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writes:Okay, in a 4 month relationshsip, that basically has gone awall. Awall in the effect, that we both been stubborn towards one another. She wants it one way, and I want it the other way. We both have had a tough few weeks with our jobs. She is starting a new gig, so she is non stop with that. Myself, well, a severe paycut. At one of our hurdles with in the last month, she told me that I was the one who makes the decision if we continue that relationship.From that point we have, we have carried it out another month. So what did that mean? Also just recently, she wanted to go out, and meet me somewhere for dinner, or a date. Such as coming to my area to meet. I got very defensive, and told her that is what the plans were not supposed to be. I mean in my perspective, we are in a relationship, doesnt the night carry over, at her or my place. Okay, just recently I kept texting her, and using the pet name as she would call me. She text me back ,and seiad " Please stop using " ". So I text her back "Sup". She later texted me telling me for one thing for her to call me" ". but it is really weird for me to call mysef that? I totally agree.Okay, now she texted me later in the evening saying "So how about a date on Friday. I still owe u dinner, and it will give us a chance to talk about our chaotic lives. I told her I couldnt pass that up. and that she just tells me where to go, and time to meet. What is this all reading into?Thanks.........
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reader, EvaLuna  +, writes (25 June 2010):
Well thats a bit complicated , but I know something: Being with someone is meant to make you feel happy and relaxed. Thats just making you all messed up and busy interpreting what she is trying to tell you .... If you dont love her then you can end it , if you love her then work in your feelings and end it!
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