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writes:Is he into me or am i a foolI have been seeing this guy for 6 months now and i think the world of him but i have doubts, he says he is really comfy with me and loves being here, i only see him once - maybe twice a week sometimes as he lives an hour away and works afternoon shifts, he texts me nearly every day, but he recently re-joined the dating site we met on when i asked him about it he said he had friends on there and missed talking to them, even gave me their names but it's made me uneasy - yes i know he needs friends but it's made me have doubts about him now, i know he has friends on tagged to that he chats to - think maybe i am overreacting but i like him a lot and don't want to be taken for a fool?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): i think you are being taken for a fool. make a fake profile and test him.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 I don't think you're overreacting. I know you've talked about it, but perhaps you need to talk again. Tell him that you don't want to come between him and his friends and see if he's willing to share his email with these friends so that he's not using a dating site to talk to them.
Honestly, his opening up a dating site profile again is not a good sign, at least not in my book. If he hasn't given you many reasons not to trust him, I wouldn't necessarilly end things due to this, but it definitely is cause to be concerned and should be addressed.
Before talking to him again you should figure out what would be an acceptable compromise for you. That way you know how far you're willing to go to meet him half way. Good luck.
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