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writes:my longtime boyfriend masterbates so often now it is getting in the way of our sex life, he is using porn to view other females and i have found pictures of him in the act on his computer, he said he did trade some with some ladies but never met any of them, do i trust him now and is this like cheating on me..i have been faitful, i have told him i love to watch as well as join in on it but this has never happened. do i stay or go...
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 masturbation is sometimes much more pleasant that having a "relationship encounter" There is baggage with the "relationship and none with self love..joinhim and sit accross from him to watch each other..it's a trip.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): Don't ask if you can join in on his masturbation. Just do it. I guarantee he will think differently about you sexually after that.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 June 2010):
 This is a pretty classic porn addiction, where the boyfriend would rather masturbate to porn than put in the time and effort of being with a real woman. There are a lot of sites out there for both people who are addicted and people who are in relationships with or married to addicts. Just google around and you'll find a good site. First realize this isn't a reflection on you and it's not because of anything you did or because you're not attractive enough. He needs to realize HE has a problem to change himself. It can't be you trying to change him, he needs to want to for himself. You can try to get him see there's a problem, but until he sees it, he can't overcome it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2010): you need to go! if he cant be with you and want all these other girls that is really bad. he should want you. its just saying he wants other girls and is attracted to them. you need to move and a get a one woman man. he should want YOUR body and ONLY YOU.
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reader, showoff201 +, writes (25 June 2010):
I don't think you should give up on ur chronic masturbating boyfriend just yet! I actually consider this cheating and I believe most girls would have been left already so my advice to you would be to tell him that what hes doing is unacceptable and he needs to stop NOW!! Honestly!!! I find it shockin that a guy would allow his girlfriend to find this out!
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