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36-40,
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writes:Dear Agony aunts, I dont know what to say, i feel so frustrated, to sum it up, i will refer my husband to the quote , "he talks the talk but never walks the walk," .. he always says lets invest in this, lets do that, lets move to another house, lets lets lets..... i get so excited and at the end nothig happens.. I am very enthusiastic about investing in my money since we still have a baby and she doesnt require much at the moment .. I want to help my husband have anoher income other than his own salary.. I gave him a million ideas but he never applies any of them.. he just sits there and talks talks with his parents who are just the same...he just watches football and visits friends at night .. he wont even help me open up my own buisness. "forget the buisness and enjoy life" thats what he says... (i already have a job but i want to do something more) ...please hellpp i feel that he is with no ambition and no desire to advance in anything .. i dont believe him in anything anymore...Sincerelythanks alooot all :**
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (27 September 2010):
 I really don't know what your question is, but I do understand your situation. Some people WANT more, but they are so afraid to make the move!An observation of people that I have made is: Some people are employers, some are employees. It's a state of motivation.Some "employees" dream big and have golden opportunities, but never take them. They are stuck in the comfortable rut of "do work, get paid on Friday". It's the "employer" who will take the risk of losing money in an effort to make more. They like the stress and uncertainty. They are motivated by challenge. Something you said. He sits and watches football. Business and investing are like a sport. There are participants, and there are spectators.Like football, the spectators never win the game! You want to be the participant, but your partner is a spectator. I'm in a similar yet different position as you. I am more than willing to do something. I am anxious to start some sort of business. I just have no ideas of what to do....
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