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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear all,I'm feeling love sick and blue. I don't feel like a man. I don't know where to start. On friday night, after I had a couple of drinks with my work colleagues, a friend of mine called saying she was in my area with her friends and invited me along. I like this girl and she knows this. As we were gonna enter a jazz club I found out I didn't have enough money on my person. So I left. Moments later she txted asking me where I was and I told her that I had left and she insisted she pay for me. I was quite pissed off at the time. I said no. she insisted again and I rejected the offer again. I went home. The next day I called her twice and she wouldn't pick up. I was literally blue. I left a voicemail and she texted saying she was ok. I replied asking if she didn't wna talk to me. She never replied so I called her and she picked up. We talked about the night and it was clear she was annoyed. She called me needy and that I needed to fix up. I absolutely agree with her. But I don't know how. Guys I need to man up. I can't stop thinking about her. I feel insecure. So blue.
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reader, SweetindianGirl  +, writes (26 September 2010):
i hate it when girls like HER play with good guys like YOU. its not fair.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): if she has offered to pay and she really insisted then yea i think its okay, that would have been ur chance if u would have accepted the offer, coz later on u could ve invited her out on u, which could ve been like a date, anyway dont worry buddy, just act cool around her and explain to her than u just didnt feel like she had to pay and u would love to make it up for her by buyin her a drink or idk dinner
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