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writes:My husband and I been together for 4 years now, but most of it was while he was incarerasted. Weve been only married for almost 2 years now. He got out a few months ago and we been only living together just under 2 months and weve been fighting like cats and dogs, and one day it was relly bad and i threw him out. Every since that day weve been apart and he says he can't trust me and don't know what he wants to do.. I've asked him to forgive me and give our marriage a chance and he keeps treating me like crap.. He'll text and want to come by for sex then he'll ignore me the rest of the time.. I let this go on for a couple of weeks, then when i asked what we were doing he yelled at me and said we'd never do it again... He still continues to text and ask if he has mail here or he'll send jokes via text... He also said some very terrible things about me on line and he's has a facebook that he's decided to add ex's to that also join in on slaudering me.. but when we do talk he says he hasn't been with anyone else, but still very upset with me.. I feel he finds things to be mad at me for.. I'm so confused!!! Not sure what I should do anymore, my hearts broken and I'm lost with him, but I also feel that I don't deserve to be treated like this.. So I decided that I'm no longer going to answer his textes. So any advice would be greatful.. Am I doing this right? Please help!!!
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reader, Really Sad +, writes (26 September 2010):
Really Sad is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI've known him for over 25 years.. We dated on and off over the years. I've loved him my whole life and what scares me is I don't know how not too... I contacted him when my mother was ill and we started talking a again..
Yesterday he helped make my decision a lot easier, he posted pictures of him and another woman. And of course when I confronted him he said she's just a friend. I can no longer deal with his antics and i need to move on..
Thanks so much for your input..
I'm still open to more advice...
Now I need help to get past all the hurt and anger...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): With all due respect, please grow up. both of you. He's immature, emotioanlly abusive, disrespecftul...need i say more. Its a no brainer...get out of that relationship!!!!!
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (26 September 2010):
 Don't enable the sex and leave routine he developed.
I like the idea of stop talking to him for awhile, it will show him that you're serious about him changing his behavior.
He sounds immature and well, mean. The contact with his exes thing is what is odd here, the bad talking about you with them is weird and also mean and also immature. I think you should leave this man. I know thats pretty rash, but do you think this man is capable of being a loving husband at this point or a loving father someday?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): How did you meet this guy? Did you know him before prison? OR did you met him after her was convicted? If you met him while he was in jail, odds are good that he's grown tired of you and at the same time lacks the personality to treat you correctly - even if you don't love someone there is a correct way to end a relationship. I suspect that he's struggling with a variety of issues... you're not responsible for his actions or feelings (only he is) and you need to take an objective look at this relationship and see if he's really husband material. If he's not, odds are he's ex-husband material...
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