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writes:Ok, here's the situation:I'm seeing this guy (let's call him C.) with whom I'm in love and I'm starting to think that he loves me too, but he's too proud to admit it (he shows anyway). The other day we met, C. accidentally told me that in December he went to a party where he knew I would be because I had told him in a text just before leaving to that party. I suppose that he went just to see me.The thing is that during the party I got really really drunk (first time in my life I'm SO drunk... and last, I swear it!) so I CAN'T remember anything, but I've been told that I kissed a guy and a friend of mine who was also at the party says that that guy could be C., although she's not sure since she didn't know him yet when all of this happened. I wouldn't be atonished if C. was that guy because even when I've been a little bit drunk I've never been able to kiss someone I'm not really into. Besides I've been told too that my kisser took care of me all the night and helped me with the drunkness consequences (you know, such as trhowing up, etc.). My opinion is that a complete stranger wouldn't have bothered behaving so well with me, stupid drunk girl. C. tried to make me ask him about the party once he told me he had been there, buy I was so ashamed of myself I didn't want to hear anything about it. He even dropped hints to me by casually talking about things I've been told that happened at the party (why the hell would he bother talking about throwing up other way?), maybe to make me remember. However, today he's denied everything when a friend of us has tried to get the truth out of him. He claims he didn't go to the party and he told me so in order to pull my leg. I'm pretty sure he's lying now but...What should I believe? Does he care for me? Am I beeing naive?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 So he said he was at the party and tried to get you to talk about it? How about asking some of his friends where he was the other night?
Maybe it really was him, if it was then yes he does care about you. Perhaps he was waiting on a "thank you" for taking care of your inebriated self the other night.
The only way to know is to ask him, or ask his friends about his whereabouts that night. You may never who your mystery caretaker was.
Anyways, if you're love with Guy C and you're certain he's starting to fall for you then why don't you make your move with him? What's holding you back from asking him out?
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