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*antspaintogoaway
writes: i am a romancer. my three favorite things to do are paint, cook, and sing (write, play music. unfortunately i am sensitive too. I am 18 and i treat my girls amazing.I met a girl over the summer and i knew right when i started talking to her that i liked her. Ive been dating this girl for 2 months and i most definately love her. But i dont think she realizes how much i love her.I tell her that she is the most amazing girl, and stare into her eyes and tell her i love her. But i feel its not enough. I want her to go to bed every night thinking:" wow. this guy is amazing, i am so lucky i have him." I want to do something that no other guy would ever in a million years do for her. I want to show her just how much i love her. Something big and really really sweet. girls? what would make you fall in love with a guy?anything sweet a guy has done for you to make you crazy bout him? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Baybiegirl +, writes (26 September 2010):
Well, to me you soundlike an amazing guy and she is lucky to have you! I'd love I guy to treat me like this!
Anyway, the sweetest thing a guy's ever done for me..
it started back freshman year of high school..I was his fish and he watched me like a hawk for that year, we became really close then he went into the army and we had a big fight before he did and now he writes me everyday and sends me pictures all the time. He finally came out and told me that he was in love with me and had been for the longest time. He's coming home in December and is willing to take on me and my unborn child, which is part of a guy he hates. I find it so sweet that he cares that much for me to come home and treat me like nothings changed and like my child is his.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Don't overdo it by telling her you love her all the time. She'll get bored by it.
The best thing you can do to show her how much you love her (and this is difficult for men to do) is to LISTEN to her and by that I mean take an interest in what she is saying. That's it really. Nothing more to it. Just listen to her when she talks, even if she is talking utter rubbish.
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reader, WhateverMovesThee +, writes (26 September 2010):
This man once wrote me a poem that made my heart flutter when I read it. He loved and respected my family, spoiled my little god-daughter, sang to me when I couldn't sleep, and never, ever harmed or pressured me for anything. I was scared of him at first, we fell hard for each other and I kept thinking he was too good to be true, that hed seduce and leave me but he was patient with me and loved me harder the more I tried to pull away. I think of him still and cry when I read the poem now. He was everything to me. What made realize how much he loved me was when he made a jewelry box for me and carved "you hold my heart" on it and inside, my favorite flower petals and a little stone heart where he had engraved our favorite line from our favorite love song. It took him months to learn how to carve/whittle, and no one had ever gone to so much trouble for me. He had callouses, splinters etc. never complained :) I'll have that box til the day I die.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (26 September 2010):
You cant make someone love you no matter what you do, as long as you keep telling her you love her am sure that she knows, surprising her with chocolates and flowers or even teddies, most girls like this, am glad to hear that you are treating her like a princess its good to hear some good stories :-)
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