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writes: For the past couple of weeks, my boyfriend and I have been having disagreements. He thinks I'm being hypocritical, and I think a lot of things he says to me come off as condescending and rude. We've been together for more than a year and a half, and we live together, but I think my feelings for him have greatly changed. I still care about him very much, but I'm not sure that I'm "in love" with him. I can't stand much more arguing and fighting.It's not like I have another guy in mind to date, but I'm just afraid that if I settle for this, I'll never be happy. The big problem here is that I've stayed in this city to be with him, despite not having good job opportunities here, and I can't afford to pay this rent by myself, and neither can he.I'm not sure what I should do, and any advice would be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010): Its not right for you to stay in this relationship becuase you are unhappy. Does he feel the same? you should ask him. Maybe a little time apart could help? rather than a full on seperation? hope everything works out. :]
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 If your unhappy then its not fair to stay in this relationship, its not fair on either of you. Am sure maybe you could look for a cheaper one bedroom apartment to move in to, because you will only resent each other. Or do you have a friend you could go and stay with for a couple of weeks so you can sort your head out and make up your mind wether you want to be with this man or not.
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