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writes:Ok everyone i need help so my boyfriend told me he wanted to spice up our sex life and try new things. I thought he ment to try new positions. Come to find out he wants to have a threesome. I dont mind the whole girl on girl thing or another girl giving him head but, I dont think i can watch him have sex with another woman so im asking if i should go ahead and do it and see how it goes or say no? Im willing to do what i have to to keep him happy but im afraid it will mess up our relationship if we get into it and he dont get out of it what he wants... So please help!
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (26 September 2010):
Well, let me tell you, my sister and her husband had a threesome as a "one time thing" and it turned into a year long thing where the girl moved in and caused lots of problems. I have seen this issue on several shows and it seems this is usually what happens.
The girl went away, but the problems in the relationship still existed and my sister moved out for a few weeks, she moved back in, however this girl has popped back up.
You shouldn't have to do this to make him happy, he'll have other things he may want to try if you aren't willing to do this. If he gets mad, dump his ass, he's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Threesomes can be a lot of fun if properly set up and executed. Problem is that 99% of the time they are not and cause HUGE problems... and can kill a relationship.
Proceed carefully. You should be 100% into this and either of you willing to WALK AWAY from the idea if either is uncomfortable. I suspect he's willing to go through this, regardless of your feelings.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 Ergh... don't do a threesome just because you're scared of losing him. Only do it if you BOTH want to do it.
If you absolutely feel you have to have a threesome (which you shouldn't), make sure that you lay down what you are and are not ok with. If you don't want him to actually have sex with another girl then tell him so... if he isn't a selfish bastard who's more concerned with his own pleasure than your feelings then he'll be fine with it.
Goodluck either way :)
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