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writes:Im 19 years old and been in my relationship for 3 years. Anyway he ends up getting drunk and having a one night stand with a girl from college and gets her pregnant. The sad part is I found out through an email she sent which says she's 7 months. What makes it even worse is im 4 months pregnant. I dnt think he was ever gonna tell me. Im really confused because he was my first with everything. I broke up with him. He continues to say she was a mistake and he only wants to be with me. i really love him but I know i deserve better. Its just so hard because i want to take him back. I cry everytime I think about it and question what did I do wrong.Where should I go from here???
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2010): He's right. It's going to be extremely difficult, but if you can persevere, you'll make it. I know it feels terrible, and it will for a long, long time but there is someone out there who is worth your time. He may not be Prince Charming, but he won't be getting other women pregnant instead of you. Stay strong girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2010): Any man who drinks and sleeps monogomously with another woman has no respect for himself so therefore how could you attain the reasonable expectation for him to respect you. First loves are hard to get over, but when it makes sense, its damn easier. Yes hes apologized, fine, thats the least he can do but that doesnt justify why you should forgive him. He's shown vulnerability to alcohol and women. He's shown he doesnt care if he gets a girl pregnant. This man is disrespectful, immature, and youre right, you deserve better.
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