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writes:K well me and my girl have been together for 5 months almost 6... and well i love her with all my heart and she seems to love me to... but she is a girl so she has "brothers".. well i was fine with someone she called her brother until she told me that she got hurt in gym class and so he picked her up and took her to the bleachers, sat her down and kissed the top of her head... now that makes me uncomfy and idk what to do about it... i tried talking to her about it and she got mad at me... i don't want to break up with her over this i just want her to not let him do that anymore... plus she goes camping and he's going on the trip with her family(he's her brothers best friend)... someone plz help me with this
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): dont cramp her too much by caring if yous are only going out six months brush it off and let it go this time.. you'll push her away by being TOO protective and caring.. beleive me... iv had this situation.. he annoyed the hell out of me for caring about everytime a guy touched me the wrong way even unintentionaly.. try relax!!
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reader, katiebudge  +, writes (16 February 2011):
 sorry to hear about your situation, but you have every right to feel unahppy and uncomfortable, i can tell you now that i would feel the same. there is no need for him to do this, and fair enough they are close so thats probably why he did it, hes used to being like that to her. maybe talking to her "brothers" would help, talk to them first and explain how you feel to them they may understand it a bit better then your girlfriend. but make sure your not saying it horrible or rude to her, say it calmly just explain how you feel if she still gets angry at you just say to her
"i understand that you are close but this is how i feel and as your boyfriend i should be able to say how i feel and for you to understand." make sure you point out that you still want them to be friends and you wont do anything to stop that, just explain that it upset you a little and to kiss her is for you to do, not her friends. if she doesnt understand then maybe say for her to put herself in your shoes. i hope this helps
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