Could he have meant it when he said "I love you"?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok so I'm with this gorgeous, intelligent, and delicious latino man and everything's been good for eight months. We have 14yrs between us but we get along well (if he doesn't play 80s music and I don't try to show him the loveliness of Il Divo haha!). So we're making love the other day and he cries out, "I love you!" I'm shocked but I pretend I heard nothing. Oh this man can drive me crazy! He's so kind to me, so sweet, and yet honest. But we've never even said we were gf/bf, just that we were an "item." I heard that good love-making can drive a man to say those scary words but could he have meant it? He's NEVER said that. I get kisses on my face and lovely spanish endearments but no "love" words exactly... I mean, I've never even met his family/friends. But he now embraces me more when we're out and has referred to my 5yr old lil sis as "our baby girl." I'm reaallly curious! Insight appreciated, especially fron latino men!

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