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Something keeps stopping me from having sex, why do I keep saying no?

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Question - (26 September 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

well im 16 and i am a virgin!

peaple always say ohh you dont seem like your a virgin? what the hell does that mean really. Anyway i have done everything apart from sex because when it nearly happens something always stops me and i dont know what then i just say ohh shit im on my periods or i think i can hear someone. Its really weird i have had soo many opportunities that i just say no too?

but it could be the age difference because i mostly go for the older boy like in there early 20's and i know your all going to be like there using you but there not because i dont have sex with them

Bu know there is this one guy he is 20 and i really like hime shall i just have sex with him? or will i badly regret it i want to but then at the same time i dont :/

help xoxo

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2010):

Follow your gut instinct always. If you aren't ready you will say no. That is your subconscious mind telling you that and no one else. Don't try to fight it. That is you. Well done :)

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A female reader, Duckyhelp United Kingdom +, writes (26 September 2010):

Duckyhelp agony auntIf you dont want it, dont do it. Too many people regret their first time. I suggest find a guy who your with properly and be with him for a long time before doing it, because then you wont regret it. It will cause so much pain if you do it and you didnt really want to.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (26 September 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntYour only 16 and it sounds like you just arent ready to lose your virginity, you will feel it when the time is right so please dont rush yourself. Enjoy spending time with the guy you really like and if he likes you he will respect you when you say you are not ready. Good Luck.

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