A
female
age
30-35,
*alu
writes: hey i need some flirting advice.a good friend of mine, i think, was flirting with me yesterday. we were talking a lot, and he was asking me to rub his back because it was sore, and to feel his feet because his calises have gone (we both do aikido, and normally you get great thick calises from training, but he hasn't been training of late as he's been at school, and lives too far away to train normally) it sounds kinda gross i guess, but it was more light hearted and fun/funny at the time. he was also always choosing to sit really close to me, and he insisted that he bought me lunch. would you say thats flirting??i thought it was flirting, and i wanted to flirt back, but i'm not very good at it. do you have any advice on what i could do??also i'm 16 next month, and some other friends have suggested (because they know the boy in question and they know my feelings for him) that i'm to hug everyone i talk to regularly, and i'm to hug and kiss the cheek of every guy i regularly talk to. appart from teachers obviously. a couple may be cute, but it's not worth the hassle. hahaanyway, thankyou for any advice and/or tips :)halu xx :)
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reader, N3m0 +, writes (29 September 2010):
hi =) well im 19 and i guess i could say im a proffesional at flirting, not to sound cocky.. but it sounds like flirting. kind of hard to tell but mayeb i can help more if you give more info on other clues you might he he does. But for me when i flirt, I usually smile alot and make the person laugh alot and i tend to be more touchy( nothing creepy). I mean more like shoving , this might sounds childish but it works, asking if i can see how big their hand is and comparing and seeing what they say. usually if they flirt back theyll tease or keep their hand longer. so also flirting isnt so difficult , just by smiling and making them laugh constantly and puting the spotlight on them , makes them feel special and it gets your point accross =) GOOD LUCK !!! =)
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