervous about taking it to that level. She obviously knows little about sex as she thought she was pregnant by just getting fingered. Do not try to pressure her into anything. It's okay to want more but take things slow with her.
Sex should also have to do with love and caring. If your worried about cheating on her while being away for only a week than you should not be trying to have sex with your girlfriend in the first place as you don't truly care for her. If you did a vacation would not be a big deal.
And don't worry she id not pregnant. Tell her to maybe do some research online about sex and pregnancy. It might help her be able to move to the next level with you.
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