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writes:My husband and i got in the biggest fight i would say we have ever had and the nieghbors called the cops.Well he got arrest ( well i was change our daughters diaper, infront of our son) for a warrnet. he got 10 days no bail no 2 for 1. our son hasnt stop crying, and honestly either have i. he has done time before, but this time i feel like my heart is being riped out of my chest. i cant seem to do anything but think of him. like he is never coming back. he called and told me that " Now you got rid of me" i feel like when he gets out he wont come home. All i want is my husband home. i want to go see him but its a long drive and i dont have the money for gas if i get it, i dont want to go up there and him not see me it will brake my heart. After that i dont know what to do with my self.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 i'm glad it has made him think a bit. i hope it will all go well for you guys now. i'm sure you will all appreciate each other more when you get him back : )
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reader, hurtingmom_wife +, writes (29 September 2010):
hurtingmom_wife is verified as being by the original poster of the question update: i got to go see him! i said i was sorry and he ask why and said he is the one who is sorry he was messing up! so i think all this happen for a reason. like i know but at the time i thought it was bad. now i know its good. I feel good about where my marriage might go from here.
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reader, hurtingmom_wife +, writes (27 September 2010):
hurtingmom_wife is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIm afraid if i ask for money for gas that i wont get any at all. With at i wont be albe to go to school either and no one will watch the kids.
See my family and friend really dont like him for he speaks his mind and in some case he knows some thing he will tell. They dont care how badly im hurting as long as he is too. its sad really but im asking for gas for school and im thinking of going to class for alittle and then leaving to go see him if they give me enough gas.
Thank you!
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reader, natasia +, writes (26 September 2010):
Can you get a message to him and tell him you are really upset without him? After all, you didn't call the cops - the neighbours did.
Maybe you could borrow some money to go and see him?
Or just wait till he is out. 10 days isn't that long. But if possible, get to talk to him.
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