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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: Hi my partner of 6 years walked out on me 5 weeks ago he said its because we arent close any more we have been drifting apart but i was trying my hardest to work through our problems. Now he is saying he wants to get back together. I dont know what to do. He has never put me first i always have him. I am scared of being hurt again and I said no. I really dont know what to do my heart wants to be with him and my head is saying we dont work together and we shouldnt be together. I am really torn and just cant come to a decision i do love him but i dont know if its enough anymore, Please help
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reader, Princess _008 +, writes (26 September 2010):
if you love someone you can definitely NOT hurt him/her. if that guy loves you truly, he would not break up with you. instead he would have find that reason which are causing you guys to drift apart and try to enhance it to avoid separation.
am sure he must have had another reason for breaking up with you. maybe there was someone else in his life.
girl i advice you not to let him re-enter your life since there is no guarantee that he won't hurt you again. try to find someone who loves you not someone who you loves
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