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writes:I had a serious dream that my boyfriend was cheating on me with some chick. i've been suspisious but now its driving me crazy. what should i do he says i'm too emotional for him Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 June 2010):
It was just a dream. That proves nothing. If you're suspicious and you're basing your suspicions on the dream, then drop them. If you're suspicious because there are other problems in your relationship, then it's time to look rationally at your relationship and think about this. But don't blow your relationship up over a dream.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (25 June 2010):
 You probably had a dream about it, because you were suspicious; not because it's a premonition.
I have dreams almost every night like that, although I know my husband is not cheating on me.
Just remember, that it doesn't do any good to ask him over and over if he's cheating on you. All that will do is drive him up the wall, cause a fight, and give you the same answer you've probably heard a thousand times.
If he is someone who you really cant trust, then why should you have to live everyday in fear of him? You should be with someone who does not break your trust or make you paranoid.
If you paranoia however, is not caused by anything that he is doing or has done, but simply your graetest fear, then i recommend holding your tongue. Quiet yourself, imagine the answer he would give you if you were to ask the pressing question on your mind, let time pass, eat some ice cream, and let it go.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (25 June 2010):
 You should let it go. It was just a dream. Do you take dreams about other things seriously? Dreams aren't based on anything in reality. No sense driving your boyfriend away over your imagination.
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