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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear all,I ruined valentines day for me and my man by not wanting to come to his place because i felt tired and i didn't know he had a surprise for me. I went to his place anyway and gave him his gift but he felt terrible because his surprise was not a surprise anymore since I was reluctant to go to his place. One day after that he cried really hard and ran into my arms he told me it's because he felt so sad bout our relationship.. he really wanted it to work but we fight a lot. Ow he started crying when he was listening to our song.I felt bad for him.. i wanted it to work as well but it just won't. I don't feel loved by him. Today he told me that I can leave and he doesn't really care anymore. He told me to get out of his life and doesn't really want to be with me anymore. And I will never change.. He thinks i am childish etc.. And if I really loved him I should show him!Ow and I MIGHT be pregnant but he tells me he doesn't want to keep it already! IF i was pregnant. Because our relationship is not good and we can't take care of it. Financial issues.Right after he dumped me I got a call my brother is in jail... He gave me a lift in the middle of the night and stayed with me while he has to get up early in the morning. I think that was nice of him. He then tells me that he loves me and held my hand? Sympathy perhaps? Because I was shocked!He tells me to fuck off? He is being hot and cold? I can't tell the signs really.. Should I dump him?Thanks I appreciate any help :)
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 hmmm from what you say it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants- you have to think about wether this relationship is working. if i was pregnant and the father told me to abort it i would see no future with him. thats just me.
does he make you happy? do you feel loved?
what do you get out of this situation?
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