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30-35,
*heFlash07
writes:Just today my girlfriend received a text message, that told her someone she used to be friends with commited suicide, I want to be there for her, help her through this, but for some reason she won't let me. She wants to do it alone. I feel kind of bummed, is it wrong for me to want her to need me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): just make sure you are there for when she does need you, cause if you are the loving caring boyfriend, she will need you, in the mean time let her be on her own, a lot of things could be going round in her head, especially if this person meant a lot to her, maybe thats the way she deals with it on her own, but knows you are there, when she needs you for that extra comfort you are willing to give her, we all deal with bereavement a different way.
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reader, Black diamond20  +, writes (26 September 2010):
no its not at all you are showing her that you care but she probably feels she has to deal with it in her own way.:)
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