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writes:This girl and I are friends. We tease, flirt and even physically touch each other. One day, we were flirting a bit and well she said "You are my toy". I know she likes to joke around a lot, but I don't get why she said that. I am not sure how I feel being called a toy, I am slightly insulted. But afterwards things are fine, we joke around still and she still enjoys my company and is very happy to talk to me. Why am I her toy? What makes me her toy? And should I be worried about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): Not an insult at all in my book... I think of my boyfriend as a sweet treat.. I even call him "candy boy" and he's 37!
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (16 February 2011):
It depends on what do you want from her. You want her as a friend? You want her as a girlfriend?
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (16 February 2011):
 I think she's telling you,"You excite me! I like how I can control you, I like you until I get bored, and find another toy" Like we did as kids" IJS!
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (16 February 2011):
 Honestly, I don’t think she meant it as an insult, so don’t over analyze this comment. She likes flirting and having fun with you! She feels comfortable around you and enjoys your company. Unless she acts this way with other guys, flirting, teasing, and touching are indications that she likes you!
If her comment really bothers you, go ahead and ask her what she meant. Say something like, “Why did you call me your toy? Should I be insulted?”
Let us know what happens. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): Doubt you should worry. Is she older than you? That could make you her toy! There is many meaning by that. The best hope would to ask her. Or you could try various sland dictionaries. I always find "Urban Dictionary" works well!
Hope this helps! Good Luck :) x
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