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writes:Hi World!I am an lady with a hidden lifestyle, am a lesbian. I am going 40 and never been married, this makes my conservative christian family so not get me. Our traditions do not get or accept this kind of lifestyle. I would really want to have a gay guy who is in the same predicament as i am and if it fits get married. As for we both know our arrangement it should not be a problem. we only share companionship when needed etc. Opinions please.
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reader, CrystalTippsx  +, writes (30 September 2010):
 I know it could be difficult, but you should be open about it. If you're a lesbian, you should be looking for a girlfriend, and a gay man would want a boyfriend. Don't marry for the sake of it, you should meet someone you would actually love. It's your life, so do what makes you happy, not what other people would accept. If they can't accept you for who you are, they're not worth it. xx
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reader, loveworld +, writes (27 September 2010):
loveworld is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your wonderful constructive thoughts and opinion. blonde30s thanks, that is what i am trying to do. I had a breathing time US for nearly 10 years, now to many question after return to Africa.
Its a little much harder when you start getting into politics.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 I totally disagree with this, its like living a lie, i can totally understand that your community is against gay/lesbians but you are that person and you need to try and be honest am sure your family and friends might be against it for a while and it will come as a shock but if they love you they will stand by you.
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