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male
age
30-35,
*austav
writes: Hey hieee, I am Kaustav from India.I m in Love with this girl for almost 2 years now.Recently I had gone for a Trip to Nepal with my male friends for almost a month.We were in in constant touch with her on the phone though.But as soon as I returned things started to change.Although she welcomed me nicely upon my return,had a nice lunch together but things started to slide to the wrong.She was constantly upset over her past relationship all the time in this two years but that was somewhat subdued before this trip i had.Now on return its been almost 3 months and we are still to develop that passion once again.we have had 3-4 almost break-ups but we carried on due to my persuasion.She constantly keeps telling me that she has no feeling left for me but on the contrary cares for me,makes me smile and most importantly cannot see me depressed. she wants me and her both to Smile. I am really confused and want to do anything that once again gets the spark back into our relationship.i am currently trying to be at my nicest best in front of her and make her smile all the time whenever she is with me but sometimes when i don't get any emotion that I wish to see from her side i get really Bogged down and then she gets worried.So Please Help me through this Phase of mine as I am not able to concentrate on anything else as she is always on my mind.....Hoping to hear soon...
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reader, fordyboy +, writes (29 September 2010):
I think the two of you need to talk or perhaps see a relationship councellor. There is hope here, but there are stale issues in your relationsip. Seek help, she sounds worth the fight!
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