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anonymous
writes:i am interested in having anal sex with my girlfriend of a year and im not really sure on whats safe or what we should do...is it safe not to use a condom and cum inside of her or can i get an infection or something?and is there a way to clean the butt thourghly, like some type of douche?
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reader, LustyLisa +, writes (27 September 2010):
You are young so I'm guessing that your girl friend is too and you mention being interested but what about her feelings? She needs to be interested too!
Anal sex is a very risky sexual behavior and there is no such thing as safe sex or safe anal sex, although you can reduce the risk to YOURSELF by using a condom and reduce the MESS by using enema's and anal douches. But, the real burden of risk falls on the reciever and you seem like a real gem of a human being so concerned about the risk of infection and mess for YOU deal with!!!!
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (26 September 2010):
I have bled every time I've had anal sex. It is uncomfortable for at least the next day, and the possibility of getting diarrhea from it is high. It can also seriously mess up her system if done too often.
You're young, wait a few more years. Try some new positions if you guys are bored, but wait on the anal. It's a pretty big deal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): ive done it, i have to say you can use a condom but i didnt really care for it...you must must must use alot of spit or lube, and go in very slowly, make sure she is relaxed or you will HURT HER. you know what helps this is weird for me to type but sometimes if you take your thumba nd rub it against her anus and say hmm you are so sexy relax baby...its okay you ready? hmm? you ready? those words usually make her muscles less tense bc it gets her hornier...soooooo once she is relaxed put it in slowwwwwwly and then keep talking to her ask her if she is okay, if she is in pain...call her baby tell her shes sexy and once u get it all the way in...pause....and keep talking the key is to keep talking!!! then sex will come naturlaly and you will be good to go! and yeah its okay to cum in her...the problem is once u do make sure sure she washes and pee's later! prevents infection! and wash your penis too bc the anus has 1032989784738 different kinds of bacteria whichhhhhhhh cannnn be washed away with throughou cleaning.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): You absolutely should use a condom with anal sex. Anal tears are pretty likely with anal sex because, unlike a vagina, the anus isn't made to stretch, but acts more like a giant muscle, which is how feces come out.
You'll also need some really good water-based lubricant to prevent any tears or damage to her anus and to be sure that there is plenty of lube for her to be more comfortable.
What I think is interested, though, is that you're worried that anal sex will be gross. If that's the case, do you really think you're ready to try it?
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