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writes:My girlfirend has cheated on me twice now and she doesn't seem to regret her actions. The last time she cheated, I found them together. When I spoke with her about the issue, she took the other guy's side. What should I do because I still love her?
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (17 February 2011):
Your issue is not love for her, you have lots of that. Your issue is that she does not love you in the same way, and you do not have enough love for yourself and your own sense of self respect to say to yourself that you want to be with someone who loves you like you love them. Value yourself, you deserve better from someone who is a partner. Its hard when you love someone, but if they don't love or respect you in the same way, you can't really have a successful relationship. You are better off with someone who will treat you like you treat them.
Good luck.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (16 February 2011):
You need to stop loving her right now. If you appreciate your life and mental health, just leave her and move on.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 February 2011):
Why on earth are you still with a woman who sided with the guy she cheated with? That's like going to sleep with a snake in your bed. This girl offers you nothing at all. Not anything. Get away from her.
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reader, nicolefoster1985 +, writes (16 February 2011):
 if she dosnt seem to regret it than she obviously thinks she can get away with treating you that way it is hard breaking up with someone uv been with a while but in the long run u will be better off without her and when u find someone that dosnt cheat on u ul wonder how u put up with it x
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reader, hotinlove  +, writes (16 February 2011):
You deserve Respect, just like everyone else. She is not showing you respect in any sense of the word.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): Leave her. Her actions demonstrate that she does not think highly of you. You deserve better.
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