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female
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36-40,
*ngel0788
writes:me and my ex was together 2 years, we always had a good loving relationship. Im 19 and hes 22. However last year our elationship fell apart when i fell pregnant. He comes most of the time to see our son and over the past 2 months we have been getting closer, if we are on our own for a period of time he will always say things like 'are you still in love with me' and 'have you slept with anyone since me?'. If i go out and he babysits he will always ask where i am going and make some comment like 'oh that lad of the dating website the other night he slept with me and half way through stopped and said tell me you love me.. so i did, then said but you cant say it can you.. and he stopped then said ' i love you '. Afterwards he made it clear because i mentioned it that he just wants to be civil and friends and i asked him if he still had feelings an d he said yeah.. I asked him why he made nothing of it and he said because we always row. I feel so lost, i love him more than anything, everytime i try and let it go but he always has to mention something or sleep with me.. Him telling me he loved me broke my heart, i no he has no intention of being with me.. it just hurts.. how could he be so heartless? If he does not love or care for me..why cant he stop sleeping with me and asking me if i still love/ are in love with him??Im lost :(
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 He is still sleeping with you because you are letting him the truth hurts but you need to hear it darling. If sex is there any man will take it, he is telling you he loves you so that he can continue sleeping with you without any attachements, as for him asking you are you sleeping with anyone else this is simply just male ego i am afraid, he doesnt want to be with you but he doesnt want anyone else to have you, he is messing with your head and your to vunerable and in love to realise this, stop sleeping with this guy in fact cut all contact with him if he starts asking why tell him you refuse to be used and that if he doesnt want to be in a commited relationship with you then you dont want to see him, maybe you both have a mutual friend that could drop his son around to his or something so that you dont have to see him, it is going to take a lot of courage but you need to get away from him eventually you will start realising after not seeing him for a while that you deserve better and you can start getting your life back on track.
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