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writes:To cut a long story short, a few months ago i did a very stupid and selfish thing and ended up sleeping with a friend who has a girlfriend. Recently this friend and me were talking about what happened and he asked me if he thought what we did was bad. I said i did think it was bad what we did, then he asked if part of me thought it was good. He said he was in town soon and "do you think we can behave seeing as you're so hot?" i said we'd never do what we did again. Why ask if i thought what we did was bad? Does he really need to ask? Of course what we did was bad and wrong.
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reader, Ecoatz  +, writes (26 September 2010):
This guy is just trying to get in your pants and wants to know if you're willing. Maybe he wants you as a backup for his girlfriend. Good job standing your ground though hes pretty much a jerk looking to cheat again. Slap him in the face the next time you see him.
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reader, fishdish +, writes (26 September 2010):
 He clearly hopes you'll open to have it happen again. good for you for standing your ground and not screwing over the girlfriend anymore. You MIGHT want to consider telling the gf that he's looking for tail from you, but obviously this could blow up in your face if he decides to rat on you too.
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reader, gigolojone  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 He asked you that question because to him it wasn't bad at all and he would like to do it again but has no direct way of asking you if you can do it again other than just beating around the bush.
He also wanted to hear the good side of it and probably suggest another go at it.
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reader, Rob-x-x-x  +, writes (26 September 2010):
open your eyes!! he enjoyed it! and ever since he hasn't stopped thinking about you or how good it was being in bed with you. I personally think that you feel it was a mistake but he just agrees it was a mistake to keep everyone happy. He clearly is now undecided about whether he wants you or his girlfriend and from what you've written it sounds like you have the edge!
if its not what you want, then give him some space because it sounds to me like he wants it to happen again and if hes not who you want in the long run then dont allow it to happen. remember: he does have a girlfriend!!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 September 2010):
 He probably wants to repeat it again and that is why he is asking you, dont fall for it as you already no its wrong and he doesnt deserve to be with his girlfriend if he is going to act like this. Tell him straight out that it will never happen again while he is with his girlfriend.
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