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*lack diamond20
writes: I told someone that i didnt enjoy his sex now hes ignoring me but he's really sweet and i miss him we were friends before anything..how can i get our friendship back on track? ...please help! :( Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (26 September 2010):
Black diamond20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thank you both .i think that will be best. :)
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reader, DenimandLace44 +, writes (26 September 2010):
Wow, there is nothing you could have said that would have been worse. You should never never put down a man's (or a woman's) sexuality. I don't know why it is, but that is a very vulnerable subject for us all.
I know that by now you know that you made a horrible blunder and I don't know if you will be able to regain his friendship or not.
You have apologized, now just leave him alone and give him time to get past this in his own way, and in his own time. Hopefully, sometime down the road, you will be able to rebuild your friendship with him. Good luck, hon.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (26 September 2010):
Maybe just give him some time a couple of weeks to clear his head then maybe give him a text.
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (26 September 2010):
Black diamond20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have been texting him for a week now and calling i get no reply. :(
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reader, Black diamond20 +, writes (26 September 2010):
Black diamond20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni hope so thanks:)
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (26 September 2010):
Ouch that's a hard thing for someone to hear, you really should never tell any guy that, you have really damaged his ego and he is probably really hurt at the minute. This is really difficult text him and tell him that you are really sorry and that you value his friendship alot and miss him. The anger he feels will eventually fade and hopefully you'se will get your friendship back.
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